Matcha, leggings with socks over, botox, yada yada yada

[Wheredidallthegoodonesgo]

So bored of it.

This is nearly every mum in my area, pilates & matcha, botox and handyman & cleaner recommendations. No depth, no real worries..basic.

Aibu to want to meet funny, down to earth mums with depth and interesting pasts and conversations?

Yes most likely! The socks over leggings has been for far too long!

What is it now then?

Ha ha, yep plenty of self proclaimed ‘Nutritionists’ wellness type people, Cacoa ceremonies, therapists..all rich husbands too and created jobs maybe? I may be wrong

I'm probably more your kind of person. Leggings yes but ankle socks, pilates not so much currently as I'm training for a half marathon. matcha definitely not. Interesting past, I think so. Deep thinker yes. Botox hard no . I'm also funny.

Have you heard of west brigford? It’s London but in Nottingham all million pound houses and totally joyless people who wouldnt smile even if they could

I don’t know it…sounds pleasant 😂

What makes you think you’re funny and interesting?

This feels like rage bait… or more of a YOU problem. I don’t drink matcha, but I do do Pilates, and wear socks over leggings etc but do not let appearances fool you. I feel like if you tried to scratch the surface there is far more to these women that you are assuming are just boring middle class Mums with not much to talk about.
Me personally, I could be easily passed off as one of those at first glance. But I am very well educated and speak 4 languages. Not that I’m saying that makes me better than anyone I’m simply trying to say just because I wear leggings with socks and do Pilates doesn’t mean I’m brainless or incapable of intelligent or engaging conversation. I also have an incredibly difficult home life having lost a sibling very young in the last 6 months, another sibling with cancer and two aging parents with Alzheimer’s. If you tried to get to know these women I’m sure you would find there is a lot more to them than meets the eye. Everyone has their own stuff going on that you have no idea about. Why not even give them a chance before painting them all with the same brush? It doesn’t sound like you are making much of an effort at all. I think perhaps you should take a look at yourself before being so quick to judge others that you know nothing about.

You sound mean. This is why you don’t have friends.

My best friend lives in West Bridgford, she’s hilarious and full of joy!

Probably people sick of discussing Trump, Palestine, Iran, CoL, Interest rates, Starmer, Farage, Immigration and all the other utter BS that dominates the news.

So tell me, what’s their favourite type of matcha?

replace the matcha with an oat flat white and that’s me. Basic I am not 😂 I consider myself quite good company 💃

Women that exercise in appropriate clothing? Heavens.

I’m a basic bitch wearing leggings and socks right now. I’ve been on a hike and they wash and dry faster than anything else if they get muddy.

I wear them to Pilates with grippy socks (mat, not reformer - I’m not just basic, I’m old school) because I’m the kind of basic bitch that can stand on one leg with the other in the air while my husband fucks me from behind. I could hold an in depth conversation about my hip abductors and flexors for days.

I wear them to my strength class, where I lift heavy weights to distract from my completely lightweight brain.

I’d rather be a basic bitch than the mean girl snide nasty sort of bitch, though.

Chai for me.

I drink Matcha for the health benefits but I don't go to Pilates nor wear leggings,

I have lots of friends it’s ok and i’m not actually mean

Although your comment was 😢

I always think this when people complain about others being boring

@Wheredidallthegoodonesgo

So why do you think that you’re superior to those women, OP?

I never said I was superior

You sound like my kind of gal! 😂

I think you are. Seriously. Just for refusing to conform and use botox for starters..

Most women don’t use Botox.

You sound a bit judgey. You don't know that they're basic or have now worries. It sounds like you're looking for friends but with that attitude I can see why you haven't managed to make any.

Never heard of grippy socks. Are they guaranteed to defy gravity and never fall down.

Might get a pair for my gran to use as bed socks. Just the job. Thanks for the information.. She can let the know on Gransnet.
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Really???? When I was a student it was for the less fun students who didn’t want to live in Lenton. I don’t think I ever actually went….