Husband had a private lapdance

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On a stag do. Says he was so drunk he hardly remembers it. He wasn’t the only one but all the others are single.

Not sure how I feel about it tbh.

AIBU

its purely entertainment business. no different to a bar having entertainment on

@oiltrader dream on ...... you're talking rubbish and I don't believe for one moment you're genuine.

Of you trot and let the grown ups talk.

People really are as thick as their ideology requires them to be. There really is no floor to it.

How many of the women here have seen a male stripper at a hen do? How many have screamed at the male stripper to 'getemoff'? Yup

Never seen one or been to any event with a male stripper, stripogram, butler in the biff, etc.
Never been to a hen do involving any of that. Just not something that happens in my circle of family/friends.
Managed to get to almost 50y without so it's definitely possible.

😂😅

WTF, is this the cryptic clue?

Women want respect, for themselves and others!

Not acceptable apparently?

Luckily no amount of "cool wives" bleating all men do it, means that they do. Because if they did, a lot more lap dancing clubs would be open.

if you say so. however you need to wake up to reality and the modern world. we CHOOSE to do it

@Backtobacknow I should have specified that I was referring to the 'it's only a bit of entertainment silly ladies' comment

So you're talking for EVERY lap dancer? I don't think so sweetie!

You might be able to state SOME choose to do it?

I've also capitalised because you have, so hopefully it will get through to YOU, but it really is unnecessary. Most people are ABLE to read and digest WITHOUT capitals, maybe you CAN'T ?

The modern world, the one where women are getting more equality and respect day on day, I'm not sure the "traditional" stag night trope fits into that?

Did your husband get a private lap dance though?

Cryptic because I keep getting deleted so trying to keep it vague

Well thats.. quite sickening. Surely if you view a woman as being in that mental position it calls for empathy not other women looking at them down their noses and “damning” them.

If sitting at home with the children on a Saturday night while your partner goes to a strip club is your idea of excitement, the hours must literally fly by in your house.

I didn't invent the term, nor do I use it, and agree with you. However my empathy would likely be unwelcome. I'm a woman and by the very nature of the 'cool girl' mentality, my opinions would be irrelevant, provided the men approved.

@WinterDeWinter not seen you keep being deleted? Where?

we have the power. we are in charge. its a power rush to do the work. you should try it

@oiltrader stop being so inflammatory, you know by this thread alone that's not how most women feel or think.

It's all adding up to you either trolling or being a male lap dancing frequenter.

I really wonder what your agenda is here.

I remember being in one of these places 10 years ago with a few guys from work.I dont know why i went along as they do nothing for me and i had no intention of getting a dance.I made a school boy error though and paid for drinks with my debit card 😂my partner got a notification on her phone and text asking why i was in Diamond Dolls 😂I had a bit of explaining to do but she forgave me in the end .I personally think youre man deserves a second chance and only you know whether he can be trusted again.

Well, clearly it doesn’t happen then 🙄 🤷‍♀️

How many of the women here have seen a male stripper at a hen do? How many have screamed at the male stripper to 'getemoff'? Yup

Never. Don't judge everyone by your own (low) standards

Kittenmum89 · Today 16:16

Recently married and my now husband went to the strippers and i did not bat an eyelid. I actually had a laugh with him about it and the funny stories of the other stags while there. If you went to an event with say butlers in the buff or something similar or a hen where the bridesmaid hatred a stripper would you leave ?

yes I would leave. I wouldn't go anywhere near a "butlers in buff" event. It's grim and tacky.

Printed in the Daily Mail and now there are lots of dim people posting with caps lock and no grammar. Shocked.

Oh wow hi and your new husband had a giggle over him having a hard on and a few memories in the wank bank, that's soooo cute!

Love the fact in your new marriage you love the fact that your husband likes paying for sexual excitement.

Imagine how much more you'll be enjoying his including a third party to excite him after 7 years of marriage, maybe he'll upgrade to a prostitute by then, I expect you'll be having a sort of "7 year itch celebration" for him then.

Honestly, you've chosen so well.

I'm sure if you have any future daughters, you'll love them to put up with the same, maybe become Lao dancers for another husband and wife to laugh over.

If you went to an event with say butlers in the buff or something similar or a hen where the bridesmaid hatred a stripper would you leave?

I wouldn't need to, because I don't have friends who'd choose to do such tacky stuff.

There is something inherently and obviously female about making up fake statistics to justify destroying the family stability your DC depend on. It’s almost selfish.