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To think Catherine Tyldesley is a CF - cakegate

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eatsleepfarmrepeat · 03/08/2023 21:26

I can’t help but feel that when you’re in a position of privilege and a celeb of any description, you shouldn’t by asking small independent businesses for free shit...

But, if you do, at least own it. The video of her belittling “the cake lady” really shows what a tramp she actually is.

https://news.sky.com/story/amp/catherine-tyldesley-ex-coronation-street-star-hits-back-after-bizarre-row-over-free-cakes-12932578

Cakegate: Ex-Coronation Street actress Catherine Tyldesley hits back after 'bizarre' row with Three Little Birds Bakery over free cakes

Three Little Birds Bakery said it declined a request from an events agency to make a cake and 100 cupcakes for the birthday of a "well-known" celebrity - later revealed to be Tyldesley - in exchange for promotion on social media and in a magazine.

https://news.sky.com/story/amp/catherine-tyldesley-ex-coronation-street-star-hits-back-after-bizarre-row-over-free-cakes-12932578

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ChocolateCinderToffee · 03/08/2023 22:45

HazelHair · 03/08/2023 22:39

Whoever is giving this actress PR advice needs sacking!

She probably ignored advice from her PR company. The first thing you learn in PR is if you’re in the wrong, own up. Apologise. Offer to make it right.

GellerYeller · 03/08/2023 22:46

Totally agree - the influencer ‘industry’ seems it would benefit from some stringent regulation to eliminate this culture of exploiting small firms.
Her cakes look incredible too.

TellerTuesday · 03/08/2023 22:46

Katie Hopkins take on it had me howling. Even despite the dodgy accent

www.instagram.com/reel/CvcE9jSA3h_/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

MillWood85 · 03/08/2023 22:47

All "influencers" are grifters and all giving them something does is make all their other wannabe grifter pals get the same. It doesn't ever translate to sales or money.

DH and I run a small business, and we're plagued by local charities and schools (especially private expensive ones) asking for donations. I will have the confidence to reply more honestly from now onwards.

Wishitsnows · 03/08/2023 22:48

Didn’t know who CT was, sounds like she may have been known years ago. She has utterly embarrassed herself and shown how spiteful she is. Also, in the clip she couldn’t stop touching her nose. Was she known to do drugs before? Just looked like she had done some.

Dillane · 03/08/2023 22:48

I think CT comes across as completely crass and devoid of class.

Gilmorehill · 03/08/2023 22:48

Talkwhilstyouwalk · 03/08/2023 22:19

I had no idea who she was and had to google her. Anyone who goes looking for #ad opportunities and freebies is probably not #winning at life. She's probably not that wealthy either. She's a CF but could be struggling to afford her lifestyle. Poor her!

I’ve been wondering if she’s struggling to afford a ‘celeb’ lifestyle when she apparently hasn’t had a decent acting job for some time. It doesn’t excuse expecting other people to fund it.

Freepo · 03/08/2023 22:49

I’ve never liked the saying “you don’t ask, you don’t get” because some things should not be asked as they are so cheeky - and this is one of them.

The request cheeky and crass but not the worst crime, and I’m sure it happens all the time, but if she had just apologised I wouldn’t think all that badly of her for asking, but her response is dreadful

JudgeJ · 03/08/2023 22:51

CaramelMac · 03/08/2023 21:43

It’s pathetic really, she can afford a party and a company to organise her party but she doesn’t want to pay for the cake? All fur coat and no knickers.

She probably doesn't want to pay for any part of her party, all the suppliers should be prostrating themselves for the honour of feeding her and her 'celeb' friends. News for her, a large percentage of the population have never heard of you, me included!

Talapia · 03/08/2023 22:51

It's appalling , the very epitome of cheeky -fuckery.

CT should now actually pay for some cakes from the 'cake lady ' and give them to a families who can't actually afford nice treats like this.

How fucking grabby and tone deaf to society can she be

Youcancallitpettybutsee · 03/08/2023 22:55

The bakery has got so much more exposure from this email than it ever would have got from donating to catherine

To think Catherine Tyldesley is a CF - cakegate
ginghamstarfish · 03/08/2023 22:55

I don't know why anybody ever follows these pathetic scroungers or buys anything they 'endorse' - it's all meaningless to those of us with any intelligence. Same as those annoying Amazon reviews ' Vine review of free product' with the fake gushing twaddle about how marvellous xxx product is. Clearly they all say good things so as to keep on getting free stuff. I completely disregard all paid for reviews, otherwise known as advertising.

