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Trans protest- sharing for balance

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Tandora · 20/04/2025 11:47

There’s a thread sharing some really awful images from the protest, so I wanted to share some positive ones for the sake of some perspective/ balance.
A lot of people are really understandably incredibly angry and overwhelmed by the events of the last few days. But most people who support trans rights absolutely don’t condone fighting oppression and injustice with misogyny.

Trans protest- sharing for balance
Trans protest- sharing for balance
Trans protest- sharing for balance
Trans protest- sharing for balance
Trans protest- sharing for balance
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CharlotteBakewell · 20/04/2025 12:06

part of the article I posted is under review so hasn’t been posted? It’s a pity, such a great article.

Screamingabdabz · 20/04/2025 12:06

Nobody is anti-trans. We are pro women’s rights, dignities and safety. If you want to find true hatred, just turn to those wasting their lives at that rally.

EasternStandard · 20/04/2025 12:06

They may not be as violent but the placards are not pro women and in some cases wrong.

SilenceInside · 20/04/2025 12:06

@Tandora wow, your "balance" is quite angry at people politely disagreeing with you. I don't have an "anti-trans" bone in my body but that doesn't mean I need to agree with those slogans.

Tandora · 20/04/2025 12:07

28Fluctuations · 20/04/2025 12:03

Oooo. Fascinating. Women are not allowed to define misogyny.

That sounds misogynistic to this woman.

Should I ask a man in a dress if it's ok for me to be offended? Do I need his permission?

Oooo. Fascinating. Women are not allowed to define misogyny.

I am a woman. I know what misogyny is when I see it, and , no , you do not get to reinvent anti-trans ideology as misogyny.

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CharlotteBakewell · 20/04/2025 12:07

CharlotteBakewell · 20/04/2025 12:06

part of the article I posted is under review so hasn’t been posted? It’s a pity, such a great article.

It’s now posted!

JazzyJelly · 20/04/2025 12:07

They ARE the predatory men.

reesewithoutaspoon · 20/04/2025 12:08

Trans people haven't lost any rights, they have the same rights they had in 2010.
Instead they had subverted and obfuscated the intention of the law due to misinformation by the likes of stonewall. Which led them to believe they had rights to womens single sex protection.
They were fighting to take away women's rights to these protections and still maintain those they already had
They are protected under their own category.

In fact transwomens have more rights in law than women as they also protected under hate speech laws, which women are not. Despite the fact mysogyny and violence towards women is so prevalent.

Tandora · 20/04/2025 12:08

SilenceInside · 20/04/2025 12:06

@Tandora wow, your "balance" is quite angry at people politely disagreeing with you. I don't have an "anti-trans" bone in my body but that doesn't mean I need to agree with those slogans.

what makes you call me angry?

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Tandora · 20/04/2025 12:09

They are protesting against women's sex based rights.

They are protesting fascism.

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AnSolas · 20/04/2025 12:10

Tandora · 20/04/2025 11:54

The point is that you are completely wrong about that and it is deeply oppressive to try to enforce policies that say so.

Lets have a list of differences between

An adult male human who claims to be a man
And
adult male human who claims to be a woman man

And to aid you on the risks and policy making decisions please use the UK rate of sex offenders in prison

adult male human SO who claims to be a man
adult male human SO who claims to be a woman
adult female human SO who claims to be a woman
adult female human SO who claims to be a man

HornyHornersPinkyWinky · 20/04/2025 12:11

Where’s this balance you speak of? It’s the same old shite… imagine I toddled over to Reddit and posted ‘biological sex is real’ for balance - I imagine I’d get banned for hatred. But people on MN always need to be scolded.
Why do people think that women always have to be nice, even when it’s to our own detriment? Sexism in action.

SilenceInside · 20/04/2025 12:11

Because you responded with a post saying "you don’t get to reinvent your anti-trans ideology as misogyny." I find that quite an angry response. Of course, it's hard to tell via the written word, but suggesting that I'm "anti-trans" on the basis of a polite comment disagreeing with you seems somewhat disproportionate.

