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To ask about totally inappropriate behaviour at wedding?

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Notallthatx · 06/07/2026 12:50

Was at a seemingly lovely wedding at the weekend. Beautiful setting and lovely ceremony.

One of my friends was chief bridesmaid and she had put so much effort into making the day perfect for the happy couple. But she started to drink a lot after the ceremony and by the end of dinner she was very tipsy and all over the singer from the wedding band. They had been playing some acoustic songs throughout the day and she kept making requests. It was obvious she fancied him.

Later on, one of the other guys from the band was lovely and asked if I had seen their singer because they were setting up for their evening set. I mentioned that my friend was also missing so went to look for them together. We joked that maybe they had eloped or something.

But nothing prepared me for what I was about to witness. Behind the outdoor toilets, my friend was down on her knees giving the singer from the band oral. I was mortified and the other guy from the band told me his friend had done this a few times. We are not even sure if they seen us and I’ve been too embarrassed to bring it up with my friend.

On the up side, the other guy from the band was really sweet and we danced a bit later that night and swapped numbers.

What is the craziest thing you’ve ever witnessed at a wedding?

OP posts:
thegrandoleduchess · 11/07/2026 21:20

KeepPumping · 11/07/2026 21:13

The band guy must have thought he had been time travelled back to a Led Zeppelin tour in 1972, he will be trying to remember what song he played before his cock suddenly became more interesting to the audience than the band.

You'll have to explain that post because I am a bit too young to remember Led Zeppelin !

KeepPumping · 11/07/2026 21:41

thegrandoleduchess · 11/07/2026 21:20

You'll have to explain that post because I am a bit too young to remember Led Zeppelin !

Just search Led Zeppelin tour behaviour, it is pretty self-explanatory anyway.

deepseaargyllfish · 11/07/2026 23:33

I once went to a wedding where the groom made a medium-length, excessively emotional speech all about his fierce love… for his best man.

I was embarrassed for the bride.

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