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Sam Smith's New Music Video

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Oioicaptain · 30/01/2023 15:03

There's been criticism in the press over the sexualisation/borderline pornography on the video. I've just watched it. It just seems pretty misogynistic to me. He appears to smash a wine glass onto a woman's head and then it looks as though the women are being urinated upon (although it's not clear ...maybe it was meant to be champagne). What are other people's interpretation/views on it. I may well be mistaken.

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BernadetteRostankowskiWolowitz · 30/01/2023 15:05

I'm not watching it - don't want him to get the YouTube view count.

LaFemmeDamnee · 30/01/2023 15:05

It's been made deliberately shocking, with deniable ambiguity around the champagne/piss element, to get people talking about a mediocre pop song. It has worked.

catandcoffee · 30/01/2023 15:06

It's full of sexual fetishes. 😠

Flamingogirl08 · 30/01/2023 15:06

Haven't seen it, he is beyond annoying though so I wouldn't bother

BlackForestCake · 30/01/2023 15:07

Some people have been defending this on the grounds that Madonna, Rihanna et al made “shocking” videos in the past.

No, I don’t remember Madonna making a pop video where she was getting pissed on. This is normalising weird fetishes and it's horrible.

PSNonsense · 30/01/2023 15:07

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Spottypaperdoll · 30/01/2023 15:10

I saw it- I am quite liberal and happy for others to do whatever they wish, I don’t want my 8 year old seeing that video though

TrashyPanda · 30/01/2023 15:11

Ghastly creep.

don’t want to give him viewing figure.

pristinesurfacesGBTD · 30/01/2023 15:11

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Agree with this. He really needs to get a day job.

JusteanBiscuits · 30/01/2023 15:11

I wouldn't say it is any more sexualised than many many other videos over the last 30 years. Remember Eric Prydz Call on Me video?!!

I think it's a drag queen that the bottle hits. And I have no idea where you got the idea that it's urine being sprayed, especially as they (inc Sam Smith) open their mouths for it!

UWhatNow · 30/01/2023 15:12

Grotesque. That’s what ‘they’ should more accurately identify as.

Therellbenobutterinhell123 · 30/01/2023 15:12

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lifeturnsonadime · 30/01/2023 15:12

Are his fan base fairly young?

Seems like he's trying to normalise fetishes. Part of the same culture as Drag Queen Story time.

JusteanBiscuits · 30/01/2023 15:12

Where do you all get the idea about it being urine being sprayed??

LampLamp · 30/01/2023 15:12

He is a vile misogynist in general, so I’m not surprised.

Sirzy · 30/01/2023 15:13

He is getting the pr he wants.

but when daytime tv shows can’t show the whole video or even discuss some things in the video then that does suggest it’s not really a universally suitable video!

JusteanBiscuits · 30/01/2023 15:13

lifeturnsonadime · 30/01/2023 15:12

Are his fan base fairly young?

Seems like he's trying to normalise fetishes. Part of the same culture as Drag Queen Story time.

Drag Queen isn't a fetish though

hothands · 30/01/2023 15:14

And I have no idea where you got the idea that it's urine being sprayed, especially as they (inc Sam Smith) open their mouths for it!

So naive! Piss parties are a thing, which is what that's insinuating.

lifeturnsonadime · 30/01/2023 15:15

JusteanBiscuits · 30/01/2023 15:13

Drag Queen isn't a fetish though

Right Oh.

Must be clutching at Pearls to think that men performing a highly sexualised version of womanhood in front of kids are fetishists!

girlfriend44 · 30/01/2023 15:16

his voice is awful let alone his videos.

FOJN · 30/01/2023 15:16

And I have no idea where you got the idea that it's urine being sprayed, especially as they (inc Sam Smith) open their mouths for it!

Don't Google golden shower, you might get a shock. Piss drinking is a sexual fetish and and I didn't think the imagery in this video was ambiguous, it was all about fetishistic sexual practices. Its fine for consenting adult to do whatever they want but the video needs an age certification.

JusteanBiscuits · 30/01/2023 15:16

hothands · 30/01/2023 15:14

And I have no idea where you got the idea that it's urine being sprayed, especially as they (inc Sam Smith) open their mouths for it!

So naive! Piss parties are a thing, which is what that's insinuating.

But you get clearly shown where the sprays originate from, and it's not a human!

JusteanBiscuits · 30/01/2023 15:17

FOJN · 30/01/2023 15:16

And I have no idea where you got the idea that it's urine being sprayed, especially as they (inc Sam Smith) open their mouths for it!

Don't Google golden shower, you might get a shock. Piss drinking is a sexual fetish and and I didn't think the imagery in this video was ambiguous, it was all about fetishistic sexual practices. Its fine for consenting adult to do whatever they want but the video needs an age certification.

If your kids see this and think "oh my god, they're being sprayed with piss" then I would worry, seriously, about your kids have seen before this video!!!

Sashimito · 30/01/2023 15:21

He just makes me think of Pat Butcher.