Whos in the wrong? me or him..... hes blocked me on everything

[courtneyk92]

Been seeing some guy for a few months, almost love at first sight, he seemed obsessive over me, we've known each other 3 Years, and I finally gave him a chance a few months ago, but he seemed a little jealous and possessive, so to see how he'd react a few days ago he tried to put me down, and I said "a lot of guys like me, I like me as I am" and he went so angry and kept saying "so you admit a lot of guys like you, I knew that I always said that" I do get a lot of attention, I am 32 and he is 45 so hes insecure, but he seemed to love me and talk about how he sees no one but me... after I said the a lot of guys like me comment, he went on to an old friend of mines instagram and liked her photos lol. and he knew this friend was so bad to me, and how much we argue, shes my enemy, I told him how she reported me for fraud which was cleared and makes up stuff about me, ect and he liked her photos lol. he wouldn't say sorry, until I begged him and he said he liked her photos because he likes everyones photos, then he said because he was jealous of me. the moment I saw he liked her photos I felt like I was choking, like I couldn't breathe I felt so betrayed. he said "I love you and you. hurt me and always put me down, thats why I did it only now will you learn to respect a man who wants you to do well" I rang him crying screaming and he said I'm wrong I love you just relax please. love you I love you but I ignored him for days and he kept texting, good morning my love, I am sorry I dont want to lose you sorry for everything that happened, and I started and sent him messages saying how immature and tacky he looked and to not play with me or my father will beat him up and he blocked me on everything, I mean whatsapp, Facebook, instagram, TikTok everything.. after crying I was so upset I was blocked, I made an account pleading saying im sorry I wont bring up him liking my friends photos again and I love him im so sorry and he blocked me again, im so hurt like my heart is shattered he promised me the world and said I was the best woman he met and he wanted to marry me and have children,. im so hurt about being blocked :'( sorry for ranting just wondering what to do?

I’m not really sure what’s going on. A 45 year old man and a 32 year old woman?? Liking photos, blocking, my father will beat you up?? This is the stuff of young teens. I’d suggest you step away from this and work on yourself. He sounds awful (I’ve seen your other post about the pressure to have a baby). Please stop this nonsense and don’t waste your time. I promise you, relationships do not have to be this complicated.

jesus christ - raise your standards and ditch the moron

also by your other thread, grey rock him

Well its easy to solve this, you said a lot of men like you so ditch this one and try every single one of them to see which one is the right one for you.

Gosh, I would expect this post to be written by a teenager. It looks as if you live your life through Instagram, Tik Tok, etc... No wonder you can't even use punctuation!

You both sound bonkers if I'm honest, like teenagers

My god, so much childish drama 🙄

Yeahhhh I stopped reading after this sorry.

32 and 45 and you're still using my dad will beat you up as a threat ...

I think both of you should be single and try to mature a bit.. I dont think either of you will be able to maintain a healthy relationship right now

Thank fuck I met my soul mate early because could I fuck still be playing these 14/15/15/17 year old stupid games at this age.

The entire thing sounds exhausting and cringe. Not to be rude but if this is how you both act when dating its not surprising you are both still in the dating pool.

He sounds like a massive red flag (seriously throw him back) and your just way over-dramatic (couldn't breath and betrayed, from a guy you couldn't be arsed to date for 3 years. Real relationship will bring actual issues that might just finish you off if your 'dying' over a like picture on IG).

What a toxic relationship! Red flags all over from both sides. This will not end up well.
Do yourself and him a favour and call it quits.

Bored already? School holidays only started a week ago.

You're both unreasonable. The pair of you sound absolutely pathetic, squabbling like children over who can be the most petty.

I'd be delighted he'd blocked me and go merrily on my way.

Ew. The whole situation is ew.
but you can’t expect to threaten domestic violence and get no consequences

@courtneyk92 sorry for ranting just wondering what to do?

Just grow up!

And retake your English GCSE; you are nearly incomprehensible.

Bloody hell, young love is sooo difficult with the crying and screaming on the phone, endless declarations of love making each other jealous and god knows what,
You need your heads banged together then sent off to sit quietly in different rooms, phones taken away doing lines and it's time to grow the fuck up.
No wonder society is such a mess with people carriying on like this and often their kids are witnessing it, thinking it's normal so the circle begins again.

Mate. Seriously. Screaming and crying because he liked someone's photos? The pair of you sound toxic and dysfunctional, I think splitting up is for the best. Relationships aren't meant to be like this.

You seem a bit full of yourself like you think he's punching above his weight. Well nobody likes a bragger.

You both sound ridiculous and like you have a lot of growing up to do 🙄

How old is your dad mid 50's or older, perhaps he ought to sit down and think about the possiblity that someone younger might just knock the shit out of him.

Playing games never ends well OP, best not to start them.

And we're only half way through the summer holidays

Yep. Best to keep them for the playground in September.

wtf 😂 if you hadn’t mentioned your ages I would swear you were both below the age of 16.

seriously if this is real, grow up.

Go with another of the guys that is interested in you. There are plenty apparently

😂😂😂 Christ I didn’t even read that bit! I gave up half way through so missed this gem 😂