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To think it's normal to tie your hair back to poo or eat?

249 replies

Crole · 11/07/2025 12:46

Came up in conversation with a friend, we both have just below the shoulder length hair. I tie my hair back/up whenever I go for a poo or eat a meal and she thinks this is really odd, is it? 🤔 I've always done it and thought it was something a lot of people do, especially when eating.

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IpsyUpsyDaisyDoos · 11/07/2025 16:17

Noshadelamp · 11/07/2025 16:13

I do 😁

I honestly thought it was normal, I'm now rethinking my whole life!

My hair is back a lot, so it's usually up for a loo trip anyway, but if it's down I've made a LOT of effort to make it look presentable and tying it back would kink it, so I don't then.

I can understand feeling uncomfortable with it in your face in any scenario though.

Don't rethink your life unless it's actively hindering you. You're grand. A bit weird about germs maybe...🤔

DragonTrainor · 11/07/2025 16:17

Yes it's weird. Even while eating weird else it's something very messy! I might tie up my hair while cleaning so it doesn't get in the way but the toilet doesn't make sense.

I have however read about people liking to get naked to poo so maybe it's a bit like that?!

BeanQuisine · 11/07/2025 16:19

My hair's a bit longer than that and I tie it back first thing in the morning, and usually don't let it loose again until bedtime.

And certainly it's tied up for meals and long sessions on the bog, when I'll want to be reading without hair in my face.

Boreded · 11/07/2025 16:30

Finteq · 11/07/2025 13:31

The posts today.

Tying hair to.poo.

Hermetically sealed hamster balls.

Sexually massaging self.with cash

😂

Must be the heat

ObtuseMoose · 11/07/2025 16:33

You are very weird. I take my glasses off when I go to the loo but that's perfectly normal.

sweeneytoddsrazor · 11/07/2025 16:38

I don't really get all the angst about airborne germs from the flush either. Our work toilets don't even have a lid

yellowdress34 · 11/07/2025 16:50

I tie my hair back for housework or gardening etc as it's long and it just drives me mad getting in the way. But why for the toilet?

confusednorthener · 11/07/2025 16:55

I'm with the OP, I put it in a pony tail or bun when I do both.
I do the same with my daughter's hair too (7yr old).
it just seems more convenient 😂

MyDeftDuck · 11/07/2025 16:58

Hair tied back for eating and puking……..oh, and when I was on duty at work because it HAD to be………otherwise no.

Cherrysoup · 11/07/2025 17:09

To poo? No, but for eating, mostly, yes. It’s ver6 warm here so it’s already gone up.

EveryOtherNameTaken · 11/07/2025 17:19

Always when I eat and sometimes when I'm cooking but pooing - no.

EscapeToSuffolk · 11/07/2025 17:55

I put it in a clip the second I get in the door. It drives me mad having it down when I'm at home.

chillibuns · 11/07/2025 18:12

Screamingabdabz · 11/07/2025 12:48

I don’t tie my hair back for those ‘occasions’. I l always wonder at women who have longer hair and tie it back all the time. Just cut it short!

It’s handy being able to tie hair back. When it’s hot, when it’s a mess! I also tie it up so I can get another day before washing it.
For me, short hair is higher maintenance and needs cut much more often. You can’t bead a messy bun! Also, I have the choice to leave it down.

NKfc3fea6X116d4b6b14b · 11/07/2025 18:13

I nearly always have to tie my hair up for eating, washing up, cooking, cleaning etc. Because I'm easily hot and easily over stimulated but I have never tied it up for a poo 😂it doesn't require that much physical exertion and isn't long enough to get in the way, if you know what I mean 😂

Didimum · 11/07/2025 18:17

I don’t think it’s that weird. I don’t do it, but every one has their quirks. I don’t like eating with my glasses on – I find it overstimulating!

CustardySergeant · 11/07/2025 18:30

Didimum · 11/07/2025 18:17

I don’t think it’s that weird. I don’t do it, but every one has their quirks. I don’t like eating with my glasses on – I find it overstimulating!

😂That's one of the funniest sentences I've read all day, and I'm reading a very funny book!

CinnamonBuns67 · 11/07/2025 18:36

Maybe if I'm eating something particularly messy but in general no and no when I poo. Very odd but to each their own I guess.

Crole · 11/07/2025 18:48

PreciousMomentsHun · 11/07/2025 13:41

Wow another fake poo thread

This made me laugh because why would someone make up a poo thread this boring?

Reminds me of a few years ago on the Rate My Plate Facebook group when I posted a photo of my sister's lunch - a big bowl of Brussels sprouts and hard boiled eggs, absolutely drenched in vinegar. A guy went on about how disgusting it was people wasting food for likes when it really was my sister's food she regularly ate 😂

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Crole · 11/07/2025 18:50

hungryduck · 11/07/2025 13:58

Hair up to brush teeth is a must.

Agree, also to take out or put in contact lenses.

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Crole · 11/07/2025 19:21

Internaut · 11/07/2025 15:38

How do you manage if you've got the trots and no time to tie your hair back before running for the bathroom?

I always have a hairband in my pocket and now my hair is shorter, I need a clip, which I can't keep in my pocket. This also came up in the original conversation with my friend.

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Bourneo · 11/07/2025 19:26

I tie mine up for both of these sometimes and also to wash up for some reason

ObelixtheGaul · 11/07/2025 19:35

I've recently had a fringe put in so I don't have to tie mine up so much. I was getting bald spots at my temples from so much scraping back.

I tie it up for work but at home I let loose unless housework is happening, or cooking.

DancingDolly · 11/07/2025 19:38

Never to poo, sometimes to eat or have sex

Bunchymcbunchface · 11/07/2025 19:42

mine is tied up all the time anyways.
short hair is no good for me, I hate the feeling of hair touching my face or getting in my eyes

LicoriceLoops · 11/07/2025 19:43

Only if I'm constipated. I get stressed out and then the feeling of my hair and clothes touching me stresses me out more so I end up putting my hair up and stripping naked. It seems to help get things moving, not sure how 🤷‍♀️