My DH and me have been arguing about this hypothetical thing for months and neither can see one another's view
My sister is v well off. Successful in her career and her husband has family money. They have 3 kids. Their house is well over £1m. They drive fancy cars.
H's sister is on benefits. Never worked. 6 kids . Lives in cramped house.
If we won millions in the lottery (i know, silly argument) I said we would give both sisters the same as they are both our sisters. H tells me this is beyond mad and of course you'd give much much more to his sister and possibly just gifts to my sister.
He tells me im being some awful person thinking they should both get the same. He says its beyond comprehension that we would give the same to each one and I need my head checked.
I need your views!!
(Obviously it's an issue that will never be an actual issue!)