Lighthearted thread.
I have a DF that loves commenting on how all her friends parent their kids and all the rods they make for their own backs and how she'd do it differently blah blah. She has so much to say about everything. I have 2 DC and whilst she never comments on my parenting I often wonder if she comments about it to her other friends. Anyway DF has just had 1st baby (1 month) and has already backtracked on a few things such as co-sleeping etc. I must admit, I'm looking forward to the toddler years 😂
What did you have to backtrack on after you had kids that you never thought you would? Also tell me your funny stories of judgy friends who had kids and had to eat all their words!
AIBU?
Judgy non-parents - what did you have to back down on after you had kids?
ThirtyTwoGoingUnder · 10/01/2023 09:14
BunchHarman · 10/01/2023 15:07
I hope you’ve pointed her backtracking out to her. 😌
pictoosh · 10/01/2023 10:26
I can't wait for some mumsnetters' kids to hit their teens/early 20s.
Let's see if they think their kid is an adult now and kick them out. Heh.
pictoosh · 10/01/2023 10:26
I can't wait for some mumsnetters' kids to hit their teens/early 20s.
Let's see if they think their kid is an adult now and kick them out. Heh.
PeeAche2 · 10/01/2023 13:15
Oh yeah, I wasn’t going to gender my kids in pink etc too. I even painted the nursery green. I didn’t think it mattered if my baby looked gender-nothing.
By about 16 weeks, I was sick to death of everyone assuming my daughter was a boy. I affixed a hair clip and never looked back.
At 26 weeks (still adorned in glittery hair clip), she was flailing her legs wildly in her carrier and an old man said “he is going to make a great footballer”. That’s when I switched her blue dummy for a pink one.
Why did it bother me so much? I don’t know. Because I’m a shallow, terrible person? Because I’m a gendered old bigot? I don’t feel like one, but maybe.
Or maybe I just didn’t ruin my tits, stomach, hair, career and cream John Lewis sofa for people to keep calling my beautiful little girl “he”. FFS.
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ThirtyTwoGoingUnder · 10/01/2023 11:49
😂😂😂
These are amazing, keep them coming!
Also 'calpol for everything' 😂 I've found my people!
nc8975 · 10/01/2023 11:17
Bubblegum flavoured toothpaste! Realised the constant battle of mint toothpastes was just not worth it
Waawaa it's spicy 😩
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