Whos in the wrong? me or him..... hes blocked me on everything

[courtneyk92]

Been seeing some guy for a few months, almost love at first sight, he seemed obsessive over me, we've known each other 3 Years, and I finally gave him a chance a few months ago, but he seemed a little jealous and possessive, so to see how he'd react a few days ago he tried to put me down, and I said "a lot of guys like me, I like me as I am" and he went so angry and kept saying "so you admit a lot of guys like you, I knew that I always said that" I do get a lot of attention, I am 32 and he is 45 so hes insecure, but he seemed to love me and talk about how he sees no one but me... after I said the a lot of guys like me comment, he went on to an old friend of mines instagram and liked her photos lol. and he knew this friend was so bad to me, and how much we argue, shes my enemy, I told him how she reported me for fraud which was cleared and makes up stuff about me, ect and he liked her photos lol. he wouldn't say sorry, until I begged him and he said he liked her photos because he likes everyones photos, then he said because he was jealous of me. the moment I saw he liked her photos I felt like I was choking, like I couldn't breathe I felt so betrayed. he said "I love you and you. hurt me and always put me down, thats why I did it only now will you learn to respect a man who wants you to do well" I rang him crying screaming and he said I'm wrong I love you just relax please. love you I love you but I ignored him for days and he kept texting, good morning my love, I am sorry I dont want to lose you sorry for everything that happened, and I started and sent him messages saying how immature and tacky he looked and to not play with me or my father will beat him up and he blocked me on everything, I mean whatsapp, Facebook, instagram, TikTok everything.. after crying I was so upset I was blocked, I made an account pleading saying im sorry I wont bring up him liking my friends photos again and I love him im so sorry and he blocked me again, im so hurt like my heart is shattered he promised me the world and said I was the best woman he met and he wanted to marry me and have children,. im so hurt about being blocked :'( sorry for ranting just wondering what to do?

You sound like a really silly pair. You'll get your Dad to beat him up. Are you for real.

So… when d’ya go back to school, then?

Probably is. There’s a way to go with school holidays yet and boredom has clearly set in early. Never mind OP you have all that lovely ‘back to school’ shopping to look forward to soon.

How old are you? Pathetic

I have reported the thread having read some of the OPs other "offerings " there is inconsistency in her posts .

Said nicely

grow up you sound like you are 13

hes not for you and you are not for him. Just end the relationship and move on

And has been dating him since 2023 in another thread

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You’re playing games. Grow up.

Him blocking you and hopefully moving out by the end of the day will be the best thing that ever happened to you.

No more sexual assault, no more attempts to force pregnancy on you, no more stress about Universal Credit as he won't be part of you committing benefit fraud, no more mind games.

Unfortunately, I think you will beg and promise everything to get this creature back. It's why he's done it. To get you under full control.

What exactly is his appeal? Is it because he occasionally pretends to like you a bit compared to your ex/your family? Is it that sexual abuse doesn't seem as bad as physical?

He really, really, isn't worth grovelling for.

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I thought it the relationship was bad before I even got to the bit where you threatened him with your dad.
i hate when posters ask if this is a real post but honestly is this real?

That's his dad. Which is why her dad is going to beat up his dad

"he said "I love you and you. hurt me and always put me down, thats why I did it only now will you learn to respect a man who wants you to do well" I rang him crying screaming and he said I'm wrong I love you just relax please."

It's giving murderous intent vibes. I'd block the fucker, give my devices to my wellard dad and get myself directly into therapy.

Good lord. I thought he sounded like a knob and then I read the rest ...
If someone kept phoning me "screaming and crying" about liking photos on social media and said they would have me beaten up, too right I would be blocking them.

Oh my goodness , exhausted just reading this

Use your next 3 and a half weeks wisely, OP, as you'll be back at school before you know it.

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Moronic, all round!

You’re wondering what to do?? You could start by behaving like a fully functioning adult instead of a love sick kid. Grow up, dump him, work on your self esteem issues and maybe, just maybe, when you’re old enough, find someone who you’re better suited to.

Say what you will about AI, at least when the trolls use that to write bollocks posts for attention, they are written coherently and relatively convincingly.

@courtneyk92 go back to Snapchat ya wallop.

Might be a bloke. There are men who do this stuff for their YouTube/whatever channels.

It's weird

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Jesus fucking Christ. You both sound utterly dreadful.

I don’t know what to say, sorry. I really don’t. All that comes to mind is grow up? And get a grip.

You lost me at ‘I begged him to say sorry for liking my friend’s pics’.