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AIBU to be horrified? (content warning: sex crimes)

198 replies

Aromatica · 23/12/2021 11:17

I've read about this case where John Ernest Goodier has been charged with bestiality, child pornography, drug possession and not sticking to his sex offenders conditions.

He recently goes by the name Claire. This paper refers to him as a man but many of the others refer to him as a woman.
www.northwichguardian.co.uk/news/19682778.northwich-man-admits-sex-dog/

AIBU to be horrified that this might be reported and recorded as a woman's crime and may serve time in a woman's prison?

(Yes I did post this before but requested it was deleted, so I could post again with a poll. In the interim, the ability to add a poll has gone and I can't see any polls in AIBU. Peculiar 🤔)

OP posts:
EishetChayil · 24/12/2021 14:38

I find it difficult to understand how any woman could accept and even promote male bodies in female prisons.

Shedmistress · 24/12/2021 14:43

Female prisons are horrible so let's put some rapists in.

Yeah, should be fine.

Feelingoktoday · 24/12/2021 14:45

@EishetChayil

I find it difficult to understand how any woman could accept and even promote male bodies in female prisons.
Yes I agree. Very strange. Just why would anyone think it is acceptable. I always come back to the example of,”” if your daughter or mother …. Was in prison …….(or a hospital, /shower,/hostel, …… would you think they were safe sharing a cell/ward/bedroom with this person? No?? Of course not.,…, but some women and men are ok with other women doing exactly that!!
anon12345678901 · 24/12/2021 14:47

@EishetChayil

I find it difficult to understand how any woman could accept and even promote male bodies in female prisons.
I don't understand it either. It's crazy to me.
Adrianneanneanne · 24/12/2021 15:25

@MorningStarling

Yes, YABU "to be horrified that this might be reported and recorded as a woman's crime and may serve time in a woman's prison?"

What difference does it make whether it's a man or a woman that allows themselves "to be penetrated by a dog" - either way it's fucking disgusting and the offender should be locked up. I honestly don't understand the fuss over whether a crime is attributed to a male or a female - a rape victim is still a rape victim, a sexual assault victim is still a sexual assault victim, the gender of the attacker doesn't change that.

It also doesn't matter if this offender ends up in a female prison as far as I'm concerned - as long as they are taken out of society then all is good. Any prisoner (male or female, in any prison) who is a threat to staff or other inmates should be placed in isolation anyway.

Let's just misrepresent everything! It's only words who cares!

(If words are so insignificant why don't we call this creature what it actually is)Hmm

Ghislainedefeligonde · 24/12/2021 15:28

A lot of people couldn’t care less about female prisoners. It’s abundantly clear from some posters on this thread. They are truly one of the most oppressed groups within our society, often in prison for petty crime to fund their drug addictions / working as prostitutes etc. high numbers of female prisoners also have a learning disability. (The other group I feel are most vulnerable in our society are people with disabilities esp learning disabilities)
They are invisible in our society and face huge trauma as well as physical danger if imprisoned with a male who has history of sexual offences / violence /both.
I will never understand how it has come to pass that a male who self ids as a woman can be placed with these vulnerable female prisoners

AlfonsoTheUnrepentant · 24/12/2021 15:43

@EishetChayil

I find it difficult to understand how any woman could accept and even promote male bodies in female prisons.
I don't find it difficult at all. Some people have no common sense.
Shehasadiamondinthesky · 24/12/2021 15:48

Well you know how it is these days if you stick a bad wig on and make yourself up like a pantomime dame you're a woman.
And nobody dare say anything.

Mermaidwaves · 24/12/2021 16:04

13:14FreeBritnee

This board can be so bizarre sometimes. Parents get lambasted for shouting at their kids yet a sex offender with a penchant for fucking dogs is afforded respect and understanding.

Completely bizarre.

I totally agree with this

ErrolTheDragon · 24/12/2021 16:23

I don't get the whole wishing she does the time in a male prison.

Even if that poster can't see the objections from the POV of women prisoners, I'm a bit surprised they'd condone a move which might make things easier - or perhaps even somewhat enjoyable - for this man. Or is the whole 'prison is supposed to be nasty and I don't care if it's made nastier' thing something that should only apply to women but by all means let a bloke cock a snook at the system and get an easier ride?Hmm

CallMeRachel · 24/12/2021 16:56

@Mermaidwaves

13:14FreeBritnee

This board can be so bizarre sometimes. Parents get lambasted for shouting at their kids yet a sex offender with a penchant for fucking dogs is afforded respect and understanding.

