Whos in the wrong? me or him..... hes blocked me on everything

[courtneyk92]

Been seeing some guy for a few months, almost love at first sight, he seemed obsessive over me, we've known each other 3 Years, and I finally gave him a chance a few months ago, but he seemed a little jealous and possessive, so to see how he'd react a few days ago he tried to put me down, and I said "a lot of guys like me, I like me as I am" and he went so angry and kept saying "so you admit a lot of guys like you, I knew that I always said that" I do get a lot of attention, I am 32 and he is 45 so hes insecure, but he seemed to love me and talk about how he sees no one but me... after I said the a lot of guys like me comment, he went on to an old friend of mines instagram and liked her photos lol. and he knew this friend was so bad to me, and how much we argue, shes my enemy, I told him how she reported me for fraud which was cleared and makes up stuff about me, ect and he liked her photos lol. he wouldn't say sorry, until I begged him and he said he liked her photos because he likes everyones photos, then he said because he was jealous of me. the moment I saw he liked her photos I felt like I was choking, like I couldn't breathe I felt so betrayed. he said "I love you and you. hurt me and always put me down, thats why I did it only now will you learn to respect a man who wants you to do well" I rang him crying screaming and he said I'm wrong I love you just relax please. love you I love you but I ignored him for days and he kept texting, good morning my love, I am sorry I dont want to lose you sorry for everything that happened, and I started and sent him messages saying how immature and tacky he looked and to not play with me or my father will beat him up and he blocked me on everything, I mean whatsapp, Facebook, instagram, TikTok everything.. after crying I was so upset I was blocked, I made an account pleading saying im sorry I wont bring up him liking my friends photos again and I love him im so sorry and he blocked me again, im so hurt like my heart is shattered he promised me the world and said I was the best woman he met and he wanted to marry me and have children,. im so hurt about being blocked :'( sorry for ranting just wondering what to do?

Well the former Jeremy Kyle clientele are still out there somewhere.

I think you're both as bad as each other.

That was draining to read, and he must be drained by your behaviour too.

I'm confused. Has he moved out since your post on Sunday?

I think that it's the Op who's confused 😬

If he's blocked you on everything it doesn't matter who is right. He no longer wishes to communicate with you. You have a lot of growing up to do.

If only Jezza was still on. He'd sort this mess out.

I think you meant to be on netmums.

bye hun

Well, you could try growing up, for a start, you sound like a stroppy teenager. What a load of petty drama.

Either that or she's just plain bonkers. I know which one my money's on 😂

100% this. This sounds exhausting, you should both walk away now.

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I miss when the internet was just full of total nerds and the Jeremy Kyle guests were kept to the TV.

God. Could barely read past four sentences. Ditch him.

Jeez Louise !!

you sound chavtastic !!!!

He sounds about twelve. You not much more mature. And you need to forget about him. Do you usually accept this type of nonsense in relationships? Please do yourself a favour and be single, work on your own personal growth.

Seriously? Bloody hell you sound like a stroppy 14 year old
Get a grip 😅

I’m embarrassed just reading this.

Batshit

This is very similar to the thread that was deleted earlier today about a woman saying her partner's mate was good looking, so when he "done the deed" with her later that day he was murmuring her mates name. Someone taking the piss? Or the school holidays are really pulling some infantile threads 🤔

Do you really want this much drama in your life? It sounds like you do, which I guess is fair enough. But I certainly couldn't be putting up with it.

He did you a favor by blocking you on everything and if you were smart you would block him back so if he unblocks you you won't know.

Hahahahaha multiplied by 100000000

You both sound bat shit. End it now, for both your sakes.

Wondering what to do? Grow up maybe?

Op you’ve got two young children. What are you doing? Your other thread that someone linked to is horrendous.

No way are you 32...

And I don't mean that as a compliment