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I know his secret…. Thread 3

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Waffletots · 10/12/2024 18:35

Starting another thread because the last one is full.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5226374-i-know-his-secret-but-how-do-i-play-this?page=1

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5226809-i-know-his-secret-thread-2?page=1

Thank you so much everyone for your messages, I appreciate them so much and you have truly helped me this past crazy few days to know I have so many people supporting me.
I’ve seen a solicitor this afternoon who has given me some good advice regarding finances and the legalities when it comes to our jointly owned home, a lot to get my head around but I feel a lot more informed now!
I’ve missed two calls from my husband since I last updated, I’m worried he’s going to come to the house to try and speak to me but hoping he may think my brother is still here and not bother!

I know his secret but how do I play this? | Mumsnet

I have been married for five years to who I thought was a wonderful man, we have a child and one on the way. Last night I received a text from his fe...

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OP posts:
Scottishskifun · 15/12/2024 12:46

Congratulations! Your doing amazingly.
Make sure you keep the messages in a document or folder as strange as that sounds but he might try and switch things on you and claim parent alienation so you will have a good log.

2025willbemytime · 15/12/2024 13:49

Please those posters who are, stop asking for identifying details about Waffletots children. We don't need to know what day the baby was born, how much they weighed or what sex her children are. Give her support, allow her anonymity or bog off.

Peopleinmyphone · 15/12/2024 13:53

Congratulations, sounds like you are feeling really empowered, as you should! X

Lellojello · 15/12/2024 14:33

2025willbemytime · 15/12/2024 13:49

Please those posters who are, stop asking for identifying details about Waffletots children. We don't need to know what day the baby was born, how much they weighed or what sex her children are. Give her support, allow her anonymity or bog off.

There was literally one.

Bugger off policing other people's posts.

Congratulations OP, lovely news.

Michnmartc1234 · 15/12/2024 14:45

Huge congratulations, so happy for you, you really are remarkable and have dealt with all this in such a dignified way x x

Christmasalreadyinourhouse · 15/12/2024 15:11

Congratulations!!! All the best to you OP. What a strong and level headed woman you are! xx

ThoseWhoDance · 15/12/2024 15:15

💐xxx

OVienna · 15/12/2024 15:31

Congrats, Waffletots! Wishing you all the best.

Muddledandmiddle · 15/12/2024 16:27

Huge congratulations! I’m so glad you have such a great family around you. Go be happy 💐

Overjiggly · 15/12/2024 16:45

Congratulations!! Xx

ExhaustedHousewife · 15/12/2024 16:48

2025willbemytime · 15/12/2024 13:49

Please those posters who are, stop asking for identifying details about Waffletots children. We don't need to know what day the baby was born, how much they weighed or what sex her children are. Give her support, allow her anonymity or bog off.

Who made you the gatekeeper?

ExhaustedHousewife · 15/12/2024 16:49

Enjoy your baby waffletots💖

Badgerandfox227 · 15/12/2024 16:53

Massive congratulations OP xxx

NotMyCircus99 · 15/12/2024 17:28

Congratulations on the safe arrival of little one, op! It’s actually quite frightening how so very many men can be utterly duplicitous Jekyll and Hydes in life, scary.

2025willbemytime · 15/12/2024 17:39

There was more than one, I'm no gatekeeper but some people are hard of thinking..

Battyfumworts · 15/12/2024 17:57

Congratulations @Waffletots , you are amazing!

Diva66 · 15/12/2024 18:12

Congratulations, wishing you and your children all the very best.

Lostinbrum · 15/12/2024 18:42

Congratulations waffletots on your new baby waffle :) fabulous news x

MsDogLady · 15/12/2024 18:55

Fantastic news that your new little precious person has arrived! ❤️

Witknit · 15/12/2024 19:03

Congratulations! You are fabulous and the have a mummy they can be so very proud of xxx

CaribbeanCupcake · 15/12/2024 19:24

Congratulations! Your babies are very lucky to have such a strong mama, you're going to be absolutely fine without that joke of man x

GratitudeGoddess · 15/12/2024 20:02

♥️🎉 You are a star and may you always shine bright ⭐💐Congratulations @Waffletots

jumpintheline · 15/12/2024 20:05

Congratulations OP, what a super hero you are. Hope you are recovering okay and enjoying your two teeny waffle tots. Hope you’re being well supported by your family x

JaffavsCookie · 15/12/2024 20:06

Congratulations OP, stay strong too xx

Goldengirl123 · 15/12/2024 20:07

Congratulations and thank you for letting us know. I have been thinking about you

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