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Is this woman a genius or a damaged individual?Bonnie Blue

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Emilyisherenow · 15/01/2025 15:54

I've fallen down a bit of a rabbit hole lately reading about Bonnie Blue and her mate Lily Phillips.

Both are Only Fans 'stars'. Who've recently gone all over the internet. One for having sex with 100 men in 24 hours and more recently Bonnie Blue for claiming to have broken the world record by having sex with over 1000 men in 12 hours.

I've seen some of their leaked only fans stuff and it's all pretty tame and dull but also quite gross in my opinion. Lots of group sex with multiple masked men who call them slluts and slap their willies in the womens faces while the women pretend to be having the time of their lives.

Lily Philips imo looks particular distressed in some of the videos. Bonnie looks much more detached from it.

Bonnie is also making the news with some of her stunts and derogatory comments about women. All done for click bait I'm sure.

Anyway, onto my aibu.

Even putting aside the very obvious dangers and health risks. Bonnie Blue is now a millionaire. She could probably retire by 30 and be set for life.

I can't decide whether I think she's extremely savvy and smart to be able to do these things but ultimately scone a very rich woman or whether she's deep down very distressed and damaged and will suffer long term.

Do you think you could do any of the things this woman has done if it guaranteed you'd be a millionaire in a few years?

OP posts:
Lentilweaver · 15/01/2025 17:25

Genius? Really? 🙄

SabreIsMyFave · 15/01/2025 17:26

Dweetfidilove · 15/01/2025 17:21

I've only heard of these two on MN, thankfully. Reading your OP has turned my stomach, and I'll go for damaged.
I can't even bear someone spitting on the high street, so the thought of some of the sexual activities folks get up to are not for me.

No amount of money would open me up to:
An orgy of any sort or a gangbang ☹️
A golden shower/spitting/shitting/ejaculations in my eyes (WTAF?)
Anyone up my rear or all the other 'exciting' things people claim to get up to.
I also cannot abide shit sex, so I'm going to trample on Mr One Minute's ego and probably land myself in trouble.

Guess I'm just gonna be broke 🤷🏾‍♀️.

I also cannot abide shit sex, so I'm going to trample on Mr One Minute's ego and probably land myself in trouble.

Name change fail???

I agree, she is definitely damaged, and I can't believe she is only 25. Thought she was mid to late 30s. I also don't believe she did what she claims.

I don't wanna be that person, but her vulva/vagina must be messed up! 😖

Ihateboris · 15/01/2025 17:26

Which part of the country are they doing this ? I'm pretty sure there will be some STDs doing the rounds 🤔

itsjustbiology · 15/01/2025 17:27

The parents must be very proud of their daughters..Can you imagine?

MeltingSky · 15/01/2025 17:27

I've just watched an interview of her and another lady on this morning on YouTube.
I can hand on heart say this woman is thick as mince. The other lady was challenging her views and BB just seemed to get more and more defensive to the point of being rude.

She talks a lot about "educating" and seems to forget she actually has to understand what she is saying in the first place 🤔 😂. She also says women who don't give their partners sex (referring to men, not lesbian partners - funnily enought she didn't mention that) are lazy. What is lazy is not putting much thought as to why women aren't just there for men's pleasure.

She's just an empty headed twat on all counts. Full of herself too.

MeltingSky · 15/01/2025 17:27

itsjustbiology · 15/01/2025 17:27

The parents must be very proud of their daughters..Can you imagine?

Her mum pimps her out.

Crazybaby123 · 15/01/2025 17:27

If youbwere in sex work already, which they are then this isn't a huge leap. But let's face it, we could all sell our fannies for a price but the majority of us choose not to for whichever reasons. For me it would be too traumatic, I know I could not mentally deal with it, I don't also like the moral issues around it for myself personally. But I don't really have a problem with prostitution or sex work per se, if the individuals have chosen to do it and are able to cope mentally with it then up to them. In the cases of these two women, I think it's a stunt and they got paid well for doing it, if they are able to mentally detach themselves then it's up to them if they want to use their bodies in that way. We all use our bodies to get paid in some form or another but eacb of us can cope with different things. I could not cope with being a teacher (responsibility for multiple young lives), a nurse(coping with sickness and death daily), a firefighter, a stunt man or a soldier and I know I could not cope with being a sex worker, which is just another way to use your body to get money. I sit at a laptop and use my fingers to type and my voice for meetings for my work, maybe I am lazy but hey. But other people can and do, so maybe for some people it really doesn't affect them in the same way it would me to do those jobs.

Theunamedcat · 15/01/2025 17:27

Look at Katie price literally millions through her hands over the years admittedly she hasn't made a living from sex but rather being sexy and flogging her body image it's never enough she spends and earns it's like an addiction I don't think these women will stop either

RobinMcfly · 15/01/2025 17:27

Dweetfidilove · 15/01/2025 17:24

Yeah. I can see her bagging a MN cicklodger type.

they say god would judge but was there a point where the Vatican was protesting about not using protection because it was considered against gods will ?

Pope Francis upholds Catholic ban on contraception - Catholic Herald

SabreIsMyFave · 15/01/2025 17:27

Lentilweaver · 15/01/2025 17:25

Genius? Really? 🙄

I agree. It's laughable to suggest she's a genius! There must be better ways to get rich young than prostituting yourself, wrecking your vagina, and fucking 100s of dirty foul, vile, men.

Just grim on every level.

TheaBrandt · 15/01/2025 17:28

These things are circular kind of
hoping for a puritanical backlash as can’t see where society can go after things
like this - there’s no lower is there really?

louddumpernoise · 15/01/2025 17:29

MJconfessions · 15/01/2025 17:01

People who know her full name can easily find the information. They’re not going to search for “pornstar”, but her name. Her real name is in articles alongside the alias so it’s very much linked to her identity. Do you think things on the internet automatically expire after 10 years or something?

