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Would you judge some who’s clothing is mostly primark or supermarket brands

353 replies

Shopping7777 · 25/04/2026 19:33

It’s me by the way and that’s the case for my clothes

OP posts:
Beesandhoney123 · 25/04/2026 23:06

Lidl linen shirts for men are very good quality, wash and iron brilliantly and look fab on. They are about £3 in the sale.

I couldn't tell, if you take care of your clothes, ironed, they fit properly and suit your shape.

Are you judging yourself? I buy vintage, and sew my own clothes. My dm would be horrified :)

MasterBeth · 25/04/2026 23:08

I wouldn't know and wouldn't care.

Meteorite87 · 25/04/2026 23:13

No.

ITMA2000 · 25/04/2026 23:15

Whosthetabbynow · 25/04/2026 19:35

Depends. If you were on a high wage and couldn’t be bothered to spend more, yes. If you couldn’t afford to buy more expensive clothes, no.

I've always saved over £1000 per month every month because I can't be bothered to spend money on anything. I drive an old banger and buy George or F&F clothes. Sometimes family buy me expensive stuff but I rarely wear it. I buy other people quite expensive gifts. People have different priorities.

JustSawJohnny · 25/04/2026 23:18

Only if I was a snobbish, judgey twunt, in which case you'd be well within your rights to tell me to fuck right off.

Victoriangirl1900 · 25/04/2026 23:25

I remember when you wouldn't be seen dead in BWise. If your friends found out your parents got your clothes from BWise you got picked on for it.

GentrifyNow · 25/04/2026 23:27

Wouldn't even notice.
I am fussy with my clothes, shoes and (mostly) bags but I never notice anyone else's.

Soccerislife · 25/04/2026 23:27

Who would even notice? I wear a mix of Kmart (aussie discount store), Target online (another) and a range of other stores like uniqlo and Zara. I don’t buy designer clothing.

Right now I’m wearing leggings from Kmart and a tshirt from Temu (I’ve just got back from park run).

Soccerislife · 25/04/2026 23:28

Ps I realised ages ago that firstly I dress for myself (and my job on office days) and secondly if you are going to invest in anything it’s properly fitted bras!

SouthernNights59 · 25/04/2026 23:33

Whosthetabbynow · 25/04/2026 19:35

Depends. If you were on a high wage and couldn’t be bothered to spend more, yes. If you couldn’t afford to buy more expensive clothes, no.

Talk about the definition of a shallow person! Thank goodness I don't know anyone like you in real life.

Downunderduchess · 25/04/2026 23:34

I legitimately only care about my own clothes. Where people get theirs from is their business.

MermaidMummy06 · 25/04/2026 23:41

I bought two nice designer brand tops from tkmaxx a couple of weeks ago. Hung them in my cupboard & they looked exactly like my department store tops!! I don't buy clothes online as the quality is usually terrible & I'm difficult to fit.

My SIL only buys designer & honestly couldn't tell the difference.

Most designer clothes are now made in the same quality/places as cheap clothes to try & compete. I think it's about selection. Some clothes look cheap and will lose shape, some won't. Doesn't matter where they come from. Most of my clothes are years old as we only buy what we need.

Didimum · 25/04/2026 23:45

I don’t think it’s great to buy from unethical clothing sources no. Sainsbury’s is one of the only supermarket brands that has a fairly high ethical rating.

However, in this cost of living crisis, it’s hard to give a hoot how people clothe themselves or their kids.

Doesmybooklookbiginthis · 25/04/2026 23:53

BiteSizedLife · 25/04/2026 22:17

I do not notice where people's clothes come from but i do notice:

  • if they are clean and smell nice
  • if they are properly pressed/ironed (no shiny patches from too high heat etc)
  • natural fabrics (these tend to withstand ironing better see point above)
  • if they are combined in a thoughtful way
  • if they fit properly
  • if they are an appropriate style for the setting
  • if they are well cared for (no hanging threads, missing buttons, pulled threads, bobbly-bits on wool etc etc

If you take care of these things, I think you will avoid what I assume you are concerned about....

