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Cost of husband’s 40th party

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naavaaira · 22/01/2026 16:23

Posting here for traffic.
I am organising a surprise party for my husband’s 40th. He is the kind who loves being centre of attention and would love the surprise! I have never ever organised a proper event like this so have no idea of average cost and your input would be appreciated. I’m looking to cater his favourite Turkish food, inflatable night club in the garden, alcohol, cake, nibbles, and other bits all coming to around £1200 for 16 adults and 8 kids. Does that sound average or a lot?

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GlasgowGal2014 · 22/01/2026 17:12

Clefable · 22/01/2026 16:43

My friends and I always say that we would love to do soft play without the kids and while a bit tipsy!

Adultwww.thethreedrinkers.com/magazine-content/tag/adults-only+soft+play+centre++edinburgh

ldnmusic87 · 22/01/2026 17:12

Sounds good, I did one and and asked people to bring a bottle or desert instead of a gift.

ThisDaringOchrePombear · 22/01/2026 17:15

Amonthinthecountry · 22/01/2026 16:57

That’s hilarious! I can’t believe you remember the date this happened or did you then diarise that too?!

We need a separate thread for this...

pinkspeakers · 22/01/2026 17:18

Only you know if you can afford it. But £50 per head for a full evening of food, drink, entertainment and birthday gubbins sounds reasonable to me.

Parsleyforme · 22/01/2026 17:18

Redcandlescandal · 22/01/2026 16:50

Inflatable garden nightclub? Are you ready for your neighbours to all hate you?

Give over, it’s only for one night. OP will probably warn the neighbours

Christmaseree · 22/01/2026 17:19

I think people will bring drink, even when I asked all my guests what they like and bought the spirits they preferred etc and said don’t bring anything I think everyone still arrived with a bottle of something (mainly Prosecco and Champagne).

Passingthrough123 · 22/01/2026 17:20

Redcandlescandal · 22/01/2026 16:50

Inflatable garden nightclub? Are you ready for your neighbours to all hate you?

This, unless you've got a big garden and you're in a detached property.

Plus, outdoor party in Feb? Guessing you can't be in UK!

WeAreNotOk · 22/01/2026 17:21

Just googled inflatable nightclubs and they look fab! Smoke,lights and sound system included too. Your budget sounds spot on.
I'd love to be your neighbour, even if I just nosied over the fence and got offered a cheeky drink.
You have a lucky DH. Please let it know how it all goes and post pics! Them's the rules.

GreenGodiva · 22/01/2026 17:21

Clefable · 22/01/2026 16:43

My friends and I always say that we would love to do soft play without the kids and while a bit tipsy!

Pleasure island in Liverpool had the BEST giant soft play I’ve ever seen along with a bowling alley and roller ring and zip lines etc and they used to do adult only sessions. Was brilliant and I really miss that place, it was epic.

BIWI · 22/01/2026 17:22

ClicketyBayey · 22/01/2026 16:29

I hope it’s not February 10th because on that day

Monday February 10th 1986 I came home from school to discover my mum had read my diary! 😮

Believe me OP you did not want to be me that evening !!!!!! The trauma!!!!!

What a bizarre response. How on earth do you think this is relevant or helpful?

Zanatdy · 22/01/2026 17:23

My eldest son’s 18th was around £1000 13yrs ago, sounds good to me.

silverwrath · 22/01/2026 17:29

Just youtubed inflatable nightclub. Never heard of one before. Looks fab!!! 🎉🥳

Hope hubby has a great night. 🍾🎈

Endorewitch · 22/01/2026 17:32

Excellent value. I have never managed to host a special party for that number of people ,for that price .

Chiaseedling · 22/01/2026 17:39

ClicketyBayey · 22/01/2026 16:29

I hope it’s not February 10th because on that day

Monday February 10th 1986 I came home from school to discover my mum had read my diary! 😮

Believe me OP you did not want to be me that evening !!!!!! The trauma!!!!!

😜 oh dear!
I once accidentally left my ‘holiday diary’ in my mum’s room as I was talking to my friend on the phone extension (the days where you had to be where the phone was!) about the trip and using the diary as a memory aid. It wasn’t too bad but my mum of course read it ‘it was on my bed!’ and found out the naughty things we’d got up to!

Christmasjoyis · 22/01/2026 17:41

Sounds very good - cheap. Mine is coming out at 8k but we’re having to do it at a venue

JaffavsCookie · 22/01/2026 17:42

Sounds an awesome party. Whilst it is a lot of money, it is actually good value for what you are getting.
Hope he loves it

MangosteenSoda · 22/01/2026 17:42

Does the inflatable nightclub have a roof? The only part of this plan that is concerning to me is planning a garden party in Feb.

Edit: should have googled before posting. Looks incredible, I want one!

madaboutpurple · 22/01/2026 17:46

I am glad you are not my neighbour as it seems it will be a noisy event. That would drive me mad OP.I hope it goes well and that you finish at a reasonable hour. Please remember your neighbours might be nurses/doctors who need their sleep. I wouldn't like to go to a mobile nightclub myself and I would be concerned with upsetting neighbours. Would you be able to book an indoor venue?

AwfullyGood · 22/01/2026 17:47

It sounds brilliant. Loving the inflatable nightclub (just googled!).

I now want to convince one of my friends that we need a party in an inflatabe nightclub too.

madaboutpurple · 22/01/2026 17:47

Is there a reason that you have decided on a garden event rather than hold it at a Turkish restaurant?

Ihatelittlefriendsusan · 22/01/2026 17:55

Sounds reasonable got what you are getting for it.

Dh was 50 last year, we have a low key do at a local social club

Room hire - free
Dj - £80
Buffet catering for 50 - £350
Look on DH's face when he walked in to what he thought was a family fun night - priceless!

If you can afford it then its fine!

CountryMouse22 · 22/01/2026 17:56

I've never seen an inflatable night club!

Amonthinthecountry · 22/01/2026 17:59

ThisDaringOchrePombear · 22/01/2026 17:15

We need a separate thread for this...

Pahaha! I second this!

CaseClosedWineOpened · 22/01/2026 18:00

Thank you for teaching me that inflatable nightclubs exist 🤩 🪩

I hope you have a fantastic party - the price sounds reasonable to me.

itsthetea · 22/01/2026 18:01

Have a great party !