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DH constantly making lewd graphic comments

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CucumberSandcastle · 03/02/2025 14:47

All the bloody time! If we are chatting about something ordinary or I ask him about what he wants to do tomorrow etc he will make an extremely lewd comment about what he wants to do to me - like I cannot wait to plough your you know what or lewd comments about sexualised stuff he wants to do to me etc. Not even remotely related to anything we are talking about- basically says the most shocking/highly graphic things he can think of with a guffaw. He has a habit for saying outlandish stuff so often that coming from anyone else would be highly shocking but as he says it all the time it’s become normal if that makes sense?

Its a huge bloody turn off 👎

He says in while laughing in an almost playful way but it’s constant!

(TMI I know but he says oh I just want to destroy your an$! or I want to plough your sloppy m!nge 🤮) It’s gross I know. I try to ignore him or just say WTF to him.

He’s a “zany” off the wall type of character and his weirdness initially attracted me to him but this is just too much.

He was close to being diagnosed with bipolar disorder (he didn’t attend his follow ups) and I’ve heard about hyper sexuality and it being one of the symptoms?

OP posts:
Ilovemeggy38 · 04/03/2025 01:24

Porn.
Porn all the way, all the reason.
I'm so sorry, but it's literally porn brain.

Biscuitsnotcookies · 04/03/2025 01:58

He is a sexual predator.

In your place, I would end your relationship. This will never get any better, and it might be just the tip of the iceberg (very likely)

Bikergran · 08/05/2025 18:05

Definitely sounds as though there could be a problem with bipolar or similar. Try to get another referral and get him to go.

applebee33 · 08/05/2025 18:11

Sloppy minge 😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣 my own fanny has shrivelled up and died off , I can’t imagine living with that

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