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Is this woman a genius or a damaged individual?Bonnie Blue

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Emilyisherenow · 15/01/2025 15:54

I've fallen down a bit of a rabbit hole lately reading about Bonnie Blue and her mate Lily Phillips.

Both are Only Fans 'stars'. Who've recently gone all over the internet. One for having sex with 100 men in 24 hours and more recently Bonnie Blue for claiming to have broken the world record by having sex with over 1000 men in 12 hours.

I've seen some of their leaked only fans stuff and it's all pretty tame and dull but also quite gross in my opinion. Lots of group sex with multiple masked men who call them slluts and slap their willies in the womens faces while the women pretend to be having the time of their lives.

Lily Philips imo looks particular distressed in some of the videos. Bonnie looks much more detached from it.

Bonnie is also making the news with some of her stunts and derogatory comments about women. All done for click bait I'm sure.

Anyway, onto my aibu.

Even putting aside the very obvious dangers and health risks. Bonnie Blue is now a millionaire. She could probably retire by 30 and be set for life.

I can't decide whether I think she's extremely savvy and smart to be able to do these things but ultimately scone a very rich woman or whether she's deep down very distressed and damaged and will suffer long term.

Do you think you could do any of the things this woman has done if it guaranteed you'd be a millionaire in a few years?

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MJconfessions · 15/01/2025 16:23

She definitely won’t be set for life? She probably wants to upgrade her lifestyle like buy property worth millions and sustain that for the rest of her life. People don’t become millionaires to live a £30k lifestyle after all.

So she’ll need to keep doing things like this to stay afloat.

I don’t think she’s a genius at all. Women being paid to have sex isn’t a new concept. But she’s done it in such a public way that she would destroy her chances of living a normal life without issues cropping up in future.

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 15/01/2025 16:23

There wil alway be one skank trying to outskank the next... what is shameful and disturbing is that it's now mainstream and acceptable.
Even the language we now all use "models", "stars"... are aspirational words. These are not aspirational role models. These are sex workers with really fucked up moral compasses (and probably crabs).

DreamW3aver · 15/01/2025 16:24

SchoolDilemma17 · 15/01/2025 16:04

1000 men in 12 hours is impossible. Do the maths please! It’s a publicity stunt, she surely has issues and won’t be a millionaire by 30.

The maths just isn't mathing, I read an interview with her where she talked about the logistics and the things she'd learnt from her previous activities but even so I just can't see how it could work

Unless it's being misreported and it was 24 hours which could maybe be possible

404ErrorCode · 15/01/2025 16:27

I despair at the state of the world with shit like this in it, I really do.

godmum56 · 15/01/2025 16:28

Emilyisherenow · 15/01/2025 16:15

When I first heard about these two women my first thought was disgusting the whole thing is and that they're selling their souls.

I still think it's disgusting. It's so wrong on so many levels. The message it sends, the risk to health. Not only her own health but the men involved and their other sexual partners.

However on the other hand she has said that she's already a millionaire.

I don't necessarily believe that the 1000 men happened. She reckons it was 45 seconds each. It all gets her talked about and gets people to sign up to her only fans.

I will be interested to see what sort of life she goes on to lead.

Disappointing that there are men willing to queue up just to insert their penis into a woman for a few seconds after hundreds of others.

I will not be interested or care....her life her choice her consequences.

PigInAHouse · 15/01/2025 16:30

Being vague, as I don’t want to out myself, but I know Bonnie Blue’s family (acquaintance, not friends). They’re as fucked up as you’d expect.
None of them are geniuses.

warmcatsofa · 15/01/2025 16:30

Many of us will probably regret working full time till we’re 70 and getting screwed by whatever political party is in power. Might as well get screwed and make a million.

Tink3rbell30 · 15/01/2025 16:31

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Ponoka7 · 15/01/2025 16:31

Sampler · 15/01/2025 15:57

I don’t think it really matters, money is her god and her fanny must be destroyed by now. Her choice and a sad reflection of society, but someone always does it and uses whatever they have to make a few bucks.

Aging and birth are two things which can change the shape. So how would her genitals be destroyed?
For the posters bringing up appearance, what has that got to do with the situation?
I think that the sex industry is bad for a person's MH. There's already emotional etc damage to even consider this sort of thing.

ThePolarBearWhoLostHisCrown · 15/01/2025 16:32

DreamW3aver · 15/01/2025 16:24

The maths just isn't mathing, I read an interview with her where she talked about the logistics and the things she'd learnt from her previous activities but even so I just can't see how it could work

Unless it's being misreported and it was 24 hours which could maybe be possible

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Lily seemed really damaged after 100 men, quite tearful and in pain. How the hell can Bonnie genuinely have had sex with 1000? It's not possible, it has to be a publicity stunt for her surely?

Ponoka7 · 15/01/2025 16:33

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 15/01/2025 16:23

There wil alway be one skank trying to outskank the next... what is shameful and disturbing is that it's now mainstream and acceptable.
Even the language we now all use "models", "stars"... are aspirational words. These are not aspirational role models. These are sex workers with really fucked up moral compasses (and probably crabs).

