I am friendly with DSIL and we get along well. She text me earlier to ask what outfit I’ve planned for Christmas Day (as we are all at MIL’s house this year).
It turns out we’ve planned something very similar, near identical infact.
She has suggested I wear something else so we aren’t matching.
I purchased the outfit specifically for the day so am reluctant to. She has already travelled down to MIL’s (she lives 3 hours from her) so doesn’t have an alternative.
Am I unreasonable to stick to what I plan to wear? It’s not as if we are going out on the day.