Buttonsbuttons · 20/04/2025 12:11

Buttonsbuttons · 20/04/2025 12:06

This man is a clinical psychiatrist with over 20 years clinical experience treating trans patients

It is well worth a watch as he puts the trans position on a clinical footing and makes some very astute observations based on real world experience.

Link to bio

http://www.drazhakeem.com/specialist-psychotherapy-for-gender-dysphoria/

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Just to add, a lot of the behaviours he talks about were very much on display during the protests yesterday. Clear as day when you look through the clinical psychiatric lens.

Tandora · 20/04/2025 12:12

AnSolas · 20/04/2025 12:10

Lets have a list of differences between

An adult male human who claims to be a man
And
adult male human who claims to be a woman man

And to aid you on the risks and policy making decisions please use the UK rate of sex offenders in prison

adult male human SO who claims to be a man
adult male human SO who claims to be a woman
adult female human SO who claims to be a woman
adult female human SO who claims to be a man

These differences have been explained on any number of threads. I posted a long considered post about this yesterday and only one person cared to respond. You aren’t interested in hearing or understanding. There’s nothing that anyone can explain to someone who takes that attitude.

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EasternStandard · 20/04/2025 12:12

Tandora · 20/04/2025 12:09

They are protesting against women's sex based rights.

They are protesting fascism.

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That’s what you think of the Supreme Court ruling and reasoning?

Dragonfly97 · 20/04/2025 12:13

Trans women haven't lost any rights, except to be in women's spaces 🙄

CaptainFuture · 20/04/2025 12:13

Tandora · 20/04/2025 11:53

I’m in very fine company ❤️‍🔥🌈

Is that burning heart a nod to the kind and harmless 'die in a grease fire' trans threats. @Tandora?

PowderRoom · 20/04/2025 12:13

Tandora · 20/04/2025 12:12

These differences have been explained on any number of threads. I posted a long considered post about this yesterday and only one person cared to respond. You aren’t interested in hearing or understanding. There’s nothing that anyone can explain to someone who takes that attitude.

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There’s literally nothing to understand.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 20/04/2025 12:13

Tandora, it is you, and not @WhatIsAScottishEgg, who is out of step here.

The Supreme Court's role was limited to interpreting the Equality Act, which was passed by the last Labour government. According to the Equality Act, female people, who exist in reality, also exist in law.

Can you explain exactly what you think is "oppressive" about a group of women going to the Supreme Court to have their right to exist in law upheld? Other than the fact that they had to go to the Supreme Court at all?

NineLivesKat · 20/04/2025 12:13

Tandora · 20/04/2025 12:09

They are protesting against women's sex based rights.

They are protesting fascism.

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I’m Jewish and I find this comparison incredibly offensive.

It’s not ‘fascism’ to say that trans women are biologically different to women.

You haven’t answered my question about smear tests, so I assume you’re also not willing to discuss any other erosions of women’s rights.

Trans women should have been fighting for third spaces, not claiming their rights override those of biological women.

HornyHornersPinkyWinky · 20/04/2025 12:13

Tandora · 20/04/2025 12:12

These differences have been explained on any number of threads. I posted a long considered post about this yesterday and only one person cared to respond. You aren’t interested in hearing or understanding. There’s nothing that anyone can explain to someone who takes that attitude.

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Why should anybody listen to you? You gave your opinion, that doesn’t mean it’s fact.

DrSpartacularsMagnificentOctopus · 20/04/2025 12:13

Suggesting that men can be lesbians is lesbophobic, homophobic and misogynistic.

JazzyJelly · 20/04/2025 12:13

Tandora · 20/04/2025 12:09

They are protesting against women's sex based rights.

They are protesting fascism.

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The Communist Party are fascists? Have you told them?

Honestly it's so 'mask off'. Women's rights are fascism! Does anyone have that meme 'Everything I don't like is Hitler'?

NineLivesKat · 20/04/2025 12:14

Not sure what you even expected to achieve with this thread to be honest.

The world isn’t perfect and we can’t all have things exactly as we want them. You have to balance the needs and rights of different groups. Not erase one group - women - because another group wants to claim they are the same when they are not.

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