Whos in the wrong? me or him..... hes blocked me on everything

[courtneyk92]

Been seeing some guy for a few months, almost love at first sight, he seemed obsessive over me, we've known each other 3 Years, and I finally gave him a chance a few months ago, but he seemed a little jealous and possessive, so to see how he'd react a few days ago he tried to put me down, and I said "a lot of guys like me, I like me as I am" and he went so angry and kept saying "so you admit a lot of guys like you, I knew that I always said that" I do get a lot of attention, I am 32 and he is 45 so hes insecure, but he seemed to love me and talk about how he sees no one but me... after I said the a lot of guys like me comment, he went on to an old friend of mines instagram and liked her photos lol. and he knew this friend was so bad to me, and how much we argue, shes my enemy, I told him how she reported me for fraud which was cleared and makes up stuff about me, ect and he liked her photos lol. he wouldn't say sorry, until I begged him and he said he liked her photos because he likes everyones photos, then he said because he was jealous of me. the moment I saw he liked her photos I felt like I was choking, like I couldn't breathe I felt so betrayed. he said "I love you and you. hurt me and always put me down, thats why I did it only now will you learn to respect a man who wants you to do well" I rang him crying screaming and he said I'm wrong I love you just relax please. love you I love you but I ignored him for days and he kept texting, good morning my love, I am sorry I dont want to lose you sorry for everything that happened, and I started and sent him messages saying how immature and tacky he looked and to not play with me or my father will beat him up and he blocked me on everything, I mean whatsapp, Facebook, instagram, TikTok everything.. after crying I was so upset I was blocked, I made an account pleading saying im sorry I wont bring up him liking my friends photos again and I love him im so sorry and he blocked me again, im so hurt like my heart is shattered he promised me the world and said I was the best woman he met and he wanted to marry me and have children,. im so hurt about being blocked :'( sorry for ranting just wondering what to do?

How old are you both ? 12?? 🤔🤔

Don’t worry. OP will grow up a lot next term and will come back in year 9 with a much better post.

It’s odd that he’s in his 40s and you’re in your 30s because you both sound like you’re about 13.

Christ almighty won’t somebody save me from the middle school users on this site??

saying how immature and tacky he looked and to not play with me or my father will beat him up

😂😂😂😂
Have you even read what you are writing? You both sound immature. You are both being unreasonable cos you sound like a pair of idiots

This doesn’t sound like a healthy relationship, he is not a keeper OP!

But your reactions seem way OTT too… “the moment I saw he liked her photos I felt like I was choking, like I couldn't breathe I felt so betrayed.” - this is very worrying, I think you should get some counselling asap because your emotions seem very heightened. Also your choice in men doesn’t seem great.

Take a step back from this relationship, work on your mental health, step away from drama, then reassess. You do not want to bring children into this toxic environment!!

Are you honestly taken in by this

And this is the same guy that according to another thread of yours is trying to get you pregnant by stealthing etc? If there is any shred of truth in your threads I'd be amazed

Grow up

Haven’t RTFT but based on your first posts you’re very immature and insecure yourself (you don’t like him liking someone photos? Do you police what he looks at when he walks down the street?).

Id suggest you split up and grow up before trying to find a partner. Same a lot of drama.

just a thought - you’re not waiting for a plane to Russia are you (having exhausted another thread on here under a different user name?)

You said your dad would beat him up 😂 omg you are a child ! There’s absolutely no way on gods green earth a 32 year old would come out with that .

Sounds like you both need to grow up.......

Are you sure you are 32 and 45?

I’m no Miss Marple … but putting all 3 of the threads together, I call goady bullshit

Made up surely

This 🤣

Are you both not way too old for these childish games?

🚩🚩🚩🚩 the both of you!

Thank you for your service.

Deleted. Wrong thread!

Is that you Vicki Pollard? 👋🏻

And please do not ever have children together.

There are people with chaotic lives like this, with stuff played out on social media and the greatest level of chaos occurring during times the kids are at home (and being subjected to a front row seat),

Might be true, might not. Doesn't hurt to answer on the offchance as though it's real.

Good lawd, this is true! 😑