When what you're saying is absurd, you have to reach for every form of argument (or rather, coercion) other than "because it's true". When you're trying to make men's wants outrank both women's needs and reality itself, you get this.
Like Sall Grover said, I'm just done with it. Men aren't women. They just aren't. That's a shame for all the nice ones who wish they were but they still aren't. There are plenty of nice women who wish they were men so they didn't have to deal with periods, menopause etc, and that's a shame for them, but they still aren't men.
Horrible and violent men aren't women, nice and lovely men aren't women. Men just aren't women.