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To think that 5 children growing up motherless because their Mum wanted cosmetic surgery is absolutely tragic *edited by MNHQ

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AngeloMysterioso · 26/09/2024 14:10

And actually a damning indictment of the state our society and the pressure placed on women to conform to increasingly ridiculous and unattainable standards of “beauty”??

A woman in her early-30’s has just died after having a Brazilian butt lift procedure in Gloucestershire, leaving 5 children who will now grow up without their mother. She’s not even the first woman to die after this procedure, which is known to be the most dangerous cosmetic surgery procedure commonly available- just the first to die after having it done in the UK.

What the fuck is going on?? Why are women literally putting their lives on the line trying to mimic some cartoonish Kardashian aesthetic? Is it that we place so little value on our own lives or so much value on appearance? Is it that these surgeries and treatments which were once the preserve of the rich and famous, are now available to pretty much anybody and can be performed by people with next to no qualifications?

I feel so angry for that woman, and desperately sad for her children.

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Createcreate23 · 28/09/2024 22:54

I think people are being harsh - no one deserves to die and there’s lots of things every day we all do that are risky. How many deaths among people who go skiing ?
ride motorbikes ?
etc

AmateurDad · 28/09/2024 23:22

Function · 26/09/2024 14:18

Sure - but this thread is about women. Men take up enough airspace elsewhere.

If that’s your opinion, you’re obviously entitled to it. But it was Function who mentioned men first, not the poster you’re replying to.

AmateurDad · 28/09/2024 23:23

GuPuddingRamekinHoarder · 26/09/2024 14:28

But the men’s mental health crisis isn’t brought about by women, whereas women’s crises often are.

Huh…!?!?

Tricho · 28/09/2024 23:25

Function · 26/09/2024 14:18

Sure - but this thread is about women. Men take up enough airspace elsewhere.

You brought men up.

JoBoJoBo · 01/10/2024 20:09

Josette77 · 26/09/2024 19:31

Western men prefer white models? Is that what you're saying? What Western men?

I'm a thin girl with a big booty and boobs and huge curly brown hair. I'm an ex model but not very tall and I have yet to have a man turn me down because I'm a curvy brunette. In fact most men have commented on how nice my ass is.

She did not mention the word white but the word blonde.Plenty of dark skinned women dye their hair blonde .

JoBoJoBo · 01/10/2024 20:15

tryingagaintoday · 26/09/2024 14:59

I see you have linked to the article yet ignored the plea in it from the bereaved husband for people not to engage in public conversations like this about his wife out of respect for the feelings of the five children who have lost their mother.

You must know the sort of comments you will attract starting this conversation on here. Couldn't you have just chatted in RL to people you know, where no-one but you and them will ever hear your words, rather than leave all the comments incited by this post as a permanent public record on a site available to literally anyone in the world?

Maybe op thought by highlighting the stupidity of the plastic surgery pumped up bottom woman it would prevent others taking the same plastic surgery route ?

JoBoJoBo · 01/10/2024 20:18

BoobsOnTheMoon · 26/09/2024 21:29

Five minutes FB searching reveals that one of the staff members of the "studio" where this procedure was carried out was looking for models for a discounted BBL to be done on 23rd September - that's the date this tragedy occured. Which implies it was a new procedure that they were just starting to offer, I think?

I'm appalled at this being basically unregulated. Just awful and so dangerous.

God what a tacky photo.Imagine when the injected people are older the saggy backside full of filler will resemble a potato sack .

JHound · 06/10/2024 17:08

Getonwitit · 26/09/2024 14:32

She made her choice, nobody forced her to spend thousands of pounds to mutilate herself. Now were are being asked to contribute to her funeral and that does make me mad. If she choose to prioritise her ego over buying life insurance that's her fault. Her community wants a huge show off funeral, they can pay for it. I doubt any money raised would be spent on her children's education after all that community don't value education.

What be community? People who have cosmetic surgery? How do you know they don’t value education?

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