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I'm being ripped off aren't I?

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sayalittleprayerr · 15/12/2022 11:15

Not in a great position with my finances so trying to sell extra bits on vinted to make extra cash for Christmas.
Sold a brand new bottle of perfume and it was delivered on Tuesday.
She was online since then every hour or so and didn't confirm delivery.
A hour before I was due to get funds released she claims it hasn't arrived.
Yodel tracking shows delivered,I have proof of postage,I spoke to yodel customer service who have checked and the drivers sat nav have showed delivery to exact location.
I'm gutted -it's £40 I need
I'm worried vinted will refund her and she has my perfume.
I've forwarded all this to vinted but not hopeful

Buyer hasn't replied to any messages either

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HotChoxs · 16/12/2022 19:21

It's possible that yodel left on doorstep and it got taken.
Your dispute is with yodel. No evidence of delivery, then they need to refund.

Mamarama2u2 · 16/12/2022 19:22

sayalittleprayerr · 16/12/2022 18:49

I have posted on a Facebook group but had my post removed by admin as I named her
Didn't think it was against the rules
Anyway vinted have been useless and basically said they can't use tracking as proof apparently as it might not be in her physical possession

The worst thing that will happen is that you both get refunded and if she is scamming she gets it for free but at least you aren’t out of pocket.

sayalittleprayerr · 16/12/2022 19:24

@HotChoxs yodel posted it through her letterbox
It wasn't left on the doorstep

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HotChoxs · 16/12/2022 19:24

sayalittleprayerr · 16/12/2022 18:49

I have posted on a Facebook group but had my post removed by admin as I named her
Didn't think it was against the rules
Anyway vinted have been useless and basically said they can't use tracking as proof apparently as it might not be in her physical possession

Why are you naming her? Out of order.

sayalittleprayerr · 16/12/2022 19:24

Why do you think she isn't responding to my messages?
Surely a genuine person would be responding
Especially as she was apparently asking her mum last night

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HotChoxs · 16/12/2022 19:24

sayalittleprayerr · 16/12/2022 19:24

@HotChoxs yodel posted it through her letterbox
It wasn't left on the doorstep

I've had things 'posted through the letterbox' and they haven't been.

sayalittleprayerr · 16/12/2022 19:25

@HotChoxs why shouldn't I ? She's clearly trying to scam me out of money
Deserves all she gets

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Esquire3 · 16/12/2022 19:26

I agree!!

sayalittleprayerr · 16/12/2022 19:26

@HotChoxs she's ignoring messages
Then popping up with my mum has the same name -maybe she took it
Il ask her and let you know -then a day later after her being active constantly doesn't message
Then when I message again asking if she's located it she ignores me

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Esquire3 · 16/12/2022 19:27

Defo a scammer,and probably doesn't even live with her mum!

girlmom21 · 16/12/2022 19:31

sayalittleprayerr · 16/12/2022 19:24

Why do you think she isn't responding to my messages?
Surely a genuine person would be responding
Especially as she was apparently asking her mum last night

If I had a seller constantly messaging me when I hadn't received an item from them id ignore them and expect vinted to resolve it

HotChoxs · 16/12/2022 19:31

If you think she's a scammer then report her to the police, she'll have done this before.
Posting on facebook groups leads you open to slander if she's not.

sayalittleprayerr · 16/12/2022 19:32

@girlmom21 I haven't constantly messaged her
She said she was going to ask her mum and let me know -she didn't so I messaged her
I know she's lying

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Highover · 16/12/2022 19:32

I use Vinted a lot to buy and sell. Before I buy from anyone I check their feedback.I won’t buy from anyone without any. Obviously you can’t do the same with people buying from me, but so far it has worked well for me and I’ve found ‘vinties’ to be a lovely crowd. Sorry you’ve had this hassle.

Iwantachange · 16/12/2022 19:33

Yikes I wouldn't respond to you either if your messages were anytjing like ur posts 🤔

NannaKaren · 16/12/2022 19:34

I have heard of problems with Vinted but used it myself and all good.
sounds like she’s being a bitch and trying it on

sayalittleprayerr · 16/12/2022 19:35

@Iwantachange hopefully nobody try's to rip you off when your trying to raise some extra money -and you won't have to be in my position

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HotChoxs · 16/12/2022 19:36

Regardless Yodel are crap. Couriers are taking photos of deliveries even if they go through the letterbox these days. They need to catch on.

ThirtyTwoSea · 16/12/2022 19:42

Iwantachange · 16/12/2022 19:33

Yikes I wouldn't respond to you either if your messages were anytjing like ur posts 🤔

I was thinking that too!

ThirtyTwoSea · 16/12/2022 19:47

And going back to my previous point, my understanding was that perfume was prohibited by Yodel as its a flammable liquid.

sayalittleprayerr · 16/12/2022 19:48

Well it was ordered from littlewoods and yodel delivered it so ...

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Tropicaliyes · 16/12/2022 19:48

@mrsjackrussell oh really? Thank you for that! I actually don’t know anyone that uses Etsy so couldn’t be sure if it was any good! I will go through it now and see what stuff are being sold and if it can work for me (I know some places only allow small items or the other way round). Ooh I’m excited now 😂🤦🏽‍♀️

Mummyto2rugrats · 16/12/2022 19:49

Only happened to me once with vinted item never arrived the buyer disputed and we both got refunded from vinted xx she maybe scamming but you have proof posted so vinted won't see you out if pocket xx

sayalittleprayerr · 16/12/2022 19:50

The buyer chose the shipping method and bought the label
All I did was use the label she chose
Surely if it wasn't allowed vinted wouldn't let me post it ...

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niugboo · 16/12/2022 19:53

I’m not sure why people are giving you a hard time. This is a known scam.