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Husband had a private lapdance

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Skye90 · 14/08/2022 22:07

On a stag do. Says he was so drunk he hardly remembers it. He wasn’t the only one but all the others are single.

Not sure how I feel about it tbh.

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5128gap · 18/08/2022 08:14

VoiceOfCommonSense · 18/08/2022 03:33

Haha all the silly people saying you should leave him and throw away your life together. Just because the feel insecure with themselves it doesn’t mean you should. It was just a lap dance. Don’t make a big thing of it. There’s bigger problems in the world. At least he was honest to tell you about it. Move on with your life..

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Haha all the silly people who think that women who hold men to certain standards and know they can do far better than some sleeze are insecure!
Don't you see that the knowledge that you can call the shots over the things that matter to you, that you can survive without some weak willed lecherous man; that an awareness that there are plenty of men who don't do this that you could be with if you wanted, is the very opposite of insecurity?

Mississipi71 · 18/08/2022 09:47

5128gap · 18/08/2022 08:14

Haha all the silly people who think that women who hold men to certain standards and know they can do far better than some sleeze are insecure!
Don't you see that the knowledge that you can call the shots over the things that matter to you, that you can survive without some weak willed lecherous man; that an awareness that there are plenty of men who don't do this that you could be with if you wanted, is the very opposite of insecurity?

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