90 year old male watching naked women on tv

[BetteDavisChin]

My cousin told me that her 90yo dad watches 'Babestation' (ugh, makes me feel queasy just typing that word).
He asked her to fix his phone at the weekend and she saw he had 572 you tube videos on it, some thumbnail stills showing close ups of young women's crotches (clothed).
She was upset and said she couldn't believe that a man of his age was looking at stuff like that. She also told me (which I didn't know before) that in the 60s/70s he used to go to the pub on work lunch times and Sunday afternoons to watch strippers.
I said I agree that it's gross, but try not to judge him, but she wasn't happy with me about that and she left. She hasn't returned my text messages since then.
I am going to give her a few days to process what's happened, then try to contact her again.
But AIBU to also be grossed out by the thought of my aged uncle perving over young women?

Good that, to some extent, times have changed.

Exactly. no-one thought there was anything wrong with the page 3 models at the time, and many people still wouldn’t see anything wrong with it. They were laid well and several of the newspaper models went on to have very lucrative careers.

Yes by thinking about/imagining women, ones they know, ones on the telly, ones on the street.

They wont be thinking about the shopping list

It really makes no odds if its from something they are watching there and then or something they have seen or from thinking about Lorraine Kelly (first person off the top of my head).

Yes, (not to George Clooney personally, he's always looked like an old grandad to me), but as I said, few and fair between, who else you got?

The very idea that the older person (and thats me) are much more attractive and sexually desirable than people in their 20-40s is a real reach that you would probably only be arguing on this website.

His wallet is very handsome!

Bet she would be more concerned if he wanked over men 🤷‍♂️

Why is he a pervy man if he wants to have a nice time looking at pictures of pretty women?
it’s as though women never have a wank…

It’s just horrible to think of an old man leering at girls the same age as his granddaughters!

But they are not his granddaughters…. So hopefully he wouldn’t be aroused by them!
people, yes that’s men and WOMEN watch porn and have a wank…
wonder how many women on here horrified have a drawer full of sex toys?
bet you only ever think about your partner when your doing it?

What about people on this thread quoting the attractiveness of men older enough to be their fathers or grandfathers. Is that ok?

Geoff, Brucie and George? I mean we're all about the grandad pin up now arent we?

Not the same. Old men lusting after the crotches of young girls- just seedy, vulgar and mucky! Can’t explain it- it just is!

Misleading title OP

The women aren’t naked

As far as I am aware, sex toys are not sentient and likely to be exploited. Neither are fantasies.

What a very odd mindset!

So you have never used said toys and thought of someone else or watched ‘things’ ??

your saying it’s ok if he used a flashlight and a pic of his wife?

Ah right!

But they must have been thinking about women's bodies though, probably real women -women that they knew!

Is that better or worse-masturbating to a celluloid image or tossing one off picturing your child's teacher, the vicar's wife or the next door neighbour.

One thing is for sure-men have been masturbating since Adam was a lad and I can't see it stopping any time soon whether they look at a channel, a magazine or dreams of fancying Kate from the chip shop and what she could do.

Of course fantasy is better than images of potentially exploited women. And nobody is trying to stop anyone masturbating-don’t be silly.

Im also loving the naivety on this thread, much like others of this subject, that arent things so much different since the 'bad old days' of page 3, topless women on your KP nuts etc etc

Yes with Naked Attraction, various reality shows where people are getting off with each other all the time and barely dressed, highly pornified sexualised young pop stars with sexualised dance routines the like of which you never saw when I was growing up unless it was at one of these sex clubs or stripper shows. Its now day to day, mundane pop stardom to wear tight leather and grind your way around the stage with your 9 year old female fans screaming

So much better.

i was not minimising anything all i asked was why is it wrong for a male to objectify a female, yet society seems its ok for females to do it ?

They have to have something to masturbate about!

I don't know. I would rather Grant from down the road wanked to women paid to show their arse than fantasised about mine!

Each to their own though...you would prefer they wanked about you but I wouldn't like them to wank about me.

I don’t want Grant to masturbate about me either. But I definitely don’t want him to masturbate over a potentially exploited or even trafficked women. People are distressingly blase about the lives of “sex workers”.

I REALLY don’t want grant to have a wank about me…… 😵🤣

I mean he’s still a bloke… they don’t become ‘re-innocent’ as they age. If he’s always been a letch then he will be until the day he dies.

Good on him. There’s life in the old dog yet

Maybe he'll be wanking over your teen daughter 🤷🏻‍♀️ I mean you're such an advocate so it shouldn't be a problem right?