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Partner won’t marry me (thread 2)

344 replies

Everythingwillbeokk · 04/10/2024 18:53

Continuation of the thread of the same name 😁

OP posts:
BirthdayRainbow · 04/10/2024 18:59

Good luck for the talk.

Candyfluffs · 04/10/2024 19:00

Because you aren’t worth it to him so get shot. However you look at it, millions of men marry their woman. Yours is choosing not to.

Oblahdeeoblahdoe · 04/10/2024 19:01

Can we have a link to the first thread please?

Mugcake · 04/10/2024 19:04

Hope all goes well!

OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 04/10/2024 19:08

Please keep in touch with us tomorrow, ' we ' are invested in you and in particular in your safety ! as well as wanting to see you settle soon in a new home.

Yes ' we ' may be worrying unnecessarily but better safe than sorry.

BigAnne · 04/10/2024 19:14

@Everythingwillbeokk Wishing you luck.

pikkumyy77 · 04/10/2024 19:16

A word of caution about the potential letter to the landlord. Do not refer to the breakup or your ex. A lot of landlords might be wary if the prospect of domestic conflict following you to the new house.

LushLemonTart · 04/10/2024 19:20

Great a new thread.

BettyBardMacDonald · 04/10/2024 19:22

pikkumyy77 · 04/10/2024 19:16

A word of caution about the potential letter to the landlord. Do not refer to the breakup or your ex. A lot of landlords might be wary if the prospect of domestic conflict following you to the new house.

This is good advice. Just focus on your strengths as a renter (financial solvency, professional, older kids) and that it's a perfect location for the children's school.

Best of luck tomorrow, and with the house.

Eviolle · 04/10/2024 19:22

Just read previous thread, you keep going!

Hedgewitch123 · 04/10/2024 19:27

Checking in good luck op.

LePetitMaman · 04/10/2024 19:35

Good luck xx

Dontbeme · 04/10/2024 19:38

Good luck 🍀 OP

PeggyMitchellsCameo · 04/10/2024 19:40

Good luck!

Serene135 · 04/10/2024 19:47

Hope it all goes well!

TeaMistress · 04/10/2024 19:58

Good luck OP. You're absolutely right to want to get yourself and your children away from this man and into a new home without him. Hope that you are able to secure House 2. Are you looking to rent for a while before buying your own place? Keep yourself safe and if he turns nasty can you get yourself and the children to somewhere safe away from him.

Cosyblankets · 04/10/2024 20:17

Well I'm commenting to say good luck...... and place marking as I've been following other thread

ohfourfoxache · 04/10/2024 20:25

Looks like you might have to be a dog with a bone again for this property

Keep going, you can do this

blueshoes · 04/10/2024 20:34

You got this, OP. Rooting for you.

REignbow · 04/10/2024 20:40

Well the fact that you had two page document of issues with him….tells you everything you need to know.

GreyBlackLove · 04/10/2024 21:04

Everything crossed you get house 2!

Growuppeople · 04/10/2024 21:11

Really thread 2 😣

cuddlebear · 04/10/2024 21:14

Good luck OP

Londonrach1 · 04/10/2024 21:30

Good luck op .

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