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I know his secret…. Thread 3

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Waffletots · 10/12/2024 18:35

Starting another thread because the last one is full.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5226374-i-know-his-secret-but-how-do-i-play-this?page=1

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5226809-i-know-his-secret-thread-2?page=1

Thank you so much everyone for your messages, I appreciate them so much and you have truly helped me this past crazy few days to know I have so many people supporting me.
I’ve seen a solicitor this afternoon who has given me some good advice regarding finances and the legalities when it comes to our jointly owned home, a lot to get my head around but I feel a lot more informed now!
I’ve missed two calls from my husband since I last updated, I’m worried he’s going to come to the house to try and speak to me but hoping he may think my brother is still here and not bother!

I know his secret but how do I play this? | Mumsnet

I have been married for five years to who I thought was a wonderful man, we have a child and one on the way. Last night I received a text from his fe...

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5226374-i-know-his-secret-but-how-do-i-play-this?page=1

OP posts:
ProfTeeCee · 15/12/2024 05:23

Congratulations!! What a woman! 😃

beeteefee · 15/12/2024 06:15

Congratulations x

Coopee · 15/12/2024 06:15

Congratulations Queen 👸💕🙌🌸💝💐💫

pestowithwalnuts · 15/12/2024 06:35

Fabulous news Well done love.

IdgieThreadgoodeIsMyHeroine · 15/12/2024 06:50

Wonderful news! You are amazing, @Waffletots, and your children are lucky to have you.

Beentheredonethat0 · 15/12/2024 07:02

Oh Waffletots ... amazing news, congratulations 🥳 on the safe arrival of your new baby!
Enjoy your bonding bliss bubble of love 💝 with the new arrival. And just before Xmas, how lovely.
Main thing is you have your family around you to support you.
Best wishes 💝💝💝

Mrsredlipstick · 15/12/2024 07:02

Congrats. Happy news.

2025willbemytime · 15/12/2024 07:58

Oh that has made me teary. Congratulations @Waffletots A lovely new baby with the most aunties in the world. Well done you!

Kitjo · 15/12/2024 08:05

A mini waffle 👍👍👍 congratulations 🥳

allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 15/12/2024 08:32

@Waffletots absolutely the best news on here for ages!! you are doing well and thanks to your strength and the support of all your loving family, I feel that you and your children will be fine. far better for children to have one happy parent than two angry parents if you had decided to forgive his for the bomb! hope you all have a lovely time with your christmas baby. xxx

Silvers11 · 15/12/2024 08:39

Congratulations 🎊 👏 💐 @Waffletots . Enjoy your 2 beautiful children. Your stbx has behaved abominably. Stay strong.

lifeturnsonadime · 15/12/2024 08:47

Massive congratulations OP Flowers

What a dickhead he is, centring himself once again. He doesn't deserve any of you.

Enjoy your baby these are precious times for all of you.

namechangeGOT · 15/12/2024 08:48

Congratulations @Waffletots a lovely new baby for you! No matter what, just think what you've just accomplished - without him! And no matter the difficult road that is coming, you can do it! Well done you!

Mumofthree2024 · 15/12/2024 08:49

Waffletots · 14/12/2024 21:27

Hi everyone, just a quick update!
Baby is here safely, I won’t say when they were born for obvious reasons or many details. Apart from thankfully it was (very!) quick and I had my mum for support (sadly so quick my sister in law didn’t make it!) but arrived not long after, she was very shocked to see me with a baby on my chest!
My husband has been informed by my family, nothing from him yet in way of asking to see either of our children just the usual “woe is me” messages, no actual explanation or apology but I now know to expect nothing more.
I worried when I had the baby I would feel weak and want our “family unit” back… but looking at my two treasures, I know I can get through anything and we all deserve more, I will never, ever go back.
Thanks so much for all the support, I will post again as and when I can x

Massive congratulations!
enjoy your babies 🥰

Thursdaygirl · 15/12/2024 08:51

Congratulations OP!

MildredSauce · 15/12/2024 09:05

Congratulations you fab woman x

lizzyBennet08 · 15/12/2024 09:09

Congratulations.

Nothing like the arrival of a gorgeous baby to make you see what's truly important in life ( and it's not him)

Sortalike · 15/12/2024 09:13

Congratulations Waffle! and welcome to the world little Waffle. Your mummy is a legend x

DollieBantrysPantry · 15/12/2024 09:16

Huge congratulations Waffle ❤️

FungusTap · 15/12/2024 09:25

So pleased for you Waffle, many congratulations.

SquashedSquashess · 15/12/2024 09:26

I’ve just read your posts on all three threads OP, I’m blown away by your strength and resolve! Your family also sound amazing. And congratulations on the arrival of your new little one!

Your ex sounds like a total scumbag. Keep up that resolve, a man who would treat you that way and then have the audacity to guilt trip you about the consequences of his own actions is no man at all.

Wishing your family unit all the best as you move forward together.

SavingChristmas24 · 15/12/2024 09:31

Huge congratulations to you. I have been thinking about you. Stay in the new born bubble as long as you can!

dunBle · 15/12/2024 09:38

Congratulations Waffles. I'm glad all went well, and I hope DC1 is excited to have a new little sibling, but I can't believe how utterly self-absorbed your STBXH is.

HereComesColinFrissell · 15/12/2024 09:41

Congratulations 😊 enjoy your gorgeous newborn

fairydust11 · 15/12/2024 09:42

Huge Congratulations 💐

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