Dh making us drive in red warning

[BlueFoxel]

It just so happens dh and I have been on the Welsh coast for the past few days enjoying a mini break before our wedding. Was sent the emergency alarm earlier today. We are due to set off tomorrow morning in the middle of the red warning for wind. I have shared my concerns with dh but he really does not care at all. Dh thinks I am dramatic at the best of times and has totally dismissed my fears. He has a football game he is wanting to drive back home for. He is very arrogant

I am really bloody stressed out.

Please tell me I am being crazy and everything will be fine.

Well he's a prick you are better off without, my dear

I'm in the Red zone, the local weather reporter this evening said anyone driving on the motorway in the Red zone will be risking their lives.

Sure but that leaves the east, south east and the north etc.

Well there’s your answer right there. I’d say good luck but as a veteran stop it’s not even more shiny it gets worse

Yes, we do. We the plan is to set off at 8:30 in the morning.

Why didnt you leave alone?

Why are you allowing him this power over you?

Why are you accepting, and marrying, such a selfish person?

Forget the weather, this guy has his own Red Warning all over him.

Is this man your husband?

You're calling him your DH but you say you went away before your wedding.
Have you been married in Wales?

@IkeaJesusChrist almost the entire country is under at least a yellow warning - see the map here:

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We are in the south east and winds about 50mph are predicted here. It was gusty for about half an hour last night and there was a tree blocking the road on the school run this morning.

Enjoy it he won’t give a shit in a few months your panicking because he doesn’t give a fuck and he really doesn’t and you do think about that. And think hard 👍

South east England is in the south.

Take a look at the Met Office site.

Winds up to almost 60mph as far north as York .....

Is it your car or his? If it's yours keep the keys and he can find his own way home. If it's his and he won't budge try to work out a way to stay another day and get home another way. Repeat - do not marry this shithead.

Sorry no, “dh” is my fiance but we have been together for 10+ years so I often refer to him as my hubby

I can't imagine the Severn Bridge will be open tomorrow morning.

So he's not your husband .

That's something at least.

This won't get any better, you know.

Leave him

Any insurance you have such as travel or car will be null and void if something happens and you need to claim. More morbidly, if either of you have life insurance and the worst was to happen, the insurer would likely look to deny any claim.

That's because wind is a pain in the arse for stallholders!

Don't marry this man. Take it as a sign from the universe or whatever God you believe in.

Read This over and over 👍

Dh is just so weird with authority or being told what to do. I said earlier let’s make sure we have our mobiles fully charged and he told me to I was being ott.

His misplaced arrogance is horrendous.

Right in the middle of the red warning?

you are nuts if you get in a car at that time.

Why are you marrying him?

Seriously, there are red flags all over this relationship.

He's not 'weird' - he's selfish and downright stupid.

I would assume that the bridge will be closed. Red alert is only until 11am, can't you just set off after that? The chances of something bad happening are probably small but there is a risk of falling trees/branches/flying debris.

Why are you tolerating it, though? Why not just say ‘no, I’m not doing it’? Why does he have the authority to decide for you?

You’re not married yet. I swear to god get rid don’t marry him I’m going through hell don’t you marry him he’s not for you at all x