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Original poster

To kick dh out after he invited an 18 yr old girl to our house last night and sha""ed her in my bed while I was on a night shift?

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totaleclipse · 13/03/2008 18:17

Of course he says he only nearly did, but changed his mind at the last minute......yeah yeah whatever!!!!!!

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mumofdjandpandbump · 13/03/2008 18:18

oh golly how on earth did you find out?

nametaken · 13/03/2008 18:19

changed his mind about what? Inviting her, or actually shagging her in your bed?

Ineedacleaner · 13/03/2008 18:19

What???? And he told you this, I would have booted him more than out in the plums would have been a good start.

Overrun · 13/03/2008 18:20

yanbu - that would be a kick out offence for me [agnry] on your behalf

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totaleclipse · 13/03/2008 18:21

When I arrived home he said 2 friends (I male and 1 female, I know them both) came over for drinks and a game of cards, he was acting a bit perculier and kept emphasising (sp) that the male friend was there, I was intantly suspicious, and after a little thought checked the empty beer cans in the bin, one of which contained a used condom.

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KerryMum · 13/03/2008 18:21

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Ledodgy · 13/03/2008 18:22

Bloody hell!! Are you ok? Well of course you're not ok. What are you going to do?

poshwellies · 13/03/2008 18:22

kick out offence!!??-more like a hanging at dawn offence-cheeky b'strd!

CarGirl · 13/03/2008 18:23
Shock
bethoo · 13/03/2008 18:23

get rid of him.

Ledodgy · 13/03/2008 18:23

I assume your kids were at home in bed as well?

poshwellies · 13/03/2008 18:24

what a fucking twat

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totaleclipse · 13/03/2008 18:24

well, I will be asking advice on the lone parents board very soon, I am knackered as I have no slee, been awake now since 6.15 yesterday morning. I was supposed to be working tonight too, but had to call in today and resign with no notice.

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totaleclipse · 13/03/2008 18:25

Yes, te kids were asleep in bed, what if they had woken up and found a strange woman in my bed, they are only little??

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jammi · 13/03/2008 18:25

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Ledodgy · 13/03/2008 18:26

He's a fucking bastard to dot his. Has he ever done anything like this before?

poshwellies · 13/03/2008 18:26

jeez total..Feel for you

NorthernLurker · 13/03/2008 18:26

eeek! YANBU in showing him the door!

winniethewino · 13/03/2008 18:26

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Youcannotbeserious · 13/03/2008 18:26

FLippin' hell....

You are so not being unreasonable.......

pelafina · 13/03/2008 18:27

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Original poster
totaleclipse · 13/03/2008 18:27

he is a flirt, but am quite sure he has'nt done this before.

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Lulumama · 13/03/2008 18:27

you would not be being unreasonable to be wearing his bollocks as earrings right now !

get thee a shit hot solicitor and make him sorry he was ever such a moronic, selfish ,faithless sod

OverMyDeadBody · 13/03/2008 18:28

Oh my god! What a slimy wanker!

Kick him out asap. You know yanbu.

Youcannotbeserious · 13/03/2008 18:28

Get advice not only from the lon parents board but from the CAB too...

Look after you and your kids.