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I know his secret…. Thread 3

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Waffletots · 10/12/2024 18:35

Starting another thread because the last one is full.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5226374-i-know-his-secret-but-how-do-i-play-this?page=1

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5226809-i-know-his-secret-thread-2?page=1

Thank you so much everyone for your messages, I appreciate them so much and you have truly helped me this past crazy few days to know I have so many people supporting me.
I’ve seen a solicitor this afternoon who has given me some good advice regarding finances and the legalities when it comes to our jointly owned home, a lot to get my head around but I feel a lot more informed now!
I’ve missed two calls from my husband since I last updated, I’m worried he’s going to come to the house to try and speak to me but hoping he may think my brother is still here and not bother!

I know his secret but how do I play this? | Mumsnet

I have been married for five years to who I thought was a wonderful man, we have a child and one on the way. Last night I received a text from his fe...

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5226374-i-know-his-secret-but-how-do-i-play-this?page=1

OP posts:
HebburnPokemon · 15/12/2024 21:12

OP, has arsehole been in touch?

MrsPeterHarris · 15/12/2024 21:46

Congratulations Op - your 2 DCs have one strong lady for a mum!

slapmyarseandcallmemary · 15/12/2024 22:01

Congratulations!!

sammyjoanne · 15/12/2024 22:27

Amazing news congratulations. I really wish all the very best for you and your little darlings :)

flumposie · 15/12/2024 22:39

Congratulations

Icanflyhigh · 15/12/2024 23:10

Congratulations, I'm made up for you. Enjoy every second of your beautiful baby and well done for continuing to be so strong xx

Helplessandheartbroke · 15/12/2024 23:21

Congratulations op! Glad you and baby are well

Sweetlikechoca · 15/12/2024 23:49

Waffletots · 14/12/2024 21:27

Hi everyone, just a quick update!
Baby is here safely, I won’t say when they were born for obvious reasons or many details. Apart from thankfully it was (very!) quick and I had my mum for support (sadly so quick my sister in law didn’t make it!) but arrived not long after, she was very shocked to see me with a baby on my chest!
My husband has been informed by my family, nothing from him yet in way of asking to see either of our children just the usual “woe is me” messages, no actual explanation or apology but I now know to expect nothing more.
I worried when I had the baby I would feel weak and want our “family unit” back… but looking at my two treasures, I know I can get through anything and we all deserve more, I will never, ever go back.
Thanks so much for all the support, I will post again as and when I can x

Congratulations on your new bundle OP. I am sure you will be soaking up every last baby moment. ❤️

Topsyturveymam · 16/12/2024 03:42

Huge congratulations. I really respect your strength throughout this. What a difficult time but you have yourself and the little ones to focus on. x

Cosmicdreams · 16/12/2024 06:13

Congratulations, you're such a strong mum x

OopsyDaisie · 16/12/2024 07:21

Congratulations OP! what a lovely update!

MangoRose · 16/12/2024 08:19

Congratulations! I am in absolute awe of how you have dealt with this. Enjoy your beautiful new baby.

BadgerFace · 16/12/2024 09:29

@Waffletots you are an amazing inspiration! A mama bear of the highest magnitude. Congratulations on the arrival of your baby and enjoy those newborn snuggles.

Skye99 · 16/12/2024 10:20

Congratulations! 💐 I am in awe of how you have dealt with this too.

DuckbilledSplatterPuff · 16/12/2024 11:08

Many Congratulations Waffle. So glad that the birth went well for you and you had a safe delivery and for the joy your two lovely children bring you.

WhatShallIdo11 · 16/12/2024 13:22

Many congratulations Waffle on the birth of your little one. Enjoy this special time as much as you can x

HardyCrow · 16/12/2024 18:29

Many congratulations and good luck with the future. ( though I’m sure you’ll make your own luck)

momtoboys · 16/12/2024 19:06

Congratulations! You are a boss!!

NinaGeiger · 16/12/2024 19:16

Congratulations. You seem like an incredible person.
Hope the post-birth hormones are treating you ok on top of everything else

Sleepynurse · 17/12/2024 07:26

2025willbemytime · 15/12/2024 13:49

Please those posters who are, stop asking for identifying details about Waffletots children. We don't need to know what day the baby was born, how much they weighed or what sex her children are. Give her support, allow her anonymity or bog off.

Totally agree

brokenwand · 17/12/2024 10:35

Congratulations, I hope your all doing well

user1493379562 · 17/12/2024 11:38

Congratulations on the birth of your little one! I would just like to let you know you are braver than you know and you will get through this. You will have to travel down a long, long tunnel with many twists and turns but believe me there is light at the end of it. you will get through this! Been there done that and got the T shirt!

romany4 · 17/12/2024 11:54

Congratulations!!

You are an amazing strong woman!

Hurryuphumphreygeorgeiswaiting · 17/12/2024 13:45

Congratulations op.

PinkPootle75 · 17/12/2024 21:56

Congratulations OP ,you deserve a wonderful Christmas with your little ones.

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