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DH cheated - do I forgive him?

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ch91566 · 03/03/2023 11:14

Looking for some advice as I'm stuck at what to do.

Me and DH got married a year ago, he is close friends with a woman that he met at uni, they've always been close but I've never had a problem with this as she was in a relationship and I know her but we aren't close.

She's recently split with her partner so DH has been there to support her and help with her toddler.

DH has admitted that they slept together but has said he didn't mean for it to happen, it was a mistake and won't happen again etc.

I'm not sure what to think, do I forgive him? Any advice will be appreciated

OP posts:
Codlingmoths · 10/03/2023 05:18

Have you asked him how well that worked for her partner and how successful him just moving on and saying that’s fine when she cheated was? Since they separated it obviously wasn’t that easy to just get over, why does he expect you to be so much more of a doormat?

Gemls3123 · 13/03/2023 14:10

At this point I’d hope she’d have resolved it or moved on

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