I came out of a 20 year marriage 3 years ago. 2 children aged 5 and 8. I have dated in the past but nothing serious. However I met somebody recently and we got on so well etc but I feel completely smothered. He wants to be with me every second I don’t have the kids and I just want some time to myself. He has invited himself over the Easter holiday as the kids are away with their dad and I just feel exhausted at the thought of it.
his background is he has no children. Still lives with his mum and was previously cheated on because apparently he was too nice?
in the mornings I am very busy getting the kids to school/getting to work etc. if I don’t answer within an hour he messages again and rings me and I just don’t need that.
he is a nice guy but maybe I just don’t want a relationship? Or is he too clingy?
we have been seeing each other for around 6 months.