Is this woman a genius or a damaged individual?Bonnie Blue

[Emilyisherenow]

I've fallen down a bit of a rabbit hole lately reading about Bonnie Blue and her mate Lily Phillips.

Both are Only Fans 'stars'. Who've recently gone all over the internet. One for having sex with 100 men in 24 hours and more recently Bonnie Blue for claiming to have broken the world record by having sex with over 1000 men in 12 hours.

I've seen some of their leaked only fans stuff and it's all pretty tame and dull but also quite gross in my opinion. Lots of group sex with multiple masked men who call them slluts and slap their willies in the womens faces while the women pretend to be having the time of their lives.

Lily Philips imo looks particular distressed in some of the videos. Bonnie looks much more detached from it.

Bonnie is also making the news with some of her stunts and derogatory comments about women. All done for click bait I'm sure.

Anyway, onto my aibu.

Even putting aside the very obvious dangers and health risks. Bonnie Blue is now a millionaire. She could probably retire by 30 and be set for life.

I can't decide whether I think she's extremely savvy and smart to be able to do these things but ultimately scone a very rich woman or whether she's deep down very distressed and damaged and will suffer long term.

Do you think you could do any of the things this woman has done if it guaranteed you'd be a millionaire in a few years?

It is revolting and I don’t want to know about it anymore. I hope someone steps in and stops her injuring herself further.

That photo of the men queuing up is depraved.

What? This makes no sense, she’s obviously having sex in the usual meaning of the word - I.e. sexual intercourse - in a way actresses in a (non-porn) sex scene are not having sex. Sex is still sex even if it’s not loving sex!

Oh, so she didn’t actually have vaginal sex with them all? If that’s the case, and a quick hand-job counts, you could theoretically do many more… gross as it is!

Why are you assuming he removed his condom rather than just didn't bother putting one on in the first place? Bonnie doesn't seem.to care...

Because she said it was a shock that he had done it.

I honestly don't know (I only watched one interview and that was hard to stomach) but she did say that. I also assumed it had to be vaginal sex until I heard her say that which then made me unsure. The fact she has bite marks on her legs makes me think it's more than just an in and out job.

The woman can be shocked?

I don't get what you are trying to say?

Mate. It's just randos chatting on the internet. No need to overthink it.

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Whilst I think she clearly has issues the ratio here is astounding -
1 messed up woman found 1000+ messed up men WILLING and consenting to violate her. Just shows the high proportion of men who place no value on women other than being a sex object

One word keeps echoing in my mind:

DEPRAVED

I still can’t believe the op asked if she was a genius.

This woman has willingly made herself nothing more than a sex object.

There should be legislation against the advertising of such events. Call it incitement to commit violence against women and charge those involved, Bonnie Blue, agents, all the men

She’s talking about making this an event every 6 weeks. It’s beyond digusting and warping what young men think is acceptable. Bonnie even states they can spit on her and slap her. This cannot be allowed to continue.

I've been reading that there are several countries who have banned her or thrown her out because of her activities. I'm with the people who say this should not be plastered all over the news. I think someone earlier mentioned the creep of porn into everyday life and this is exactly what is happening.

I just think it’s my worst nightmare having hundreds of those men around me while lying down, and randomly taking a turn, some without even protection, its terrifying to me.

When she comes to her senses, that poor woman may never get over this and those men are disgusting animals. That photo of them all with balaclavas is absolutely sickening.

Sorry for the long post but this has really been playing on my mind the last few weeks, especially as I have daughters.

But that photo really clarified for me, it’s upsetting me because I can’t understand it and that’s good. If I can’t understand it then I am just not like them. Some people are into sick things and that’s up to them.
It’s really depraved behaviour from the men and they know this that’s why they are wearing balaclavas but she is inviting it? Why?
it’s for money.

It’s not for free, she is charging for this sicko set up so she not actually enjoying it no matter what she says.

I agree 3lucky absolutely and also have teen girls. I think for most women this is literally their worst nightmare. No money in the world would compel me to do that I would only do so to prevent my own death or that of family. It’s the sort of thing soldiers to do women in wartime. I suspect most women feel the same.

To see a on the surface normal young woman being jolly and facilitating this nightmare scenario is jarring and upsetting to most women. I think it is harmful. It needs to be pushed back under the rock from whence it came. It’s all that dark and evil.

So what I should have said in summary is

‘damaged individual, money grabbing family, and sick men’

Add in notoriety and fame and an obsession with reality tv as a teen apparently. Some people will do anything for their 15 minutes and this is hers.

Worries me that she thinks it's an affirmation that she's beautiful and desirable. When she's an average looking 20 something, looking like a middle aged woman who's had a bit too much work done.

She doesn't understand that men will fuck anyone.

It certainly looks like it.

And they are all wearing balaclavas and wouldn’t admit to doing it with her, so that makes no sense. If someone had to cover their head in case they were identified as being with me, I would not be thinking I was gorgeous!!

It’s self harm- it wouldn’t make sense to us.

She harming herself through the degradation, humiliation, disassociation and suffering of her body.

Some people self harm in a variety of ways. This is just another form. However, If she was cutting herself, starving her body, abusing drugs, I’m pretty sure her family wouldn’t be complicit in these acts, acting as if it’s a perfectly normal thing to do and profiting off her abuse.

Everyone involved in this should hang their heads in shame.

I think technically she was refused a visa as she didn't have the right to work in those countries and what she's doing is classed as economic activity, not overtly for morality reasons but they probably realised it would look pretty bad if they didn't stop her once it got in the media.

I've just read that Only Fans have banned her from uploading the video of the 1000 man gang bang.

So has her plan backfired?

I wonder if she'll be regretting it now. Although it's still got her a lot of publicity.

She'll be sorry if she catches herpes if she hasn't already.