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Sam Smith's New Music Video

385 replies

Oioicaptain · 30/01/2023 15:03

There's been criticism in the press over the sexualisation/borderline pornography on the video. I've just watched it. It just seems pretty misogynistic to me. He appears to smash a wine glass onto a woman's head and then it looks as though the women are being urinated upon (although it's not clear ...maybe it was meant to be champagne). What are other people's interpretation/views on it. I may well be mistaken.

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ArrrMeHearties · 30/01/2023 15:21

He is going for the shock factor as relevance is waning I'd say

SequinsandStilettos · 30/01/2023 15:22

Saw it. It did nothing for me personally but nor is it any more shocking than other videos trying to shock.
I was more shocked by how crap the song is and how much weight Sam has put on in seven years. Which is sizeist, I know. I am sure he would say the same about me. I just hadn't seen him in a while and wondered, whether like me, he comfort ate in lockdown. Turns out he has a yo-yo relationship with food same as I do, poor bugger. So, if being a diva/in drag/wearing a Porter type dress makes him feel better about himself, I'm not that mithered tbh.

Follycastle · 30/01/2023 15:23

I didn’t like the bit where they throw the bottle at someone’s head because it was violent. It doesn’t matter what sex the person was.

Nothing else about the video bothered me to be honest. I applaud their confidence.

Kids watching the water spraying will not automatically think of golden showers FFS.

There are much worse music videos. Much worse digital content in general.

dawnc27 · 30/01/2023 15:24

Sashimito · 30/01/2023 15:21

He just makes me think of Pat Butcher.

OMG yes!! thats it! knew he reminded me of someone but couldnt put my finger on it

MaverickGooseGoose · 30/01/2023 15:24

I can't stand him. Actually makes my skin crawl.

ItsCalledAConversation · 30/01/2023 15:25

Rihanna etc wear skimpy clothes to look sexy. I don’t see the sexy here. I see an unshaven plumber in sequins (with apologies to plumbers everywhere)

purpleme12 · 30/01/2023 15:27

I didn't even recognize him.
Although haven't stayed up to date with him and his goings on

Notjusta · 30/01/2023 15:28

Sashimito · 30/01/2023 15:21

He just makes me think of Pat Butcher.

Yes! I knew he reminded me of someone!

YellowAndGreenToBeSeen · 30/01/2023 15:28

Urgh. Give a shit about peoples fetishes but anything that would scare the horses needs to be conducted in private. Reinforces the narcissist he is and no one could fancy him more than he fancies himself. Awful song too.

LynneBenfield · 30/01/2023 15:28

He's like an RL troll, and we all know that you shouldn't feed them.

YellowAndGreenToBeSeen · 30/01/2023 15:29

Sashimito · 30/01/2023 15:21

He just makes me think of Pat Butcher.

Genius!

Hoppinggreen · 30/01/2023 15:29

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FOJN · 30/01/2023 15:30

If your kids see this and think "oh my god, they're being sprayed with piss" then I would worry, seriously, about your kids have seen before this video!!!

I don't have kids but if I did I would not want them to watch this music video. The sexual imagery is explicit and unsuitable for children. If you can't see the problem then I would worry that you are too naïve to protect your children from exposure to unsuitable material. See how this works? Now stop being ridiculous.

FilthyforFirth · 30/01/2023 15:30

I quite like his music but this video is covering up a pretty terrible song.

Getamoveon36 · 30/01/2023 15:32

Songs a bit rubbish tho….

plumduck · 30/01/2023 15:32

I used to quite like their songs back in the day

Nanatokidsdogshampsters · 30/01/2023 15:34

Saw him on Graham Norton last week won't be watching the video.
Stupid boy.

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Icannoteven · 30/01/2023 15:39

“I have no idea where you got the idea that it's urine being sprayed, especially as they (inc Sam Smith) open their mouths for it!”

oh my sweet summer child 😂

WhatATimeToBeAlive · 30/01/2023 15:41

JusteanBiscuits · 30/01/2023 15:12

Where do you all get the idea about it being urine being sprayed??

Because the men standing around the edge look as if they are all peeing into a urinal.

It's grim. But it's getting him the publicity he craves unfortunately.

Nanny0gg · 30/01/2023 15:41

JusteanBiscuits · 30/01/2023 15:11

I wouldn't say it is any more sexualised than many many other videos over the last 30 years. Remember Eric Prydz Call on Me video?!!

I think it's a drag queen that the bottle hits. And I have no idea where you got the idea that it's urine being sprayed, especially as they (inc Sam Smith) open their mouths for it!

Um - that's the whole point of them opening their mouths - the ambiguity of it...

I hate all these hyper-sexualised videos - I don't care who's made them.

And I hate that they're so easily accessible to children.

ethelredonagoodday · 30/01/2023 15:46

There have been an lot of graphic pop videos over the years, I can't really get too het up about that aspect. I will not be watching it thought as i have zero interest in SS's music.

I think SS is a bit of a twat really, and a self-obsessed one at that.

Zonder · 30/01/2023 15:46

I saw some posts on twitter saying that people don't like the fact that he's embracing his feminine side and wearing feminine clothes. I can't see anything feminine in his look or dress.

JusteanBiscuits · 30/01/2023 15:48

Oh, I am far far far from naive.

But there really is nothing to suggest to kids that that is piss being sprayed about. You can see the machine (? Possibly wrong word) it is being sprayed from. It's not coming from a human.

I don't like the video. It's just the usual boring trying to shock that pop stars have done for many many years. But I find Call Me Type videos that are basically only designed as wank material to be more offensive than this

plumduck · 30/01/2023 15:49

Don't like the smashing a bottle on someone's head. Or the massive pink dress.

But still, whatever. I'll just not watch it.

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