I doubt they have crabs, there's no hair for them to live in. Perhaps grow up.

User32459 · 15/01/2025 16:34

She's just desperate for attention and found a way to monetise it.

Problem is to get attention and stand out on these platforms you have to be more and more outrageous and degenerate and these women are prepared to do it.

Saschka · 15/01/2025 16:36

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Her mum and stepdad run her SM accounts, and her mum apparently hands out the condoms at these events, so apparently not ashamed of her at all.

It does make you wonder about her upbringing and the possibility of previous CSA, if her mum is happy to sit there and watch her being sexually abused by a load of randoms. Certainly not a “normal” mother-daughter boundary.

HappyMummaOfOne · 15/01/2025 16:36

Would I like the money 1000% …..would I like to explain to a future husband or children how I made the money? No.
would I also be able to get over the sense of shame, embarrassment and feeling dirty…probably not. If they can then good on them. But no it’s not something I could ever do. I think I’d rather be poor with some self respect and dignity that rich because I slept with loads of men and have photos/videos of me online.

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 15/01/2025 16:36

godmum56 · 15/01/2025 16:28

I will not be interested or care....her life her choice her consequences.

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Agree - her life her choice etc... but this is now mainstream. Our kids absorb this as a way women should act and be treated - it filters down to relationships and sex.
Most secondary school kids get sex education from the internet and each other...

That porn and sex work is normalised, in my opinion, is really terrible for women. It devalues us all. Degrades us all.

Noshowlomo · 15/01/2025 16:37

Bonnie blue looks dead behind her eyes.
I imagine her fanny is feeling the same now

louddumpernoise · 15/01/2025 16:37

I feel sorry for these women, there is so much more out there, than fucking 100s of total strangers for money when there is zero need to do so.

This is what Lily Phillips said v recently "I'm doing it for the love of the game. I just really enjoy it," she shared. "I'm very used to sleeping with a lot of guys. I did this as a hobby before I did it for work, so it's not that outrageous to me"

Work? Hobby? fucking 'ell that to me conjures up the daily chore to the office and gardening!

BeardofHagrid · 15/01/2025 16:37

I think it’s safe to say she isn’t a genius 😂

User32459 · 15/01/2025 16:38

I remember when Katie Price used to be hailed as a genius businesswoman by monetising attention. This is just the natural progression of that. You need to be more and more degenerate now to make that name for yourself.

They'll be on Love Island or I'm a Celeb next year.

AConcernedCitizen · 15/01/2025 16:39

We'll find out what she is when her 15 minutes are over. Half of these 'modern celebrity' types can't hack the fallout from a couple of weeks on Love Island. Doing what she's done would absolutely shatter most people in the cold light of day. Maybe she's the tiny minority who are resilient (or empty) enough to deal with it, but I doubt it.

Her problem will be figuring out what's next. Musicians, actors, athletes...they can write another album, do another film, chase another trophy. What can she do? 2,000 guys? 10,000? An infinite human fuck centipede?

There's a good, but very hard to find, documentary called Sex: The Annabelle Chong Story (late 90s, early 00s) about a woman who did something similar back in the day. She was highly intelligent/educated and from a privileged background, but was dealing with some serious trauma and started doing adult movies as a kind of "fuck you" to society/empowerment thing. She is now apparently doing very well in a 'normal' career.

User32459 · 15/01/2025 16:40

Bonnie Blue and Lily Phillips are just a product of their environment.

This is liberalism in 2025.

GiraffesAtThePark · 15/01/2025 16:40

There are lots of women who don’t make it on onlyfans yet they’ve got all these videos out there and haven’t made anything. OF is horrible.

I also thought Bonny was older than she is. The barely legal men doesn’t seem as bad. I mean there are much more gross things than a 25 and 18 year old having sex. Still don’t like the whole publicity stunts etc.

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Emilyisherenow · 15/01/2025 16:40

She doesn't look 25. I wondered if she was lying. But I think she'd have been outed.

No idea if it would ruin her genitals. I can't imagine it could be very good for you down there.

Her mum and stepdad are involved and support her/promote her which seems very messed up.

It's going to come back to bite her if she ever wants a normal partner/children.

OTOH I still keep thinking. She's worth 3 million and is set to make more.

When I say genius I mean in terms of she's made millions from sex work. Something most couldn't and wouldn't be able to do. Wouldn't want to do and she might be young enough to walk away from it all very rich.

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godmum56 · 15/01/2025 16:42

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 15/01/2025 16:36

Agree - her life her choice etc... but this is now mainstream. Our kids absorb this as a way women should act and be treated - it filters down to relationships and sex.
Most secondary school kids get sex education from the internet and each other...

That porn and sex work is normalised, in my opinion, is really terrible for women. It devalues us all. Degrades us all.

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if this kind of behaviour really was normalised, surely she would not get fame or money from it?

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 15/01/2025 16:42

Ponoka7 · 15/01/2025 16:33

I doubt they have crabs, there's no hair for them to live in. Perhaps grow up.

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Yes, sorry, 'crabs' was a slightly below the belt joke... just a bit funnier than HIV though... because having unprotected sex with 1000's of men is, statistically, going to get her catching something.