I hit the wrong button OP, ofc you are NOT being unreasonable (I’m on the app and not sure how to change it).
Brava to Jo as usual. What is the point of this ‘celebration’ anyway, what have these “dolls” actually achieved to be anything of the year? It’s so deliberately goady, it’s laughable, but we can’t afford to ignore it. The focus shifts from the scary ‘cross dressers’ to ‘these are just artsy, fey creatives expressing themselves, they won’t harm you. Only vile people would pick on them’ narratives to bully us in to silence.
Why are we supposed to pretend they aren’t lying to us and themselves? That they’re not stealing spaces and platforms designed for women? Given front pages of large publications to gaslight us all, especially the younger demographic the magazine targets, to pretend these emperors new clothes are very fine indeed?