Completely bizarre.

I totally agree with this

Absolutely agree. I’m convinced there’s some psychological reasoning behind it, but the hypocrisy is sickening.
RowsOfHolly · 24/12/2021 17:00

The punishment of being in prison is bring in prison. Not being raped by fellow inmates.

Or in the case of a trans (or any other minority) prisoner, being harassed and victimised by other prisoners.

It is respect for a civilised non vigilante approach to justice that requires us to ensure that even fie a paedophile, the punishment is loss of liberty, not being thrown to other violent inmates to experience violence. We cannot put our justice system in the hands of violent criminals!

But male bodies prisoners should not be in women’s prisons. They are shut up for long hours together in cells, vulnerable in showers etc.

ErrolTheDragon · 24/12/2021 17:07

This board can be so bizarre sometimes. Parents get lambasted for shouting at their kids yet a sex offender with a penchant for fucking dogs is afforded respect and understanding.

It's certainly bizarre that anyone would do this, but I'm pretty sure the vast majority of the people on this thread are as appalled as the OP.

Linguini · 24/12/2021 17:48

Look up Erin Pizzey, who began the women's aid refuge movement, she has something very different to say now about female violence and how underestimated it is

No one thinks women can't be violent.
Even Errin Pizzey agrees that when women are violent they still can't get other women pregnant, and still stand no chance against a male opponent.

Science Daily: But even with roughly uniform levels of fitness, the males' average power during a punching motion was 162% greater than females', with the least-powerful man still stronger than the most powerful woman. Such a distinction between genders, Carrier says, develoips with time and with purpose

Clymene · 24/12/2021 18:11

@Strangeways19

"A third of women are in prison for failure to pay their tv licence."

What? where the hell did you read that?!! Beano ??!

www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/women-ten-times-more-likely-23080559

(Cites MoJ data)

www.prisonreformtrust.org.uk/Portals/0/Documents/Women/Why%20women%202021%20briefing%20FINAL.pdf

tillytown · 24/12/2021 18:17

Its crazy how everyone can see what is happening, and how women are being harassed and abused because of it, but there are still some women cheerleading it on because they need constant male validation

mumda · 24/12/2021 19:05

So it is allowed to be asked why prisoners with penises aren't in the penis prison?

CallMeNutribullet · 24/12/2021 19:31

Sounds like a couple of posters on the thread think that women's prisons are like prisoner Cell Block H.
Most women in prison are not there for violent crime as the majority of violent crime and ALMOST ALL sex crimes are committed by men.

The reason people say things like "yeah but Rose West/Myra Hindley" is because when women commit really terrible crimes they become notorious because it's so unusual.

Women in prison are more likely to have been sexually abused, trafficked or be victims of domestic violence. If you think it doesn't really matter that they're locked up with MALE rapists because they're criminals it only demonstrates that you're a raging misogynist.

ErrolTheDragon · 24/12/2021 20:04

The reason people say things like "yeah but Rose West/Myra Hindley" is because when women commit really terrible crimes they become notorious because it's so unusual.

And of course in those cases, as with many (not all) infamous women criminals, they were the accomplice of a man.

Strangeways19 · 24/12/2021 20:11

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Strangeways19 · 24/12/2021 20:14

@ErrolTheDragon

The reason people say things like "yeah but Rose West/Myra Hindley" is because when women commit really terrible crimes they become notorious because it's so unusual.

And of course in those cases, as with many (not all) infamous women criminals, they were the accomplice of a man.

You think that women are incapable of violent crime? Could you explain the two women who systematically tortured and murdered the child Star recently reported?
ErrolTheDragon · 24/12/2021 20:19

I said 'not all'Hmm

Nomoreusernames1244 · 24/12/2021 20:23

You realise that trans people are the most targeted group?

Could you please link to the figures that back this up? I hear this all the time but no one seems to be able to provide the actual evidence that transfolk are more “targeted” than women, black, asian, gay or other at risk group.

RufustheFloralmissingreindeer · 24/12/2021 20:35

And you my friend are clearly transphobic

How?

Personally i think there is a difference between transwomen and male rapists who pretend they are women

But it sounds like you don’t…

Outlyingtrout · 24/12/2021 20:44

You realise that trans people are the most targeted group?

Targeted in what way? Source?