AIBU we don’t want to see your bra

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Just seen a woman wearing a red boob tube with a grubby white strapped bra. If she can’t find a strapless bra that fits, why buy and wear boop tubes or any other clothing that shows off bra straps. Not a good look.

Why do women think it’s ok to wear clothes like this

Breastfeeding obvs

I don’t like floral dresses, culottes, fascinators and clam diggers. Others do and that’s fine.

Oh no!

I grew up panicking about my bra strap showing and not being able to wear many tops in case it happened - going braless was not an option as I’m booby. It’s been such a relief not to worry about that any more as I thought people were no longer uptight about it. There are also so many pretty bra straps that become part of the outfit.

I didn’t realise people like the OP were still judging.

Go for it! I'm probably way too old to be wearing neon bras, but sod it.

There's some great ones on Amazon and they're a reasonable price.

Just 101, to log it?

Ooh strapless bras give me a weird shape, they didn’t used to

It looks like a failure. You can see the intended effect and you can see even more clearly that it failed.

Actual straps just look like part of an intended aesthetic. You might not like the aesthetic but it's better than a failed attempt to be invisible.

Why do women think it’s ok to wear clothes like this

Because it's ok for people to wear any clothes they want, no one has to dress to suit your delicate sensibilities

I’d take the bra strap over some of the sights today! One bit of sun and people loose any sense of decency in the clothing department. I don’t want to see bum cheeks, your breasts hanging out or rolls of fat - I’m not a skinny woman myself and manage to cover all the above

God i hate facinators with a passion, but sparkly hair slides are fine, i love a stylish french comb! Some things just give a gut reaction, it's not rational but it's cool that we're not all the same.

I was at Nando’s recently in the queue, there was a young woman wearing thin cotton pale blue skin tight hot pants and a crop top. Could literally see every detail of her vulva. She might as well have not bothered with the shorts and just painted herself pale blue.
I mean her choice and all that, my only thought was that she was incredibly brave wearing skintight pale blue with no knickers… a slight bit of bodily fluid would stand out a mile! My conclusion was she must have been wearing a tampon to prevent and fluids escaping! Yes I seriously overthought this while in the queue 😂

No outfit should be causing you to think of bodily fluids 🤣 it sounds horrendous.

I'd be terrified about sneezing!

Bra strap-tacky
Grubby bra strap-slovenly

@Anonemousse yes me too! These were all the thoughts going through my mind! 😂

I wouldn’t wear that combination myself. Couldn’t give a shit what other people wear though.

I honestly, and I mean this very sincerely, could not give two shits how other people dress. Absolutely zero of my business.

It’s not a great look but I struggle to care

A menstrual cup would be a better option.
nb NOT talking from experience of tiny pale shorts!

Yet on the thread yesterday about what secondary aged girls wear to school this is all totally fine and just normal bodies.

I can't get upset about straps.

Leave her alone.

Most of us, as we grow up, realise that the content of our character matters far more than what we look like.

I'd rather have an "ugly" bra strap showing than have such ugly thoughts about other women.

It doesn't sound particularly stylish, but a bra strap isn't in anyway offensive.