I am always in clean clothes. But I have an (invisible) physical disability that prevents me ironing. If you look down on me because of the creases in my clothes that is a judgement on you as a person not me. I couldn't care less if you do, I am far too busy enjoying life with friends and family, reading books, exploring the world, working (in a complex technical career) and volunteering

I dont really notice what other people wear. I notice how they treat others and whether they are interesting /funny /kind

BiteSizedLife · 26/04/2026 06:28

Doesmybooklookbiginthis · 25/04/2026 23:53

I am always in clean clothes. But I have an (invisible) physical disability that prevents me ironing. If you look down on me because of the creases in my clothes that is a judgement on you as a person not me. I couldn't care less if you do, I am far too busy enjoying life with friends and family, reading books, exploring the world, working (in a complex technical career) and volunteering

I dont really notice what other people wear. I notice how they treat others and whether they are interesting /funny /kind

I didn't say I look down on it.

I said I notice it.

I am sorry for your disability, but in your rush to be angry and offended you misunderstood my post. Have a great Sunday.

(edited for typo - in my rush to respond I did not proof read 😀)

Laurmolonlabe · 26/04/2026 07:18

BrightBlueFlamingo · 25/04/2026 22:33

Just been to a family wedding ( posh barn type thing ) in a £10 charity shop maxi dress ( new with tags ).
Got loads of compliments and felt really good, so no, absolutely wouldn't judge!

Exactly this, if you want to spend money on your look and don't have much to spend, spend it on a really good bra , or other foundation.
I bought a £10 beaded dress in a charity shop, I have a very generous bust so I wore it over a corset- it was good enough for the red carpet, easily.

OvertiredAndEmotional · 26/04/2026 07:35

I wouldn’t notice.

Boomer55 · 26/04/2026 07:37

I wouldn’t know or care where anyone’s clothes come from. Just dress for yourself and your purse. 🙂

notatinydancer · 26/04/2026 08:46

Absolutely not.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 26/04/2026 10:19

MermaidMummy06 · 25/04/2026 23:41

I bought two nice designer brand tops from tkmaxx a couple of weeks ago. Hung them in my cupboard & they looked exactly like my department store tops!! I don't buy clothes online as the quality is usually terrible & I'm difficult to fit.

My SIL only buys designer & honestly couldn't tell the difference.

Most designer clothes are now made in the same quality/places as cheap clothes to try & compete. I think it's about selection. Some clothes look cheap and will lose shape, some won't. Doesn't matter where they come from. Most of my clothes are years old as we only buy what we need.

Exactly! In my younger days when I had more money, I liked a bit of Chloe, Joseph, max mara etc. I still do occasionally buy designer. I’m now mid range or supermarket. I read Grazia sometimes or insta profiles for tips as I like to be on trend. I’m not slavishly following fashion though. But to be honest unless you mix with people wearing it, (designer) you have to be quite eagle eyed to tell the difference. If you have a good sense of style you can wear a bin liner and you’d look good!

ilovebrie8 · 26/04/2026 10:22

How would anyone know unless you’ve got labels out …no one cares!

GellerYeller · 26/04/2026 10:31

I judge people on how decent they are a a person, not where they bought their clothes.
If it helps, OP, I know someone very wealthy and at special occasions, she dresses from Tesco and M and S. Her reasoning is that no one else will be wearing the same thing (and to be fair when I complimented her outfit, I’d assumed it was expensive).

Overthehillmum63 · 26/04/2026 10:52

Of course not, it has no bearing on you as a person.

usedtobeaylis · 26/04/2026 10:56

MandemChickenShop · 25/04/2026 19:46

Is this an ethical question?

Fast fashion is unsustainable and consumers mindlessly supporting it need to give their heads a wobble.

However, this isn't exactly the same as buying clothes at a supermarket, if you cherish them, are selective of material choice and use them for very many years. But this would be atypical I suppose.

Community Clothing and charity shops only for me.

I used to buy loads from charity shops, there were five in a small radius in my area. There are now four and the vast majority of the clothes are M&S, and I mean granny style M&S. All the good stuff goes the 'better' areas of the city.

usedtobeaylis · 26/04/2026 10:58

I also don't think you can necessarily tell when something is cheap. There are exceptions to that but generally, you can maybe tell when something is expensive and well made, but not necessarily that something is cheap - supermarkets and a lot of the high street stuff is fairly similar. And actually Primark isn't necessarily 'cheap' any more.

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