Is this woman a genius or a damaged individual?Bonnie Blue

[Emilyisherenow]

I've fallen down a bit of a rabbit hole lately reading about Bonnie Blue and her mate Lily Phillips.

Both are Only Fans 'stars'. Who've recently gone all over the internet. One for having sex with 100 men in 24 hours and more recently Bonnie Blue for claiming to have broken the world record by having sex with over 1000 men in 12 hours.

I've seen some of their leaked only fans stuff and it's all pretty tame and dull but also quite gross in my opinion. Lots of group sex with multiple masked men who call them slluts and slap their willies in the womens faces while the women pretend to be having the time of their lives.

Lily Philips imo looks particular distressed in some of the videos. Bonnie looks much more detached from it.

Bonnie is also making the news with some of her stunts and derogatory comments about women. All done for click bait I'm sure.

Anyway, onto my aibu.

Even putting aside the very obvious dangers and health risks. Bonnie Blue is now a millionaire. She could probably retire by 30 and be set for life.

I can't decide whether I think she's extremely savvy and smart to be able to do these things but ultimately scone a very rich woman or whether she's deep down very distressed and damaged and will suffer long term.

Do you think you could do any of the things this woman has done if it guaranteed you'd be a millionaire in a few years?

She claims to be a millionaire.

She also claims to have had sex with over 1,000 men in 12 hours, which is clearly a lie.

Basically she talks a lot of shit for publicity. For some reason people keep falling for it.

Yeah I agree, she's just ended up a complete mess

Although she could have walked away with all her money. She went off the rails.

For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?" Mark 8:36 and Matthew 16:26.

The best thing those 2 could do now is list the names of all the men who took part so women know who to avoid.

I’m very much an advocate for doing what makes you happy if you can, but neither of those 2 women look genuinely happy.
As for what the future holds, they may have made some money but what decent person is going to want to be in a relationship with them. Imagine their poor kids one day hearing about what they did - and let’s face it, it’s on the internet forever.

I feel sorry for whatever happened to the pair of them in their lives that make them think this behaviour is normal, or a good idea.

Definitely not a genius. Just 2 people who will do anything / anyone for fame.

The whole thing is disgusting. I know nothing about either of them apart from what I've gleaned from skimming a few threads on MN, but none of it is good. I don't think it's savvy to sell your soul, no matter the price. No idea how much of it is down to their upbringing, personal lack of moral compass (not to mention common sense), declining societal standards, and so on, but it certainly doesn't reflect well on the current state of the world that this could earn her anything other than scorn or pity.

She can’t walk away from this though. She can stop posting new things, but what’s already on the internet can’t be removed as people can still share it around. She might have articles about her that are etched into the internet too. She has chosen a money making method that comes with judgement, and I don’t think it’s a box you can close once it has been opened.

Not something I would want my girls to do

I'd rather be destitute. But I do thank my lucky stars that I didn't have her parents raising me as a child. Fucking hell.

I don’t believe it, I’ve been down this rabbit hole and there are to many things that don’t add up, whilst I think they are both porn performers who will live to regret their decisions i dont believe the numbers they are claiming, it’s all to promote their OFs and it’s worked they’ll both earn 10s of thousands a month.

It's grim. This shouldn't be normalised. It's hardly surprising that the levels of VAWAG by men are so high is it? There has to be a correlation.

I feel desperately sorry for any future children these women may have. Once out on the internet it will mark them and and children for the rest of their days.
Is any amount of money worth that?

I am going in my 50’s, led a sheltered life in lots of ways. Had gynae issues my whole life, including having to deal with cancerous cells at just 17, and a whole plethora of horror stories since.
The pain this has caused me is huge, but the mental stress is worse. I was in hospital again before the holidays and will be back in soon.
To think that I could have put my body, if it had been perfectly healthy, through worse than this makes me so upset for these girls. While female anatomy can be pretty robust, it’s not designed to be treated this way.
The description of facial abuse makes me sick. I can remember some footballers doing the same to some Thai sex workers and it’s vile.
These men will have mums, sisters, female friends.
What happens to these men when these sessions are over? Do they expect their girlfriends to behave the same?
It is not about any form of connection, it is about hooting and degrading someone. There is nothing empowering in that.

do you think could find 1000 women to sleep with one man in 12 hours? ...money is not a sign of morlity or intelligence.whats she gonna buy?n sod her

In ten years time, you d have to go looking for her, google "pornstars" and you wont names from 10 15 years ago, the internet moves on.

The UK has produced 1000s of pornstars over the years but who could name one?

Well, i could but thats only because a woman i used to work with confessed to being one for 5 or 6 years, you'd have never have guessed it, 2 kids, happily married.... i'd known her for years, total shock & nothing to what i'd imagined they become.

Most retire and lead normal lives i suspect but of course some don't.

They are seriously fucked up already. I also wonder where they find all these sick fucks desperate men to have sex with them.

I wholeheartedly agree that these stunts and porn in general encourage VAWAG. However she's only thinking of herself, she's cashing in.

She definitely looks dead behind the eyes and seems very detached. Perhaps she can detach? I don't think I could but plenty of people do.

As a mum of teens I don't think she should have children unless she's planning on leaving the country and getting a new identity.

If someone were to give me £1billion for sleeping with hundreds/thousands of men I wouldn't even consider it for a second.

I value my integrity, morals, reputation and health much more than money.

Some sad fucks will fuck anything, women seem to be reduced to being just holes by a lot of scum these days.

I just think she has a lot of internalised misogyny based on her comments about women alone. I think she must loathe herself on some level. I hope she gets the help she needs.

Also, yes mathematically it's bullshit and further to this who really would physically count 1000 people and not screw up the count at some people. It's just a sea of people so the margin for error would be 10% or so I reckon.

I bet she has a nasty bout of thrush or cystitis too if any of this crap is to be believed.

That's assuming she's not caught herself a dose of chlamydia too.

For both women their parents seem to have an active role in their 'careers'.

I can't imagine a healthy parent/child relationship where the parent is involved in making money from their child having sex.

These two women certainly aren't geniuses. Clever, creative women don't have to resort to this to make money.

I think they're damaging feminism, damaging their own self-esteem and potentially damaging their health (mental and physical). Not worth it for a billion let alone a million.

I do worry that so many of the younger generation seem obsessed with the idea of being mega rich and some will do anything to achieve it.

It's the vast majority of men i'm afraid.

Ime most men will fuck any one.

I'd really doubt the whole 1000 guys in 12 hours thing. There's no way you could be penetrated for that long and not be left with an injury of some sort. I doubt these "guys" would have been gentle.