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Cost of husband’s 40th party

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naavaaira · 22/01/2026 16:23

Posting here for traffic.
I am organising a surprise party for my husband’s 40th. He is the kind who loves being centre of attention and would love the surprise! I have never ever organised a proper event like this so have no idea of average cost and your input would be appreciated. I’m looking to cater his favourite Turkish food, inflatable night club in the garden, alcohol, cake, nibbles, and other bits all coming to around £1200 for 16 adults and 8 kids. Does that sound average or a lot?

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SnappyJadeJoker · 26/01/2026 08:49

PickleRickChick · 26/01/2026 05:45

Are you being serious right now?

Recently spent over £900 on mu childs fourth birthday. I'm 40 in 3 years and 15 of us are going to Las Vegas for a week. The flights alone cost much more than this man's entire party

In comparison this "garden party" seems cheap and inconsiderate. Who on earth wants to attend a garden party in a blow up shed in a garden in February...

Mind your business and your tax bracket

AppleDumplingWithCustard · 26/01/2026 19:19

SnappyJadeJoker · 26/01/2026 08:49

Recently spent over £900 on mu childs fourth birthday. I'm 40 in 3 years and 15 of us are going to Las Vegas for a week. The flights alone cost much more than this man's entire party

In comparison this "garden party" seems cheap and inconsiderate. Who on earth wants to attend a garden party in a blow up shed in a garden in February...

Mind your business and your tax bracket

Well you sound lovely. 🙄

Grampy60 · 27/01/2026 09:57

pinkspeakers · 22/01/2026 17:18

Only you know if you can afford it. But £50 per head for a full evening of food, drink, entertainment and birthday gubbins sounds reasonable to me.

Exactly this. Sounds like a reasonable price as long as it's a realistic budget for you. There is a tendency for people to overspend massively on things like birthdays, cars and particularly weddings (and then complain about being skint) so as long as you can afford to do it, then do it. It certainly doesn't sound extravagant, hope you have fun!

pinkspeakers · 27/01/2026 11:06

miss79guided · 24/01/2026 19:43

Yes - it is cheap - community centre / church hall
> You DONT have to worry about your property - that gift from aunt Betty - childrens first tooth - the smell of vomit on the curtains ...
Just turn up, party away - go home - the centre has a cleaner

why would I be worried about the smell of vomit on the curtains if I have a party at home??

my home is a much nicer venue than a cheap community centre, and nobody has every vomited on my curtains! Or stolen anything, or broken anything other than a wine glass.

miss79guided · 28/01/2026 23:30

pinkspeakers · 27/01/2026 11:06

why would I be worried about the smell of vomit on the curtains if I have a party at home??

my home is a much nicer venue than a cheap community centre, and nobody has every vomited on my curtains! Or stolen anything, or broken anything other than a wine glass.

A general worry - apply the theory ...
> There IS always a first for everythin

ThePrecisionsifthisislove · 29/01/2026 02:43

Garden party in Feb ?

miss79guided · 29/01/2026 08:43

Any style - open air - can access (portable) outdoor heaters

miss79guided · 29/01/2026 21:10

ThePrecisionsifthisislove · 29/01/2026 02:43

Garden party in Feb ?

Yes - please keep up
> You DID it as a teen - drinin on the park
What IS the difference, now it IS legal

ThePrecisionsifthisislove · 29/01/2026 21:18

No drinin on the park for me.
I was far more sophisticated it was Northern soul nites and niters for me.

miss79guided · 30/01/2026 05:37

... was far more sophisticated
> Same thing - just a different format

miss79guided · 30/01/2026 05:48

ThePrecisionsifthisislove · 29/01/2026 21:18

No drinin on the park for me.
I was far more sophisticated it was Northern soul nites and niters for me.

Obviously NOT sophisticated ENOUGH

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ThePrecisionsifthisislove · 30/01/2026 06:07

You're bonkers ta ta.🙋

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ThePrecisionsifthisislove · 30/01/2026 20:07

Leave me alone.

ForTheForseeable · 30/01/2026 20:53

Well this thread gets weirder by the day doesn't it.

miss79guided · 02/02/2026 01:16

ForTheForseeable · 30/01/2026 20:53

Well this thread gets weirder by the day doesn't it.

ONLY when you reply ForTheForseeable does it get weird
> The rest of the time, (some) people are enjoyin Guinness

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