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Whos in the wrong? me or him..... hes blocked me on everything

224 replies

courtneyk92 · 05/08/2025 17:15

Been seeing some guy for a few months, almost love at first sight, he seemed obsessive over me, we've known each other 3 Years, and I finally gave him a chance a few months ago, but he seemed a little jealous and possessive, so to see how he'd react a few days ago he tried to put me down, and I said "a lot of guys like me, I like me as I am" and he went so angry and kept saying "so you admit a lot of guys like you, I knew that I always said that" I do get a lot of attention, I am 32 and he is 45 so hes insecure, but he seemed to love me and talk about how he sees no one but me... after I said the a lot of guys like me comment, he went on to an old friend of mines instagram and liked her photos lol. and he knew this friend was so bad to me, and how much we argue, shes my enemy, I told him how she reported me for fraud which was cleared and makes up stuff about me, ect and he liked her photos lol. he wouldn't say sorry, until I begged him and he said he liked her photos because he likes everyones photos, then he said because he was jealous of me. the moment I saw he liked her photos I felt like I was choking, like I couldn't breathe I felt so betrayed. he said "I love you and you. hurt me and always put me down, thats why I did it only now will you learn to respect a man who wants you to do well" I rang him crying screaming and he said I'm wrong I love you just relax please. love you I love you but I ignored him for days and he kept texting, good morning my love, I am sorry I dont want to lose you sorry for everything that happened, and I started and sent him messages saying how immature and tacky he looked and to not play with me or my father will beat him up and he blocked me on everything, I mean whatsapp, Facebook, instagram, TikTok everything.. after crying I was so upset I was blocked, I made an account pleading saying im sorry I wont bring up him liking my friends photos again and I love him im so sorry and he blocked me again, im so hurt like my heart is shattered he promised me the world and said I was the best woman he met and he wanted to marry me and have children,. im so hurt about being blocked :'( sorry for ranting just wondering what to do?

OP posts:
Beachtastic · 05/08/2025 20:17

miraxxx · 05/08/2025 17:25

I so hope that this is some bored kid trolling MN. Scary to think that it could be real adults.

Doubt it somehow 🤔

Butchyrestingface · 05/08/2025 20:19

To quote Dwight Schrute from the US Office, you BOTH could do better.

SlashBeef · 05/08/2025 20:21

As if you threatened to have your dad beat him up. Are you 5?! Leave it, for goodness sake.

DuesToTheDirt · 05/08/2025 20:24

You rang him crying and screaming, and said your father would beat him up? I'd have blocked you too.

Thanksman · 05/08/2025 20:25

Rosscameasdoody · 05/08/2025 20:11

Yep. Best to keep them for the playground in September.

Gawd, not another one! (I don’t even think it’s kids making these threads, probably paid goons to bulk up the site).

Tiredofallthis101 · 05/08/2025 20:26

I hope this is not real because if it is you both need some urgent therapy. Shocking.

FarmGirl78 · 05/08/2025 20:27

Vicky Pollard? Is that you?

Flamingoknees · 05/08/2025 20:33

🤔 Suspect this thread might disappear shortly

Roomforapony · 05/08/2025 20:34

Silvertulips · 05/08/2025 17:17

Use full stops?

😂

Flannelfeet · 05/08/2025 20:42

Judiezones · 05/08/2025 17:19

The most important point is, is your dad bigger than his dad? Can your dad batter his dad?

Walking stick fencing match 😆 🤣

Cinnamonx · 05/08/2025 20:46

😂😆😂😆

lifeonmars100 · 05/08/2025 20:47

how did the world turn and the human race survive before we had social media?

BetterWithPockets · 05/08/2025 20:50

Silvertulips · 05/08/2025 17:17

Use full stops?

Normally these kind of comments annoy me (OP pours heart out; poster responds with, ‘Did you know you can’t spell?’) but this made me laugh out loud.
Sorry, OP, but if this is genuine, you both deserve each other, quite frankly.

HisNibs · 05/08/2025 20:50

Over40Overdating · 05/08/2025 18:57

Say what you will about AI, at least when the trolls use that to write bollocks posts for attention, they are written coherently and relatively convincingly.

@courtneyk92 go back to Snapchat ya wallop.

"go back to Snapchat ya wallop"

I'm howling 😅

Terfedout · 05/08/2025 20:52

Wtaf have I just read?!

Lotsofsnacks · 05/08/2025 20:53

Ha ha this can’t be real. My dad will beat you up!! FFS so immature. Any potential suitors should swerve the pair of you, nutjobs!

SquallyShowersLater · 05/08/2025 20:56

What did I just read? Confused

beAsensible1 · 05/08/2025 20:57

You are both childish. Keep the block and leave it alone

beAsensible1 · 05/08/2025 20:58

The functional illiterates are out today

Gripejuice01 · 05/08/2025 21:00

Yes but, no but, yes but…

TheLemonLemur · 05/08/2025 21:11

You sound as immature and toxic as each other it's for the best he's blocked you

gloriawasright · 05/08/2025 21:14

Oh please ,grow the fuck up. Some of us have real problems.

TiddlyPomBear · 05/08/2025 21:15

Wow!
First things first . . . Learn about full stops and paragraphs.
Next - you need to grow up and start acting your age. You both sound as bad as each other 🫣

Horsie · 05/08/2025 21:19

Judiezones · 05/08/2025 17:19

The most important point is, is your dad bigger than his dad? Can your dad batter his dad?

🤭

Horsie · 05/08/2025 21:20

Flannelfeet · 05/08/2025 20:42

Walking stick fencing match 😆 🤣

🤣🤣🤣