Whos in the wrong? me or him..... hes blocked me on everything

[courtneyk92]

Been seeing some guy for a few months, almost love at first sight, he seemed obsessive over me, we've known each other 3 Years, and I finally gave him a chance a few months ago, but he seemed a little jealous and possessive, so to see how he'd react a few days ago he tried to put me down, and I said "a lot of guys like me, I like me as I am" and he went so angry and kept saying "so you admit a lot of guys like you, I knew that I always said that" I do get a lot of attention, I am 32 and he is 45 so hes insecure, but he seemed to love me and talk about how he sees no one but me... after I said the a lot of guys like me comment, he went on to an old friend of mines instagram and liked her photos lol. and he knew this friend was so bad to me, and how much we argue, shes my enemy, I told him how she reported me for fraud which was cleared and makes up stuff about me, ect and he liked her photos lol. he wouldn't say sorry, until I begged him and he said he liked her photos because he likes everyones photos, then he said because he was jealous of me. the moment I saw he liked her photos I felt like I was choking, like I couldn't breathe I felt so betrayed. he said "I love you and you. hurt me and always put me down, thats why I did it only now will you learn to respect a man who wants you to do well" I rang him crying screaming and he said I'm wrong I love you just relax please. love you I love you but I ignored him for days and he kept texting, good morning my love, I am sorry I dont want to lose you sorry for everything that happened, and I started and sent him messages saying how immature and tacky he looked and to not play with me or my father will beat him up and he blocked me on everything, I mean whatsapp, Facebook, instagram, TikTok everything.. after crying I was so upset I was blocked, I made an account pleading saying im sorry I wont bring up him liking my friends photos again and I love him im so sorry and he blocked me again, im so hurt like my heart is shattered he promised me the world and said I was the best woman he met and he wanted to marry me and have children,. im so hurt about being blocked :'( sorry for ranting just wondering what to do?

What did I just read…

I need a wash

No way is this real. It's too pathetic to be real

This sounds so childish and toxic. No need for you to try to make him jealous , he reacted to that in a ridiculous way ( that screams red flag ) and then you counter reacted in a childish way - I mean, threatening to get your dad to beat him up?

Sounds like a recipe for disaster - either you both need to grow up or you bring out the worst in each other and shouldn’t be together

Omg,! This sounds toxic and you both seem so.... immature. Your dad will beat him up? You need to get a grip

Omg,! This sounds toxic and you both seem so.... immature. Your dad will beat him up? You need to get a grip

Oh do grow up.

Cool story bro

Why the fuck did you beg him?

You need someone emotionally stable because, kindly, you don't sound that emotionally stable yourself.

A healthy relationship doesn't have any of the toxic spite, games...there should be no screaming, no begging, no tit for tat, no threatening you'll get him beaten up (!)

Dump him and get yourself into therapy PDQ

Judging by your other thread he's a fucking monster and you need to stay as far away from him as possible.

Yes, PLEASE. Standard English sentences and paragraphs.

32.

What the hootenanny have I just read?! You're in early 30s, and he is in his mid 40s @courtneyk92 ??? You both sound about 12.

Oh gosh.

I get a lot of attention and guys like me 😂 you’re so self obsessed and sound incredibly immature, grow up

You both are behaving like a couple of teenagers. It's all very immature and ridiculous. If this man is insecure/jealous and puts you down, whilst trying to make you feel bad about yourself, then why on earth are you still with him??!! Be grateful he's blocked you on all platforms. Do the same and lose his number. He's an arsehole. The relationship is relatively new, it really shouldn't be this hard, stressful or dramatic, at this stage. You should be in the 'loved up stage'. Understand that the relationship isn't working, and isn't going to work. Move on and find someone worthy of you, because this man definitely isn't.

Youre 32 and you have an "enemy" that you talk about enough a man youre dating can identify her Instagram YABU

Tbh whole thing sounds horrid. He sounds like a control freak, who is happy to hurt you on purpose for hurting him accidently by saying you like who you are already.

You ignored him til he stopped caring and are now hysterical hes bored and blocked you. When lets face the only thing you liked about this man was his willingness to chase you. This is like a nasty school situationship.

Blocking you and moving on is the only sensible thing either of you did

@courtneyk92 he is abusive and what he does is rape. Speak to womens aid or Refuge and extract yourself from this relationship.

For your sake and your children's.

lol this can’t be real. At 32 years old you’re telling him that your dad will beat him up? How old is your dad?! Give your head a wobble, then get rid of him as he’s spiteful.

How is this thread still standing?!

I am wondering that too.

Pair of loonies.

LOL I did sound it when I read this back

I have no idea either , I reported the thread yesterday and suspect i wasn't the only one .