Exmacgirl · 03/08/2023 23:01

I know the girl who does her makeup...all for free for the 'exposure', even for the BAFTAs. CT doesn't even pay her expenses for travelling to Manchester or London from York. Seems to be the norm with these Z-listers. No idea why the MUA does it (apart from it seems to attract more 'celebs' wanting free makeup).

BalloonieBalloonie · 03/08/2023 23:02

I own a balloon business and I can’t tell you the amount of times we’ve been contacted by the “PR” company of someone famous asking for free balloon displays. Usually they are after displays in excess of £500 in exchange for ‘exposure’ on social media.
It drives me mad!!!

They literally google party shops/bakers/photographers etc near to the event & send every one they can the exact same email & hope for a response. I’m in touch with three or four ladies who own similar businesses to me & all were contacted to install balloons in a big well known shop for a celebs clothing launch for free!! Like the PR company are being paid, the store is being paid, the ‘designer/famous person’ is being paid but the ones who make it all look pretty - provide the balloons / cakes etc have to work for free!!!

And as for the celebs, they may not specifically ask for the items for free but I’m sure it is explained to them how using these PR companies works. I work with event planning companies, they don’t ask for things for free but PR companies seem to think it’s acceptable for some reason.

I say good on “the cake lady” from “the balloon lady”!!!! 😂😂

Justleaveitblankthen · 03/08/2023 23:04

What will she do about the party now I wonder? Jason Manford has already been booked to attend apparently 😂

HRTQueen · 03/08/2023 23:05

She made herself look totally self absorbed and tone deaf

Im glad the Bec owner the of the bakery business is getting so much support

I have no doubt both CT pr team (if she has one) and the events company have been trying to find something negative towards the bakery but the support is thankfully overwhelming

DinoSaw · 03/08/2023 23:07

CaramelMac · 03/08/2023 21:43

It’s pathetic really, she can afford a party and a company to organise her party but she doesn’t want to pay for the cake? All fur coat and no knickers.

I’m pretty sure as the story developed it transpired NVRLND (pronounced Neverland) are t getting paid either. So a free party organised by free event organisers.

or perhaps not now.

Do you think we’ll get a ‘ruined birthday’ article in OK or will they pull a spa/city break/luxury holiday out of the bag?

Youcancallitpettybutsee · 03/08/2023 23:08

Just watched the clip in the link. I find the speech utterly bizarre. What was CT thinking 🤔

AnneAnon · 03/08/2023 23:09

She looks like she could do with a great big slice of cake, to be fair.

EffYouSeeKaye · 03/08/2023 23:11

Just awful. What a grabby cow. The frequent touching of her nose and neck also indicates lying.

Rockschooldropout · 03/08/2023 23:11

Justleaveitblankthen · 03/08/2023 23:04

What will she do about the party now I wonder? Jason Manford has already been booked to attend apparently 😂

Is he doing it for exposure too 🤣🤣

AnneAnon · 03/08/2023 23:11

The theme was “camp as tits” apparently 😭😭

StillWantingADog · 03/08/2023 23:11

fusspot23 · 03/08/2023 21:46

I didn't like the comment about 'hoping the bakery got the exposure it desperately wanted.'

Really bitter and nasty.

Indeed the bakery didn’t know it was her. The bakery has only got exposure since CT did that awful video. I don’t really know who she is other than she was on strictly but I def don’t think much of her now!

FatherJackHackettsUnderpantsHamper · 03/08/2023 23:19

All "influencers" are grifters and all giving them something does is make all their other wannabe grifter pals get the same. It doesn't ever translate to sales or money.

Yes, exactly. You just mark yourself out as a mug and an easy touch, so that brings all the other grifters to the yard!

I always think the same with The Apprentice, when the people running shops and businesses are beaten right down to the bone on their prices by the contestants - just so that they can end up with more profit than the other team.

Is it actually a good thing to be seen on national TV, clearly willing to drop your prices to a crazy low level, if people twist your arm (and say "Well, I saw that you did it for them!") ?

Bluebellysmell · 03/08/2023 23:20

Katie price was begging for cake too a few days ago. After a themed cake with 3 days notice posted on her IG, which fits with one of her kids birthdays.
Didn't say she wanted it for free, but the implication is there.
Don't know many bakers who can drop everything and fit a cake in at a couple days notice. And if it is for her child as assumed, you know when their birthdays are surely, same day as last year and how ever many years before, why leave it to the last minute to ask?

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