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To kick dh out after he invited an 18 yr old girl to our house last night and sha""ed her in my bed while I was on a night shift?

188 replies

totaleclipse · 13/03/2008 18:17

Of course he says he only nearly did, but changed his mind at the last minute......yeah yeah whatever!!!!!!

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FoghornLeghorn · 19/03/2008 21:50

Totaleclipse.
How awful

totaleclipse · 20/03/2008 00:24

davidtennantsmistress
It will be more than a brief stop on the lone parent section, the split is permenant, no-one walks over me twice, thanks for your kind words

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davidtennantsmistress · 20/03/2008 08:23

but then come on over and see us, theres always someone about to chat to if you need it.

totaleclipse · 20/03/2008 21:30

Thanks for all the advice, this will be my last posting as totaleclipse as H knows my nickname, I dont care if he reads this thread, but my life from now on is none of his business, so I will come back to MN in the near future under a new name, thanks again ladies

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Jane68 · 20/03/2008 21:31

This is a dilemma for you? He needs to go and fast, that is unforgivable and disrepectful.

runkid · 21/03/2008 10:40

Good luck

Wisp · 21/03/2008 10:53

What a shock, You'll dealt with this so well, keep being strong
Best of Luck

Expelliarmum · 21/03/2008 11:18

Trash his car, shred his important documents, slash his clothes, change the locks and sell him on ebay.
Then have a freedom party! Girls only! I'll come!

GreebosWhiskers · 21/03/2008 11:37

Best of luck to you TE (or whomsoever you reurn as ) - well done for staying strong. I'm just so & on your behalf - thank god you've got your DCs to help you feel better.

cheesesarnie · 21/03/2008 21:52

goodluck to you te!

WallOfSilence · 21/03/2008 21:56

Bon Voyage to the new you TE

And if he's reading this.... I hope your cock spontaneously erupts!!

teabreakgirl · 21/03/2008 21:58

Oh my word. Im not going to say kick him put or anything. Thats down to you. He is a prize twat though. I cant deny that! But you must feel shit. So big hugs to you. why do you have to resign? Do you not need your job more than ever now?

tensmum · 21/03/2008 22:09

I think totaleclispe works permant nights, that is why she had to resign.

teabreakgirl · 21/03/2008 22:26

good thinking tensmum. That was a bit dumb of me!! Hope you have lots of support TE.

AnneMayesR · 22/03/2008 09:21

Sorry to hear about your dumb monkey of a husband. What a stupid animal to hurt you and his kids like this. Dumb shit. Only a non-evolved lower form of life would break up his family for the sake of a shag.

Why these freaks put silly crushes and worthless relationships above the beauty of the family unit is beyond me but it is one of the reasons the world and society is so fucked up. He's obviously something less than human so forget his nasty ass. I hope he keeps that nasty piece of work away from your kids. What a bad influence she is. If my daughter behaved like that I would disown her.

Good luck to you. You sound like a trooper.

naturalblonde · 23/03/2008 22:08

So sorry you're going through this TE.
He seems like a total w*nker for doing this to you, but you seem to be a very strong, sensible person, and I'm sure you'll get through it just fine in the end.

muchhappiernow01 · 11/03/2009 22:00

I dont know if anyone remembers this, just thought I would let you all know, I am happy and settled on my own, it will be a year on Friday since that awful day, but it seems the whole thing was a blessing in disguise, he is still with her but it looks like things are turning sour from what people tell me, anyway, just thought I would let you all know that I am fine and am pleased now that we are seperated, I could'nt change my name back to totaleclipse to post here as I now have a different email address.

FiveGoMadInDorset · 11/03/2009 22:01

I remember the thread. Good for you and wishing you a very happy future.

AnyFucker · 11/03/2009 22:03

just read the thread

good for you and well done for drawing a line under that abusive behaviour

Hangingbellyofbabylon · 11/03/2009 22:04

It's great to hear how well you're doing, I remember the thread as well and what a painful time it was.

ScottishMummy · 11/03/2009 22:15

hi,yes i recall this and took part.glad to hear you are ok.phew what a bloody year for you

do take care

x

muchhappiernow01 · 11/03/2009 22:18

Thanks all

dizzydixies · 11/03/2009 22:23

oh good for you and thanks for coming back to let us know

LadyOfWaffle · 11/03/2009 22:25

Glad you're much happier - well done for staying strong

Haribosmummy · 11/03/2009 22:25

Gosh - I remember the thread - I recognised the title and thought 'surely, not another one'... So pleased you are doing well on your own.... and, as Dizzy said, thanks for coming back to let us know!