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Whos in the wrong? me or him..... hes blocked me on everything

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courtneyk92 · 05/08/2025 17:15

Been seeing some guy for a few months, almost love at first sight, he seemed obsessive over me, we've known each other 3 Years, and I finally gave him a chance a few months ago, but he seemed a little jealous and possessive, so to see how he'd react a few days ago he tried to put me down, and I said "a lot of guys like me, I like me as I am" and he went so angry and kept saying "so you admit a lot of guys like you, I knew that I always said that" I do get a lot of attention, I am 32 and he is 45 so hes insecure, but he seemed to love me and talk about how he sees no one but me... after I said the a lot of guys like me comment, he went on to an old friend of mines instagram and liked her photos lol. and he knew this friend was so bad to me, and how much we argue, shes my enemy, I told him how she reported me for fraud which was cleared and makes up stuff about me, ect and he liked her photos lol. he wouldn't say sorry, until I begged him and he said he liked her photos because he likes everyones photos, then he said because he was jealous of me. the moment I saw he liked her photos I felt like I was choking, like I couldn't breathe I felt so betrayed. he said "I love you and you. hurt me and always put me down, thats why I did it only now will you learn to respect a man who wants you to do well" I rang him crying screaming and he said I'm wrong I love you just relax please. love you I love you but I ignored him for days and he kept texting, good morning my love, I am sorry I dont want to lose you sorry for everything that happened, and I started and sent him messages saying how immature and tacky he looked and to not play with me or my father will beat him up and he blocked me on everything, I mean whatsapp, Facebook, instagram, TikTok everything.. after crying I was so upset I was blocked, I made an account pleading saying im sorry I wont bring up him liking my friends photos again and I love him im so sorry and he blocked me again, im so hurt like my heart is shattered he promised me the world and said I was the best woman he met and he wanted to marry me and have children,. im so hurt about being blocked :'( sorry for ranting just wondering what to do?

OP posts:
Rosscameasdoody · 05/08/2025 17:46

Are you 32 and 45 or 12 and 15. Grow up. Either that or you’re on school summer holidays and bored - in which case you’re not very creative are you ?

Idontjetwashthefucker · 05/08/2025 17:46

OMFG, just when you thought things couldn't get worse

CalicoPusscat · 05/08/2025 17:48

There are children involved in this??

JaneEyre40 · 05/08/2025 17:48

What did I just read.....are you 16? Do adults actually behave like this?

DoingTRexInTheSupermarket · 05/08/2025 17:49

PolyVagalNerve · 05/08/2025 17:36

Jeez Louise !!

you sound chavtastic !!!!

You sound snobby.

MyDeftDuck · 05/08/2025 17:49

BallerinaRadio · 05/08/2025 17:17

Are you sure you're 32 and 45 this reads like a couple of teenagers in their first relationship

This
It does sound like you are 12 and he’s 15 actually.

Hesma · 05/08/2025 17:50

My dad will beat you up… FGS grow up! I’m not surprised her blocked you, I would have!!!

Lifestooshort6591 · 05/08/2025 17:51

I cannot believe you are grown ups. Start concentrating on your homework and leave romance until you are a big girl.

CarefullyCuratedFurniture · 05/08/2025 17:51

Neither of you are mature enough to be in a relationship. That's it, really.

RaininSummer · 05/08/2025 17:53

You are both so so wrong about everything it seems.

RosaMoline · 05/08/2025 17:54

Yeah but no but no but yeah…shaddap!

Iamnotalemming · 05/08/2025 17:54

BallerinaRadio · 05/08/2025 17:17

Are you sure you're 32 and 45 this reads like a couple of teenagers in their first relationship

Exactly what I was about to say!

BustyLaRoux · 05/08/2025 17:56

He is a controlling rapist and you both sound about 14. Leave him and work on your self esteem.

KaitlynnFairchild · 05/08/2025 17:56

What the actual hell!

You two need to make a go of things because no other adults are going to engage with any of that.

HauntedDreams · 05/08/2025 17:57

KaitlynnFairchild · 05/08/2025 17:56

What the actual hell!

You two need to make a go of things because no other adults are going to engage with any of that.

😂😂😂

Thehop · 05/08/2025 17:57

You are either lying about not being teenagers or you're both unhinged

stay away from each other and work on yourself

ginasevern · 05/08/2025 17:58

Your friend reported you for fraud, your father is going to beat this man up? Jeez, this sounds like Shameless - the teenage version.

TwistedWonder · 05/08/2025 17:59

School holidays are really dragging on

Can’t you volunteer at Barracudas or something and stop posting nonsense online?

If you're really 32 I’m a unicorn

gamerchick · 05/08/2025 17:59

Why does this remind me of a recent thread that was deleted? Petty getting you back thing.

purpleme12 · 05/08/2025 17:59

This can't be real

Growlybear83 · 05/08/2025 17:59

Are you seriously 32? You sound like my daughter when she had her first boyfriend at 13. You both sound completely deranged.

BusWankers · 05/08/2025 17:59

Do 32 year old women really act like this?

  • say stuff to intentionally make a man jealous, get hysterical when he does same petty shit back.
  • Have "enemies" Confused
  • Communicate with loved ones via TikTok
  • Beg their other half to apologise for liking a photo
  • Desperately try to get a guy back by screaming down the phone how much she loves him (despite him liking a photo of an enemy?)
  • Call grown men names
  • threaten people with their Dad...

It's bizarre.

TwistedWonder · 05/08/2025 18:00

Yeah but no but yeah but OMG my dad gonna slap you one

FuckoffeeBeforeCoffee · 05/08/2025 18:00

DoingTRexInTheSupermarket · 05/08/2025 17:49

You sound snobby.

Yeah, but they’ve got a point…

Yamyamabroad · 05/08/2025 18:01

For all of our sakes, please do not get married and have children

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