Need a hand hold -Part 3

[Imbluedalale]

Hi spoonies , welcome to new thread , thank you so so much for supporting me .

Chicken balls 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I wonder if he’s managed to get them off yet? Bet they used a lot of talcum powder for those!
I’m really craving a slice of Victoria sponge now .
Glad you managed to do some yoga and it’s definitely a win for today, you should be proud of yourself. I’m proud of you ❤️
How have I never heard that saying before? I love it 😂. Eldest has texted me saying he feels bad for not seeing me now and that he really misses me so that was nice to know , I just told him not to worry about it and to rest up and I’ll see him soon when he’s free xx

Hi @nornironlady , how’s the rest of your day been? Do you feel better for having an early morning walk/run. The pictures look beautiful and scenic.
I’m saddened to hear that you SEN parents have it so tough with schools but your children are so lucky to have you battling on their behalf xx

Thank you so much @Munchyseeds2 , I’ve screen shotted it and I’m definitely going to try and make it . It sounds delicious xx

@Imbluedalale I'm definitely glad i went but I'm tired now. Just had roast chicken for dinner and time for a cup of builders now 😅

I know @spoonfulofmustard I can’t actually believe it! First thing I’m going to do is put my spoon in its drawer . I’m going to get all sorted this evening and pack my suitcase and then have a long shower and watch I’m a celeb. I can’t wait for tomorrow , I honestly feel like you’re all here with me and I’ll be walking through that door with all you spoonies . Omg a door! My own front door 🚪 xx

Oh your all making me so hungry today !😂
Roasts , homemade soup, Victoria sponge .
My cup a soup just isn’t cutting it today , havnt even got a crunchie to make up for it ! Xx

ive promised a friend going through a tough time I'll watch im a celebrity along with them (i hate it 🤣 but i love her) so consider me in the background of your watching too xx

Awww your so lovely @spoonfulofmustard , I was just thinking I wish I had somebody to watch it with and now I do . Thank you xx

Hello Laura

I've read your previous 2 threads in the last 24 hours and am in awe of your tenacity and bravery. I don't have a lot to add but I want to reassure you about the school issue.

In most areas of England, if police attend incidents of DV where there are school-age children present in the house, the school is informed as a matter of course. I don't know whether or not the police attended when you were kicked out, but if they did, your DS's school will know already. The email that was suggested by another lovely poster was perfect - factual and clear - and if your school's safeguarding lead is anything like my wonderful colleague in that position, they may well be in touch tomorrow.

Best wishes for a smooth move tomorrow and lots of your MN army will be wishing you the same.

P.s I’m sorry to hear your friends having a tough time but I’m sure she will be so grateful she has you xx

Well I’m bloody proud of you Laura. Three weeks ago that darling big boy of yours was calling you a nasty word. You stayed calm and remembered that you’re the mum and he’s going through it all as well. Now he’s telling you he’s missing you 🥰

I'm worried you’re hungry though. Shall I get a Deliveroo to your hotel for you? Pm me.

Well said @Ruralretreating great advice!

Evening everyone! Laura you’re doing so amazingly well, your inner strength and wisdom are shining so bright. That’s lovely news about your eldest, and well done for replying so calmly.

I’m also getting hungry reading about everyone’s nice food! I had a fish pie in the freezer so we’re having that later, but I’m now wishing I’d gone to the effort of roasting something. Need to get a food order sorted.

Good luck for tomorrow Laura, I’ll be with you in spirit! xx

Hi @Malbecfan , thank you so much for reading my threads and for your post to me.
I still can’t believe that people want to read my threads and posts let alone be offering love and support. It’s amazing . Thank you 🙏
When ex hurt me I never reported it to the police at the time for a lot of reasons . Main one being the children as I didn’t want them being upset that he would get into trouble, another that I was ashamed and scared and I didn’t want to admit it out aloud because then it would become real. However the police are aware , when my ex broke my ribs it was obviously documented on my health records and it states on there they was concerned re DV. The police received an anonymous tip off about the DV I’m still unsure who did that maybe my mental health team? An officer rang me , she was lovely and she explained what they know and that they are worried for my safety and that they could put me in a refuge straight away but this was during my cancer treatment and so I declined and I didn’t want to go into a refuge so the police sent me an email asking me to sign that I wanted to take no further action at that time and she said her sergeant was happy with that and that if I needed any further support they would be there straight away. I’m not sure if the police contacted the school as I know they contacted social services at the time.
I hope your colleague is ok?
Thank you for wishing me well xx

Thank you so much @Apolloneuro , that’s really made me smile. That’s so lovely that somebody is proud of me ❤️
I’m hoping that me and eldest can now have a better relationship now I’m away from ex, I’m going to really try anyway.
Awww that’s so lovely but honestly I’m fine, thank you so much anyway xx

Evening @Meanwhile33 , thank you so much. Your support means everything it really does. I absolutely adore you all!
Ohhhh another thing I fancy , fish like sounds yummy . I can’t wait to make all these meals over the next few weeks . I can batch cook too whilst it’s just me for the time being.
I normally hate food shopping but I’m looking forward to doing my first food shop for the house. My daughter said she’s gutted she can’t do it with me as she loves food shopping .
Thank you for the good luck and thank you for being there in spirit I’m going to carry you all through that front door with me to start my new life xx

Well Spoonies it’s our last night with our Laura as she moves to her new home.
I hope we are still here this time next year Spoonies Thread 57 as she puts up her decs.
To every person on here who has shown support, offered help and so much more, just reading all of your posts has reminded me how kind some people are.
You are the best of MN!
Now about this book launch…..

love it! well said xx and yes about this book....

@PeggyMitchellsCameo it definitely feels like the end of a chapter. One door closing but so many opening for @Imbluedalale many more chapters to go for you. Written by you xx

Book launch outfits. We need to have group thinking on it. Nobody wants to clash in OK! magazine do they?

😂😂😂😂😂

god forbid someone comes as a spatula 😱

For @Imbluedalale and the gang….

We’re settling in for one last night with our fave of the Rooneys,
But in this MN jungle we found our own Queen,
She’s the bravest knicker-knocker we have ever seen,
This time next year we can have a mass Zoom and all tune into The Goonies,
Here’s to a year of our Extra new home, with a suite dedicated to the Spoonies!

@PeggyMitchellsCameo love the Goonies 😂

Evening Laura and all the Spoonies 😀 Sorry you have a sore throat Laura, hope it eases quickly. Well that is a complete turnaround by your son considering the nasty names he was calling you. I’m so pleased he says he misses you. Don’t worry about the ex’s money influencing your children, they will quickly recognise that money is no replacement for a kind loving mum who cares about them..
When you walk through your new front door tomorrow, will all be walking through it with you in spirit, cheering you on.
I will be watching I’m a Celebrity tonight too and will be thinking of you, almost like group watch lol.
Hope you manage to sleep tonight ready for an exciting day tomorrow 🥄🌼🌸