So that could be future partners/in laws/employers/children stumbling across her having sex with 1000 men in a day. That isn’t a good look.

There’s documentaries on Netflix and prime about sex work. I don’t think the majority have a happy ending - it tends to be a source of shame and trauma.

Of course not but who is going to be googling Bonnie Blue in 10 or 20 years time? it'll be another "pornstar" that'll fill the forums of MN and her exploits!!!

People who know her wont need to google her, they'll know all about her but if she moved to another area, changed her name, got a job as a TA or Carer, who would know? she'd just be that "lovely woman who works at the school" etc

Like i said, i know a woman who has had sex with 100s of men during her career as a porn actress, no one has a clue... she isn't ashamed, just views it as something she did in another life, she detaches herself from the men, sees it as 100s of one night stands.

Lentilweaver · 15/01/2025 17:30

I am increasingly pursing my lips and clutching my pearls on MN thesw days, as people elevate all kinds of vacuous idiots to genius level.

Sunshine1500 · 15/01/2025 17:30

I’d rather be poor

IkeaJesusChrist · 15/01/2025 17:31

Eyesopenwideawake · 15/01/2025 17:23

From what I've read (disclaimer: no idea if it's true) the 'models' and 'influencers' who pout on the back of yachts in UAE/Dubai/Qatar etc do things that are a LOT more gross than straight shagging on camera and earn a fraction of the likes of these two.

Yeah I've heard of things involving literal shit.

NarcMindGames · 15/01/2025 17:32

Emilyisherenow · 15/01/2025 15:54

I've fallen down a bit of a rabbit hole lately reading about Bonnie Blue and her mate Lily Phillips.

Both are Only Fans 'stars'. Who've recently gone all over the internet. One for having sex with 100 men in 24 hours and more recently Bonnie Blue for claiming to have broken the world record by having sex with over 1000 men in 12 hours.

I've seen some of their leaked only fans stuff and it's all pretty tame and dull but also quite gross in my opinion. Lots of group sex with multiple masked men who call them slluts and slap their willies in the womens faces while the women pretend to be having the time of their lives.

Lily Philips imo looks particular distressed in some of the videos. Bonnie looks much more detached from it.

Bonnie is also making the news with some of her stunts and derogatory comments about women. All done for click bait I'm sure.

Anyway, onto my aibu.

Even putting aside the very obvious dangers and health risks. Bonnie Blue is now a millionaire. She could probably retire by 30 and be set for life.

I can't decide whether I think she's extremely savvy and smart to be able to do these things but ultimately scone a very rich woman or whether she's deep down very distressed and damaged and will suffer long term.

Do you think you could do any of the things this woman has done if it guaranteed you'd be a millionaire in a few years?

I might be visualising the wrong person but I thought Bonnie blue was in her forties ?? Off to google now as if I’m thinking of the right person I’m surprised !

pinkstripeycat · 15/01/2025 17:32

Poster who said a million doesn’t go far is right.

A million cash in the bank is good if everything else is paid off but I wouldn’t want to have sex with loads of people to get it.

She’s probably so numb to sex that she’d probably find it difficult to have a normal sexual relationship and, to be honest, who would want her?

Dweetfidilove · 15/01/2025 17:33

SabreIsMyFave · 15/01/2025 17:26

I also cannot abide shit sex, so I'm going to trample on Mr One Minute's ego and probably land myself in trouble.

Name change fail???

I agree, she is definitely damaged, and I can't believe she is only 25. Thought she was mid to late 30s. I also don't believe she did what she claims.

I don't wanna be that person, but her vulva/vagina must be messed up! 😖

* Mr One Minute's *
I imagine they can't be going for longer given the number of them queuing up. Can't be anything enjoyable, so not much point really.

NarcMindGames · 15/01/2025 17:33

SabreIsMyFave · 15/01/2025 17:27

I agree. It's laughable to suggest she's a genius! There must be better ways to get rich young than prostituting yourself, wrecking your vagina, and fucking 100s of dirty foul, vile, men.

Just grim on every level.

Yes I must admit I did spare a thought for her microbiome!

wriggleigglepiggle · 15/01/2025 17:35

It'll be a load of bollocks just to get attention and more traffic to her OF, and it's clearly working

3luckystars · 15/01/2025 17:36

I like Bonnie Blue, I saw an interview with her and she knows what she is doing. Good luck to her.

The other one though Lilly seems like she needs help. I feel a bit sorry for her.

Im just wondering about the tax, I read about them all the time making thousands every month on Only Fans, are they paying tax on all of these huge incomes. Sorry for the boring question!

Adamante · 15/01/2025 17:36

TheaBrandt · 15/01/2025 17:28

These things are circular kind of
hoping for a puritanical backlash as can’t see where society can go after things
like this - there’s no lower is there really?

Oh there’s always lower…

As for finding someone to marry her, it’s incredibly likely, I’ve known married couples who swing from almost day one of meeting each other - getting ever more extreme. It will be someone who’s into that and he’ll probably be as shark like as her.

TwistedWonder · 15/01/2025 17:36

She’s repulsive but then so are the men. How gross do you have to be to queue up for the chance to stick your dick into what must be like stirring porridge for 30 seconds? It’s not even about sex is it? She literally values herself as nothing more than a hole.

Her fanny must look like a punched lasagne by now.

Tamrastarr · 15/01/2025 17:36

Every time I hear / read about a sex worker that apparently loves their job and feels empowered by it, I shake my head. I may be wrong, but I believe any person must have serious issues to get involved in this line of work. They will be messed up regardless of how much money they make.

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