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I know his secret…. Thread 3

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Waffletots · 10/12/2024 18:35

Starting another thread because the last one is full.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5226374-i-know-his-secret-but-how-do-i-play-this?page=1

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5226809-i-know-his-secret-thread-2?page=1

Thank you so much everyone for your messages, I appreciate them so much and you have truly helped me this past crazy few days to know I have so many people supporting me.
I’ve seen a solicitor this afternoon who has given me some good advice regarding finances and the legalities when it comes to our jointly owned home, a lot to get my head around but I feel a lot more informed now!
I’ve missed two calls from my husband since I last updated, I’m worried he’s going to come to the house to try and speak to me but hoping he may think my brother is still here and not bother!

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I have been married for five years to who I thought was a wonderful man, we have a child and one on the way. Last night I received a text from his fe...

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Dexterrolledoffthesofa · 15/12/2024 09:44

Oh wow, @Waffletots!!
So many congratulations to you - you are an incredibly strong woman.
He, on the other hand, is an incredibly weak, selfish man who deserves none of you xxx

Dwrcegin · 15/12/2024 09:45

Wonderful update. Congrats OP Flowers

Ihavesomeideas · 15/12/2024 09:46

Congratulations ! So happy for you

Incakewetrust · 15/12/2024 09:48

Congratulations!!

TheFormidableMrsC · 15/12/2024 09:50

Huge congratulations @Waffletots, what fantastic news this morning! I hope you and your babies are all doing well!

You are a remarkable woman and mother and that silly bastard has lost so much. He has shown you what he is as you can see now. We're all here when you need any support. Sending lots of love to you all xx

Lunde · 15/12/2024 09:53

Congratulations Waffletots!

Sorrypinkfish · 15/12/2024 09:56

Congratulations @Waffletots , what a woman!

Sending love and best wishes to you and your perfect babies, take care. X

Americano75 · 15/12/2024 10:08

Congratulations to you, hope you and your beautiful babies are doing well!

Whathappensnowplease · 15/12/2024 10:19

Congratulations OP!

That stupid,stupid man losing his chance to see your beautiful baby being born because he couldn't resist having his "fun" on the side.

ReScent · 15/12/2024 10:28

Congratulations Waffletots, sounds like a marvellous labour and birth, and you’ve got the right people by your side.

clodethewindie · 15/12/2024 10:48

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baytreelane23 · 15/12/2024 10:50

Congratulations! So happy baby is here safely 🥰

TheFormidableMrsC · 15/12/2024 10:58

@clodethewindie Stop troll hunting. Report the thread if you have a problem with it.

Joyfullasever · 15/12/2024 11:45

Brilliant news waffletots, huge congratulations and so well done for your bravery. I am so pleased for you. Enjoy your little bundle of treasure for now. Get in to your routine with your newborn, you can deal with your husband later as and when you’re ready. Just enjoy this moment with your family.

MarvellousMonsters · 15/12/2024 11:48

Lovely news, it sounds like you have a great support network, so just nest with your children and enjoy a quiet cosy Christmas.

Next year you can get on with divorcing the sperm donor.

Evaka · 15/12/2024 11:50

Congratulations, you absolute hero!

TimeConsuming · 15/12/2024 11:51

I imagine a Christmas branding of items with #BeMoreWaffletots would have appeal, and a niche group of women who saw it would be very amused.

Timefortea87 · 15/12/2024 12:04

Huge congratulations, that’s amazing news!
and as difficult as it may be at the moment, you really have got this. You and your beautiful children deserve the best.
Sending you lots of love and strength @Waffletots xxxx

JFDIYOLO · 15/12/2024 12:04

A thought ... Have the other grandparents made contact? Are they interested?

Mix56 · 15/12/2024 12:11

Oh well done Waffle. Enjoy your baby. Thank the Gods for your lovely family.
Forget the unspeakable idiot for now.
He just keeps digging his own grave doesn't he?

MrsPerfect12 · 15/12/2024 12:15

Congratulations on the birth of your baby. Lots of love and strength for the weeks ahead. 💐

Tahlbias · 15/12/2024 12:17

Many Congratulations 🎉 you are very strong, under the circumstances! Big hugs to you and your little treasures 😘

WearyAuldWumman · 15/12/2024 12:23

MelainesLaugh · 15/12/2024 00:12

Congratulations 🥂 have you now got one of each or are they both the same?

That would be too outing to answer, I should imagine.

GameOfJones · 15/12/2024 12:28

Huge congratulations. I can't believe he hasn't asked to see your 3 year old or meet his new child! That says it all unfortunately.

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