Whos in the wrong? me or him..... hes blocked me on everything

[courtneyk92]

Been seeing some guy for a few months, almost love at first sight, he seemed obsessive over me, we've known each other 3 Years, and I finally gave him a chance a few months ago, but he seemed a little jealous and possessive, so to see how he'd react a few days ago he tried to put me down, and I said "a lot of guys like me, I like me as I am" and he went so angry and kept saying "so you admit a lot of guys like you, I knew that I always said that" I do get a lot of attention, I am 32 and he is 45 so hes insecure, but he seemed to love me and talk about how he sees no one but me... after I said the a lot of guys like me comment, he went on to an old friend of mines instagram and liked her photos lol. and he knew this friend was so bad to me, and how much we argue, shes my enemy, I told him how she reported me for fraud which was cleared and makes up stuff about me, ect and he liked her photos lol. he wouldn't say sorry, until I begged him and he said he liked her photos because he likes everyones photos, then he said because he was jealous of me. the moment I saw he liked her photos I felt like I was choking, like I couldn't breathe I felt so betrayed. he said "I love you and you. hurt me and always put me down, thats why I did it only now will you learn to respect a man who wants you to do well" I rang him crying screaming and he said I'm wrong I love you just relax please. love you I love you but I ignored him for days and he kept texting, good morning my love, I am sorry I dont want to lose you sorry for everything that happened, and I started and sent him messages saying how immature and tacky he looked and to not play with me or my father will beat him up and he blocked me on everything, I mean whatsapp, Facebook, instagram, TikTok everything.. after crying I was so upset I was blocked, I made an account pleading saying im sorry I wont bring up him liking my friends photos again and I love him im so sorry and he blocked me again, im so hurt like my heart is shattered he promised me the world and said I was the best woman he met and he wanted to marry me and have children,. im so hurt about being blocked :'( sorry for ranting just wondering what to do?

You sound bat shit crazy and he’s insecure. Thank god he’s removed himself.

Ikr.... The biggest suspect is they apparently communicate via TikTok...

Nobody over 22..23... uses TikTok like this surely??

I’m sorry. I couldn’t read your post due to the sheer amount of red flags from all sides jumping out at me.

@courtneyk92 You should find a partner who is less obsessive and possessive. Why did you approach a man who is extremely aggressive and controlling in the first place? You will likely feel a lot less stressed if you find a partner who is more relaxed and less controlling.

Also... try to find a partner who doesn't use Instagram.

Jesus Christ there’s kids involved. God help them.

Wtf. That was exhausting and almost unreadable.

You both need to grow up.

/s?

So taking the OP at face value, you decided to trigger his jealously to test him. Then played the victim when he reacted in kind, and threatened to have him beaten up. Now you're heartbroken and don't understand why he's blocked you?

I don’t think for one minute there are kids involved. This must have been written by a kid.
Your dad is going to beat him up? 😂

And he’s an anal rapist as well - he’s a proper completely made up prince amongst men.

Stop wasting your time with someone with a big age gap.

This relationship seems toxic. Maybe you need to be single to work on yourself a bit. I find it hard to believe you are 32 and he is 45.

😂😂 come back OP!

Wtaf have I just read??
Stay single and grow up.

The least believable aspect of this is that a woman in her thirties would have written that inane drivel whilst sober and in control of her faculties.

She's got revision to do hopefully English. 🙄

I weep for society!

You're both unreasonable and this relationship sounds toxic.

Feeling like you're choking because someone likes someone's photo is not normal.

The pair of you sound very immature and not that bright. I’m torn between you staying together so you’re not bothering other people or split and you can do some personal growth (I think he’s a lost cause).

I started and sent him messages saying how immature and tacky he looked and to not play with me or my father will beat him up

You know this is a site for adults?

You sound like you're 12.

@courtneyk92 , I would suggest your fathers only role in this is to get you
into a holiday club until the Autumn term starts.

Urgh! Leave him. You’re living with a rapist for god’s sake!

Sad acts 😂

You seem to have forgotten that you just posted a thread where you said you live together. How does blocking come into it?
You're not very clever. Grow up.