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AIBU we don’t want to see your bra

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longlocks · 22/05/2026 17:12

Just seen a woman wearing a red boob tube with a grubby white strapped bra. If she can’t find a strapless bra that fits, why buy and wear boop tubes or any other clothing that shows off bra straps. Not a good look.

Why do women think it’s ok to wear clothes like this

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hypnovic · Today 15:30

Mind your business

HolzGainz · Today 15:35

I wear strapless dresses and bras with straps. I've got big boobs and I can wear what I want. Women have boobs. Some of us need the support of straps. Someone call the police.

longlocks · Today 17:22

Livelovebehappy · Today 07:16

Tbh I get more offended by the current trend of men walking around topless. When did this become a thing? Yesterday in the warm weather just lots of men with white pasty bodies thinking it okay to have their moobs on display. At the beach whilst sunbathing = fine. At Tesco doing a weekly shop = not fine.

The men who do this are
. skinny or have a massive beer belly
. Covered with tattoos

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LlynTegid · Today 17:34

StarlightLady · Today 15:24

And 3 weeks for sight of knickers.

Much less likely now more women wear trousers or in hot weather shorts. To have the benefit of pockets or stop the possibility of upskirting.

XenoBitch · Today 17:39

I did see a guy in Greggs the other day who was topless, and very buxom. I could see his moobs from behind.
But I was mad at him anyway because him and his partner seemed to think there was a 'buy 1, get 8 free' deal in there (shoplifting).

Mindyourown33 · Today 18:26

Why do you have to be so judgemental, personally think you should keep your nose out and get on with your own life clearly isnt interesting enough.

suburburban · Today 18:39

Must admit to wearing a strappy top today with bra straps but if I went out I’d put a shirt over my shoulders.

strapless bras don’t seem to lift me and my boobs look weird

FormerLondoner · Today 18:59

some people just have low standards for themselves

MustWeDoThis · Today 21:21

longlocks · 22/05/2026 17:12

Just seen a woman wearing a red boob tube with a grubby white strapped bra. If she can’t find a strapless bra that fits, why buy and wear boop tubes or any other clothing that shows off bra straps. Not a good look.

Why do women think it’s ok to wear clothes like this

I had my bra straps on show today. I always do when it's warm, and a lot when it's not. What are you going to do about it apart from crying on the internet?

Snowflake.

MustWeDoThis · Today 21:23

FormerLondoner · Today 18:59

some people just have low standards for themselves

That stick must be mighty uncomfortable in this weather. Might want to pull it out a bit.

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