Is this woman a genius or a damaged individual?Bonnie Blue

[Emilyisherenow]

I've fallen down a bit of a rabbit hole lately reading about Bonnie Blue and her mate Lily Phillips.

Both are Only Fans 'stars'. Who've recently gone all over the internet. One for having sex with 100 men in 24 hours and more recently Bonnie Blue for claiming to have broken the world record by having sex with over 1000 men in 12 hours.

I've seen some of their leaked only fans stuff and it's all pretty tame and dull but also quite gross in my opinion. Lots of group sex with multiple masked men who call them slluts and slap their willies in the womens faces while the women pretend to be having the time of their lives.

Lily Philips imo looks particular distressed in some of the videos. Bonnie looks much more detached from it.

Bonnie is also making the news with some of her stunts and derogatory comments about women. All done for click bait I'm sure.

Anyway, onto my aibu.

Even putting aside the very obvious dangers and health risks. Bonnie Blue is now a millionaire. She could probably retire by 30 and be set for life.

I can't decide whether I think she's extremely savvy and smart to be able to do these things but ultimately scone a very rich woman or whether she's deep down very distressed and damaged and will suffer long term.

Do you think you could do any of the things this woman has done if it guaranteed you'd be a millionaire in a few years?

Of course. If it was physically possible there'd be 10,000, 100,000 or even a million in that queue.

God will judge them.

One of the women was quoted as saying something along the lines of that there will be some fool who'll marry her after she's done. Disgusting.

I don't think it's shameful to prostitute but in this case her behaviour does give me a sense of disgust and revulsion.
Seeing that room covered in used tissues and condoms was such a depressing revolting sight, degrading to everyone involved.
I find it really bizarre that her parents are on board - if she's telling the truth.
She may be damaged but she comes across as quite astute.
Only the future will tell how this will affect her ,if she has plans to marry and have a family i don't think many men will be able to see beyond this , the more you think about it , it's just vile ,the thought of all those strangers with God knows what 'sticking it in her' ,knowing nothing about each other , so completely cold and soulless ,crude and depressing.
No i don't think she's a genius,too big a price to pay for what she's done.

I actually think it's a publicity stunt. Is there any actual evidence it even happened? Whatever.. it's grim as fuck. She's probably hooked on recreational drugs, so however much money she makes it won't last long!

Wtaf 🤣

It's just rank and depressing.

Is there actual proof of these activities?

It is disgusting, not genius at all. Not at all what I want my children seeing as normal as they grow up, the more this kind of shite is given time in the light the more normal it'll become for them. No thanks, yuck.

Damaged soul in the truest sense. It reminds me of those women who go to Dubai and have some rich Arab shit in their mouths so they can carry designer handbags and look rich whilst dying inside.

Bonnie Blue is claiming to have had sex with over 1000 men in 12hrs but I very much suspect this is not true and done to steal her competition's (Lilly) thunder.
Bonnie is known for pulling stunts: quite a few of the men she has featured are not just randoms but porn performers; she knows that saying outrageous things will get her airtime and therefore more traffic to her OF, she saus she is going to do XYZ but it doesn't end up happening ( like with Australian schoolies, she whipped it up to frenzy but didn't do it because she had the wrong visa. My guess is she never intended doing it, and knew if she got refused because of the visa it gives her the excuse without losing face. Meanwhile her public profile skyrocketed).
1057 men in 12 hours would be about 1 man every 40 seconds. If you allow a few seconds for men to swap and get in position, that's probably 30s per man. And she would have to have no breaks, and everything running like clockwork. I don't think that's realistic, far more likely to be a publicity stunt.

Bonnie is completely dead behind the eyes, soulless. She seems to lack any sort of emotion, warmth when she speaks. Maybe that’s what makes her ‘good’ at what she does.

Lily, who is planning the same thing, at least sounds more self aware and is open to listening to people’s fears for her. She seems a sweet girl, I hope she listens to people and changes track.

Because what happens next?, Lily ‘sleeps’ with 1100 men, so Bonnie goes for 1500?

It’s important to note, that these girls only started this over a year ago and its accelerated this level already. This is self harm. Their families and these men are complicit in their abuse of their bodies. It’s beyond tragic.

well the older generation did give society the swinging sixties, and car key bowls, yes the new only fans is morally omg, but its old ideas but with modern technology

Oh...I'm a bit split on this topic....half of me thinks "Good on her" if stupid men are prepared to pay for it and she is happy and it means she doesn't have to work as long as the rest of us!

But then the other half of me thinks...."Urgh, Have some self respect!" I wouldn't want to be around when her kids search their mums name on the internet (when /if she has some).

I mean I could never ever do it myself but playing devils advocate here. Sex holds so much power over men. She is using that to make herself millions. Women have so much power yet get shamed for having sex as if they are 'dirty' or 'sluts'. Could us feeling so repulsed by it be a result of us being conditioned by the patriarchy? It is just a thought.

It's just sex work . Worlds oldest prfession.

I've only heard of these two on MN, thankfully. Reading your OP has turned my stomach, and I'll go for damaged.
I can't even bear someone spitting on the high street, so the thought of some of the sexual activities folks get up to are not for me.

No amount of money would open me up to:
An orgy of any sort or a gangbang ☹️
A golden shower/spitting/shitting/ejaculations in my eyes (WTAF?)
Anyone up my rear or all the other 'exciting' things people claim to get up to.
I also cannot abide shit sex, so I'm going to trample on Mr One Minute's ego and probably land myself in trouble.

Guess I'm just gonna be broke 🤷🏾‍♀️.

like the high society courtesan's etc

It’s self harm

It's disgusting but I can't help feeling they are very damaged individuals, possibly SA victims trying to take back some form of control ???

To be clear I'm not at all saying I think it's a good idea to do what they are doing.

The scariest thing to me is the safety aspect. They are doing some of these stunts with little to no security and Bonnie has already been robbed and blackmailed. It wouldn't take much for her to end up being seriously attacked.

It just fascinates me when people go to extremes.

From what I've read (disclaimer: no idea if it's true) the 'models' and 'influencers' who pout on the back of yachts in UAE/Dubai/Qatar etc do things that are a LOT more gross than straight shagging on camera and earn a fraction of the likes of these two.

Why is Bonnie so sunburnt all the time? She as red as a lobster 😂 If she’s really earning five mil a year, you’d think she could afford spf. She has those big denture-like fake teeth too. I don’t personally find her as attractive as she says she is 🤷‍♀️ I have seen other adult stars who could knock her into a cocked hat. She’s more like an actress from Corrie or Hollyoaks.

I can't get past thinking about how sore their vaginas must be. makes me wince and cross my legs. That is before I have even spared a thought about the utter weirdness of it all and how I feel that this is just wrong on every level and degrades everyone who participates in what these women are doing.

Yeah. I can see her bagging a MN cicklodger type.

Who on earth would think that? They are absolutely vile.