AIBU to think this wedding invite comes across as intentionally luke warm? From my cousin whom I always thought I had a good relationship with, if not a close one. We live in the same city, I received the following via text:
“Hey BatFink,
I’m getting married in two weeks’ time.
Obviously you’re invited but I do understand with baby you may not want to come
The wedding will be at such and such church at such and such time, followed by dinner at 6pm”
That was all. As I say we’re not close but grew up together and see each other a few times a year. It doesn’t seem like a genuine invitation to me at all. Thoughts?
AIBU?
Rude wedding invite
BatFink260 · 28/04/2022 17:33
Am I being unreasonable?
1297 votes. Final results.
POLLBatFink260 · 28/04/2022 18:14
Sorry, to give more context; wedding has been planned at least a few months in advance, church was booked back in Jan, I know this as it was announced on social media. I’m not sure how many guests there will be. My siblings haven’t been invited, they live hundreds of miles away, not sure if that was a factor. My parents live locally and we’re invited before me, via telephone, by my aunt, as in my cousin’s mum.
Baby wasn’t directly invited and is 18 months.
NoSquirrels · 28/04/2022 18:51
“Obviously you’re invited” - with 2 week’s notice by text and a distinct lack of persuasive words
I’d politely decline, I suppose. Sad if you’ve always been friendly though.
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viques · 28/04/2022 19:04
I would text back and ask what the menu is for the dinner.
then text back and say sorry, you don’t fancy it………
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