Is this woman a genius or a damaged individual?Bonnie Blue

[Emilyisherenow]

I've fallen down a bit of a rabbit hole lately reading about Bonnie Blue and her mate Lily Phillips.

Both are Only Fans 'stars'. Who've recently gone all over the internet. One for having sex with 100 men in 24 hours and more recently Bonnie Blue for claiming to have broken the world record by having sex with over 1000 men in 12 hours.

I've seen some of their leaked only fans stuff and it's all pretty tame and dull but also quite gross in my opinion. Lots of group sex with multiple masked men who call them slluts and slap their willies in the womens faces while the women pretend to be having the time of their lives.

Lily Philips imo looks particular distressed in some of the videos. Bonnie looks much more detached from it.

Bonnie is also making the news with some of her stunts and derogatory comments about women. All done for click bait I'm sure.

Anyway, onto my aibu.

Even putting aside the very obvious dangers and health risks. Bonnie Blue is now a millionaire. She could probably retire by 30 and be set for life.

I can't decide whether I think she's extremely savvy and smart to be able to do these things but ultimately scone a very rich woman or whether she's deep down very distressed and damaged and will suffer long term.

Do you think you could do any of the things this woman has done if it guaranteed you'd be a millionaire in a few years?

Let's see if they're happy well adjusted people in the years to come. I'd wager no. Nothing you can buy as a millionaire makes up for the fact you sold your sold to get it.

I don’t think it really matters, money is her god and her fanny must be destroyed by now. Her choice and a sad reflection of society, but someone always does it and uses whatever they have to make a few bucks.

No idea, only that she doesn't deserve print space.

prostitute with no shame

No, a million doesnt even go that far nowadays, you buy an ok house but then the maintenance and insurance would eat any other money up.

This isnt the same as the ol' indecent proposal of would you sleep with X for a million pounds.

This is publicised (although I only see it on MN), their families, know, their future children will know, everyone in their lives that they are ever going to meet will know.

No, healthy and well adjusted person does what they have done.

Yes, women turn to sex 'work' as a last resort or when trafficked and hooked on drugs it isn't something to aim for and aspire to.

No I wouldn’t do this, even if it made me millions.

She’s gross and will end up regretting it - they usually do. How can you have any kind of normal life afterwards?

Is she a victim? I suspect not, she knows what she’s doing.

I wish they’d all disappear though, sick of hearing about them tbh.

I would be surprised if those women enjoyed good health into old age.

Nothing would make me do it.

The only thing that makes this ‘less appalling’ is that entered into knowingly the trauma is different from the betrayal of sexual abuse from a partner. As in, unwanted sex, sex that you aren’t enjoying, sex that you are enduring is massively traumatic and damaging but more so when you are in a relationship with the man than otherwise.

Of course we could learn later there’s a boyfriend behind the scenes manipulating this situation. And of course there seems to be a mother involved. Both appalling betrayals.

I'd rather work in a sewage processing plant than get fucked unprotected by a procession of strangers. With no concern for whether I was actually having an orgasm or not. I have sex for pleasure. Not for any other reason.

But porn 'stars' do exist. Nearly all claim it damaged them irreperably. Many die from suicide or drugs. Or domestic abuse.

Even just reading the OP made me feel sick. Society is fucked. Sex that doesn’t degrade women doesn’t even seem to exist in our culture any more. I am so scared for the women and girls of the future.

Silly woman with no sense of self worth. 🙄

She is gross. As would a man be if it was a male doing this. And anyone who sleeps with her is equally gross. Also her use of the word “bonk” on her stupid signs makes me cringe. Who under 45 uses that word? 🤢

Well she's certainly no genius. Hardly takes much skill to lie on your back and let hundreds of men violate you for 12 hours.

I can't get my head around the logistics of it. I think I read somewhere that the 1000+ men she slept with in 12 hours would only have had 40 seconds each and that's not accounting for breaks. So she's basically just letting them rut away at her then moving onto the next. It's just grim on so many levels.

I hope they all used protection.

1000 men in 12 hours is impossible. Do the maths please! It’s a publicity stunt, she surely has issues and won’t be a millionaire by 30.

Not worth it. How can you go on after that to lead a happy life? It’ll totally mess up your private life. Most men aren’t going to be interested in you as a girlfriend and I’d question the motives of the ones that find this appealing in a partner.

Yes this! It’s not even good sex. Less than a minute? What’s the point? It’s just yuck on all levels.

It would really put you in a future terrible position if you had children on so many levels.

She must be seriously messed up, can you imagine the sort of man who does this . She’s certainly no genius, just taking advantage of the pervs paying to see this gross stuff !

She looks very masculine. Not attractive in the least. If it’s true it’s pure cringe

Their choice though isn't it?
Not like some of the sad posts you read on here of women, and often their children, getting abused in every way by their dickhead partners on a daily basis and seemingly unable to do anything about it.
Judge them all if you think they are just stupid women being abused by men.

She (or whoever is managing her social media) is obviously a good businesswoman (think it’s her mum and dad, which is all kinds of wrong). Plenty of prostitutes on Only Fans who only make a fraction of the profits she makes.

I can’t imagine she is a very happy or well-adjusted woman though, and wouldn’t foresee a long and happy drug-free life for her after retirement. As a PP mentioned, many prostitutes end up with MH and substance abuse problems as a result of their work. I don’t wish her any ill, but certainly wouldn’t swap places with her.

This ^

And women like these just encourage men to treat us like slabs of meat.

They're both disgusting w**s and I hope they feel utterly degraded and come to regret what they've done. They're putting all women and girls at risk. And yes, I'm fully aware that men should have self control etc. etc., but let's get real, that's not how real life works.

When I first heard about these two women my first thought was disgusting the whole thing is and that they're selling their souls.

I still think it's disgusting. It's so wrong on so many levels. The message it sends, the risk to health. Not only her own health but the men involved and their other sexual partners.

However on the other hand she has said that she's already a millionaire.

I don't necessarily believe that the 1000 men happened. She reckons it was 45 seconds each. It all gets her talked about and gets people to sign up to her only fans.

I will be interested to see what sort of life she goes on to lead.

Disappointing that there are men willing to queue up just to insert their penis into a woman for a few seconds after hundreds of others.

@squirrelnutcartel yeah I would agree with you there.

I don't like to blame women for men's actions but sadly it's the reality.

Aside from selling their souls they are putting their physical health at risk, their health is more important than anything.

I can't believe how old she says she is as she looks 13 years older.